Is there anyone who was abandoned after giving birth? What do these parents think?

Thank you for your invitation. Cheng will answer.

About 654.38 million+babies stay behind in China every year.

Give up. Abandon a newborn baby

A social phenomenon, the parents of the parties concerned

Either because the baby is sick, or because he prefers boys to girls.

There are many reasons for son preference, but its essence

This is against morality and law.

Because.

Children watching videos together

First, why do you want to have children?

To a large extent, giving birth to a child is

The needs of human reproduction and social development.

With the rapid decline of birth rate.

, the state timely adjustment, full liberalization.

The second child policy encourages people to have more children.

Education highlights the country's emphasis on population development.

Depending on the degree.

From a small point of view, the purpose of the family is

Is to have children and carry on the family line,

This is one of the basic functions of the family.

Imagine if you didn't have children,

You don't have to get married for a living. marry

Yes, it is to have children and raise children.

Inherit the blood and honor the ancestors. Traditional view

Reading still occupies people's thoughts and influences.

Keep in mind people's concept of fertility, fertility and parenting.

Children are people's desire and guidance.

Universal two-child policy

Having children is necessary to prevent old age. today，

Social living standards and people's life expectancy

With continuous progress, China has entered the old age.

In an aging society, the aging rate in China is positive.

Gradually improve.

Second, why is there a phenomenon of abandoned baby?

The vast majority of abandoned babies are

A disabled baby. Per capita in China

There will be a disabled freshman in 30 seconds.

The baby was born.

In the final analysis, abandoned babies are caused by some people.

The baby is sick, son preference, born out of wedlock.

Education, etc. , shirk social responsibility,

Special social phenomenon of reducing personal burden

Elephant. Since the beginning of this year, many areas have often

There was an abandoned baby incident.

One day in late spring this year, the northern city of China.

An old man in Zhangjiakou went out for activities.

I found one in the grass beside me.

Wrapped in a quilt, sallow and emaciated, weak.

Crying, I don't know how long I've been abandoned.

Baby.

He went home immediately, holding a baby girl in his arms, and bought it immediately.

Buy milk powder to feed, the baby girl is in stable condition.

After that, he arranged for his family to hold the baby girl to Pai.

Report the case.

abandoned baby

After inspection, the police immediately dealt with the baby girl.

After handling relevant formalities and certificates, contact.

Was sent to the Municipal Maternal and Child Health Hospital.

The police quickly determined that the abandoned baby was a woman.

Baby, when his father did something, he admitted his mistake and did it.

Promise to take the child home to raise it.

Bail pending trial. This baby girl is unlucky.

Fortunately.

And many unfortunate abandoned babies failed to return to their fathers.

Most of them live with their children beside their mothers.

Some welfare homes were adopted by people.

What's more, some abandoned babies are gone.

The world. People's experience of abandoned babies is profound.

Feel sorry.

Third, what is the nature of abandoned baby?

Question?

First of all, the phenomenon of abandoned baby violates

Family ethics is immoral.

The behavior of. Abandoned babies and biological parents

Have an inseparable blood relationship.

Children are the pride of parents, not parents.

Dear baby.

If it weren't for the decline of family morality

Edgar Allan Poe, it is difficult for ordinary people to abandon their babies.

It's decided.

The phenomenon of abandoning babies is unreasonable, and it is for the world.

People are not ashamed.

abandoned baby

Secondly, it is illegal to abandon a baby.

Behavior.

Specifically, if there is no love, refuse.

Never raise or abandon a baby or get sick.

Children, the plot is not good, then, raising

Forcing the relevant personnel constitutes a waiver.

Sin.

If a child is abandoned in the wild,

Or ordinary people can't rescue or find it.

Where children die or die.

There is a reason why injury constitutes intentional homicide.

Crime of intentional injury.

Fourth, how to improve the status quo of abandoned babies?

In order to improve the present situation of abandoned babies, we must

Comprehensive management, multi-measures simultaneously.

First, we must strictly control the birth of sick and disabled children. August 25th is "Disability Prevention Day". We should focus on the implementation of the premarital examination system, compulsory premarital examination system, pregnancy examination and prenatal screening.

Pregnant women should guard against the influence of radiation, virus infection, drugs or chemical factors, smog, air pollution and electromagnetic pollution on themselves.

Caring for the healthy growth of minors

The second is to strengthen teenagers' sexual knowledge.

Education. Teenagers hold a negative attitude towards their behavior.

Responsibility, strictly control premarital behavior, no

My life has added regrets.

Third, strengthen publicity and education, and abandon the concept of son preference.

An old sense of contempt for women. Abandon men and abandon women

Feudal thought that men are superior to women, prison

Establish equality between men and women and have a boy and a girl.

What kind of fertility concept.

Fourth, we should strengthen adolescent education.

Education. Let female teenagers pay attention to adolescence

Health, discovering physical and physiological changes, and

Time processing.

Fifth, we should strengthen legal education. Seriously and thoroughly

Protection of Minors and China

Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of Disabled Persons

And that adoption act of People's Republic of China (PRC).

National Day for Helping the Disabled

Sixth, improve the welfare system. Perfect insurance

Insurance protection, I hope the baby will be born with a serious illness.

Incorporate social security to reduce the number of seriously ill babies.

Medical expenses.

My friend, when you finish reading this article,

Are you as emotional as I am?

Heavy? Yes, a happy marriage.

Have a bright future and a happy family.

The court is looking forward to the early arrival of their children.

To the world.

When the dear child was born.

Parents are anxious for their children's health.

Grow up and live a happy life.

However, life is not 100%, such as

If you suddenly face a sick baby, who are you?

Should we also have a love? But you can't

It is irresponsible to abandon it! Rangshe

Will be full of love, everyone has love!

Thank you for your invitation.

If parents don't need certificates, this problem will always exist.

In this era when people are not short of food and clothing, most of the things that abandon children happen to young students. They have never learned self-discipline and will be responsible for themselves when they grow up. Not to mention being responsible to others and society. The reason for this problem has a lot to do with their growth process.

First, they grew up in an era when knowledge changed their destiny. Their parents solved all the problems they needed to face. They are just learning tools. They habitually do not solve problems and will not solve them. Once something happens, there is nothing to do.

Fortunately, parents who are willing to tell their parents about the accident will become their children and will not learn to grow up if they accept it. Such a thing will happen again.

If parents can't accept it, they can only abandon it directly. The important thing is that they feel that they are the victims in their hearts.

Second, they grew up in a period of national economic development. The gap in economic income has become a sign of many people's success. Once this is used to judge their family background, the formation of their values will inevitably be biased in the process of growing up. When faced with a child who will bring a burden to themselves, it is logical for them to give up raising.

Third, a good family style is very important at any time. What parents need to teach their children is survival ability, and what they need to convey is a good family style.

I don't think there are so many people who hold their sons in modern society, and if there are, there are very few.

I heard of this kind of thing when I was young, and I also encountered this kind of thing.

There is a couple in my village who have been married for many years and have no children. Around 2000, I came home from school one day and heard adults talking together. I listened for a while and understood what had happened.

It turned out that the couple adopted a baby girl, whose biological father and mother I have forgotten now. I only know that there are several children at home, and I always want a son, but the weather is not good. The triplets were still daughters, and family planning was quite strict at that time. Later, after leaving the hospital, I left the baby girl on the side of the road.

The couple in my village, the woman's younger brother, were running a taxi in the city. At that time, the soliciting happened to pass by and found the baby. Thinking that my sister had never given birth to a child, I took the baby home first, and then contacted my sister and brother-in-law to discuss it.

When they arrived, they felt quite good. Later, they went to the hospital to give their children a physical examination. When everything was all right, they took it home. At that time, this kind of adoption was quite casual, so you can go to the relevant department to register.

It's been 20 years now, and the little girl has gone to college now. Strangely, although they are not related by blood, they look like her adoptive parents. If we don't know the inside story, outsiders must think it's one of our own.

The world is so magical.

From my many years of experience, I think parents who abandon have the following ideas.

Most of these parents are daughters born with their first or second children. In order to have a son, but the family is poor and the pressure of family planning can only be abandoned.

There is also a kind of parents who gave away their children without abandoning them, but at least they know where they are and how they are doing compared with abandoning them.

Due to the medical and economic conditions at that time, many children were born with defects, such as harelip, blindness and deformation of an organ. And their parents have no money to treat them, so they have to throw them away.

This is very common in modern society. Some underage men and women are pregnant after having sex and they don't know it. When they were finally discovered, it was too late. Many girls even give birth to their children in the toilet, and then throw them in the trash can after giving birth.

This is a typical ignorance and fearlessness.

Personally, I think parents who abandon or give away their children are cruel at least at that moment.

This phenomenon used to be difficult to comment on, but from the analysis of abandoned children, when he grows up and knows everything, will he be very depressed, will he collapse and will he be depressed?

The above is my opinion, welcome to comment in the comment area!

The answer is yes.

Although it is now 2 1 century, there are still people who abandon baby girls because they are too patriarchal. People think that they still have a beautiful dream as long as they have a son. After the baby is sent out, she will still come back to recognize her parents, call them and be filial to them. I don't know what she thinks!

Mostly for my son. Coupled with poverty, they were mercilessly abandoned.

I gave my daughter to my sister next door for my son, and I became a mother when my period came.

I don't see much now I only see it on holidays. Because I was a baby when I gave it away, I don't know now. I wonder if I will tell her later. How will she react when she knows?

Personally, I think this phenomenon will still happen.

Although people's quality of life has been greatly improved, there is still a phenomenon of son preference. They will continue to have children in order to have a son. But now science and technology are developed, and some only take blood in early pregnancy to go to Hong Kong for examination. If you are a daughter, you will have an abortion, which is actually another form of abandonment.