How to get along well with villains

How to get along well with villains, keep a plain superficial relationship, and never be as close as friends, because villains are full of malice and ruthlessness, which makes you unprepared and at a loss. Let's take a look at how to get along with villains and related information.

How to get along with the villain 1 1, don't offend the villain.

Never expose yourself alone because of a sense of justice.

Villains never consider themselves treacherous and unfriendly. They are highly sensitive, with eyes like eagles and tongues like swords. You are definitely no match.

2. Keep a certain distance from them.

Keep a simple and superficial relationship, and never be as close as friends.

Because the villain is full of malice and ruthless, you are caught off guard and can't eat any more.

3. Be cautious and polite.

If you criticize or talk about other people's privacy, it will definitely become their handle to make waves, or become a bargaining chip for revenge in the future;

If they criticize or talk about other people's privacy, you should stop immediately and don't listen to a word, because they will definitely set you up anyway.

Especially when they dial the phone to chat, they often record you by the way. This is the villain mentality.

4, don't have interests.

They are sociable and engage in small circles. They look very lively and have many benefits.

But you must never rely on them to get benefits, because they will definitely demand double returns, and you will definitely lose more because of small things.

It doesn't hurt to eat a little loss.

Because you will not only find it difficult to get justice, but also forge greater hatred; They are narrow-minded, cruel, endless with you, and you are more tired.

The ancients said: endure a calm moment; Take a step back and broaden the horizon.

You should take it as a practical lesson, so that you can grow up and win more respect.

Besides, justice lies in people's hearts. Who dares to be friends with villains?

How to get along with villains is very clever. First, keep your distance.

When working in the company, in fact, many employees want to have a good relationship with their leaders or colleagues, but many leaders always put forward some very strict and wonderful requirements and orders, which makes employees very embarrassed, so employees should also learn to keep a certain distance when getting along with leaders.

Don't always regard the leader as your good friend, because if you have no principles, no bottom line, or too many personal feelings, you will only find yourself easily used by the leader, and the leader will not give you more reasonable and fair treatment.

Second, don't take villains seriously.

Get along with colleagues or cooperate with leaders in the company. Many young people are not so relaxed, because they think the other person is a villain in the workplace, and working with them will be very tiring, but the author reminds everyone.

When you work in a company, don't take the villain seriously, because in their view, if you always have contradictions and conflicts with them, the other party will not respect you, but will often laugh at you because of your work in the company, and even take advantage of your weakness, so every young person should never belittle his value in the company.

Third, learn to bear hardships.

Learning to suffer losses is actually a rule used by many professionals because they don't want to offend leaders and villains. Therefore, in order to strengthen the feelings between colleagues, in fact, these professionals are forced to take some responsibilities voluntarily or reluctantly, but in the eyes of leaders, it is natural for employees to take responsibility in the company.

And young people should also strive for their own interests in the company. Sometimes it is a blessing to suffer, but there is no need to always bear some responsibilities that do not belong to you in order to cater to others. That will definitely lead to a bad reputation in the company, which is actually extremely unfavorable for future development.

1, say hello often and talk less.

The villain's heart is particularly sensitive. If you despise it and make the villain unhappy, it will easily become the target of the villain, making it impossible to prevent. Avoiding confrontation with villains is the first principle of getting along with villains. Don't talk to the villain, because if you say too much or make a mistake, you will inevitably be calculated by him, but you have to say hello, or you will be in trouble if you are targeted by the villain.

2, do not refuse to come and go, but never take the initiative.

Little people put interests first, and everything they do comes first. He is mercenary. Little people don't talk about feelings, only about the exchange of interests. The villain must have come to you for a purpose. We avoid it, and it is not worthwhile to make enemies instead of tit for tat. We often make small losses and settle things. More can't take the initiative to associate with the villain, the sheep will be delivered to the door, and the villain will definitely not show mercy.

Never make friends or break up.

Treat the villain, you will feel inferior if you are near, and you will complain if you are far away. If you associate with the villain too deeply, he will definitely push his luck, stay away from the villain and provoke resentment. So don't break up, that is, you can't go deep behind enemy lines, which will not only hurt your own interests, but also hurt your reputation. Just nod your head and take precautions, and you will be safe.

4, you can give benefits to the villain, don't take advantage of the villain.

The biggest feature of villains is that they never suffer losses and exchange profits at the expense of morality, so the world often has nothing to do with them. In the face of villains, we can give them small favors, win them over, convince people with virtue and avoid becoming the real target of villains. If you are obsessed with ghosts and want to profit from small people, you must not have a low bottom line and ruthless means. I'm afraid you stole rice, lost your wife and lost your soldiers.

How to get along well with villains 3 1 If you meet someone who is cheating, you will be sincerely moved.

Interpretation: when you meet a sly person, impress him with a sincere attitude;

It is estimated that everyone is puzzled by this sentence, because most of them uphold the principle of "I will treat others as others treat me", just as Mencius said, "People who love others will always love others; Those who respect others will always respect others. " But why should you treat others sincerely when they are cunning and cheat you?

Because if you answer blows with blows, you will also become a deceiver, which will only escalate the contradiction and ruin your own moral character, and ultimately lose more than you gain. Therefore, when you meet a cunning villain, don't haggle with him, be generous, and move him with a sincere attitude. Maybe you can get unexpected control effects and turn your enemy into your friend, just as Zeng Guofan said: "When you meet a treacherous person, you can't measure it. If you treat him sincerely, you will be poor. "

2. In case of violent people, smoke them with kindness;

Interpretation: when you meet a rude and surly person, infect him with a peaceful mind;

As the saying goes, "It takes two hands to make a sound." Those rude and surly people are like a mad dog, biting everyone. If you are influenced by them and angered by them, you can argue with him. This is a typical "dog bites dog, one mouthful hair", which is not only not conducive to easing the incident, but also easy to lower your level and quality. Therefore, the more you meet a rude and surly person, the more you want to infect him with a peaceful attitude, the more you will make him feel ashamed, and then his mood will gradually ease down.

Everyone has his own difficulties and is eager for sympathy and understanding from others. The more violent a person is, the more he longs for recognition, understanding and respect. Therefore, when you treat him with a gentle and sincere attitude, you can often walk into his heart better and really educate and control him.

3. In case of evil private pleasure, encourage it in the name of moral integrity.

Interpretation: When you meet an evil and selfish person, inspire him with morality and integrity.

There is a saying in philosophy that "what you think is what you see", which is what you think in your heart, and you will see it in your eyes!

Well, frogs can't talk to people in the sea because their vision is limited by their small living places; Summer insects can't talk to ice makers because their vision is limited by seasons; For those evil and selfish people, don't blame them blindly, but use morality and integrity to influence and inspire them, because such people are ignorant and lack of education, and need great principles (benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom, softness, courtesy, frugality and other virtues) to broaden their horizons, and then raise their own pattern.

Those evil and selfish people are short-sighted and narrow-minded, and many behaviors are instinctive like animals. Therefore, we should try our best to broaden their horizons and let them know "morality, kindness and integrity": being a man should not only think for himself, but also for everyone or the big environment.