A letter from parents to their seventeen-year-old son

Seventeen years old is the age when children are about to enter adulthood. Children are gradually maturing, and parents have some words to give to their children. Below I have compiled a letter written by parents to their seventeen-year-old son. You are welcome to read it.

Sample letter from parents to their seventeen-year-old son, Part 1

Boy:

Time flies so fast! In the blink of an eye, I am a freshman in high school. A semester has passed, and you have also celebrated your seventeenth birthday. With a height of 175cm and a weight of 70kg, you are already an upright man standing in front of us. Seventeen years have passed, and it seems like it was yesterday. Scenes from your childhood, like colorful animations, often appear in my mind. I often feel that there is an invisible force that tightly ties mom, dad and you together. In addition to blood ties, this relationship also has a deep family affection.

In these seventeen spring and autumn years, mom and dad have been paying attention to your progress and your growth every moment, and your joys, sorrows, and joys have always affected us. Mom has given more care to your food, clothing, housing and transportation, from picking up and dropping off from school, matching three meals a day, adding and removing clothes in spring, summer, autumn and winter, it can be said that she is meticulous. Dad pays more attention to your healthy growth and learning. From early English education in primary school to composition training in junior high school, from being a person and doing things to arranging schoolwork during winter and summer vacations, parents have put a lot of effort into it. There is only one purpose, that is, you can grow up healthily and happily. From elementary school to now, you have always been very good, and your academic performance has always been among the best. You have been a top student every year. Occasionally, your test scores are not satisfactory once or twice. I know that is also your temporary negligence. We all believe that you will immediately To catch up, that is indeed the case. Through this letter today, I want to express my inner thoughts.

Child, I want to tell you that learning is always your first priority and an important task for you now, in the future, and even throughout your entire life. By the time of the college entrance examination on June 6, 2011, there are still 802 days of study left until the exam is full, and your high school study career will be over. A philosopher once said: There are often only a few steps at the critical moment in life. The high school stage is the most critical stage in life. If the foundation is laid, the benefits will be endless throughout your life.

You study very hard, and you have to study until about eleven o'clock every night. But sometimes I feel that your learning efficiency is not very high, and sometimes your energy is not highly concentrated. I believe that when studying, you must be highly concentrated and use appropriate methods. Don’t memorize things by rote. You must grasp the tips. You must learn more from the learning methods of outstanding students. You must improve learning efficiency. For some difficult and key points, you must learn them repeatedly. Memorize it repeatedly, only in this way can you remember it in your heart. Compared with the junior high school stage, the high school stage is more difficult, more intensive, and contains more content. The learning burden and pressure are significantly increased. We can no longer rely on the "cramming-style" teaching, "supervised" self-study, and "command-style" teachers in the junior high school period. For homework, you must gradually develop your ability to actively acquire and consolidate knowledge, formulate a study plan that suits you, be persistent and perseverant, and develop a good habit of independent learning.

Although there are many unreasonable factors in the current college entrance examination system, there is no fairer and more reasonable system than this system. The college entrance examination tests candidates’ comprehensive knowledge and abilities. Your generation is the baby boomer of our generation in the 1960s. It has great pressure to study, many difficulties in finding a job, and fierce competition. Therefore, now, work harder, pay more, endure loneliness, watch less TV, read more books, play less games, do more homework, pursue less fashionable clothing, and put more effort into your studies. Yes, the outside world is very exciting, and the temptations outside are very moving, but now is the prime time for you to go all out to study. Human energy is limited. If you use more in that area, you will definitely lose less in your studies.

Remember what the teacher asks you to memorize, and learn what the teacher asks you to master. Then you will be more calm and more likely to win in the college entrance examination, and you will be able to get into the ideal university in your mind, bringing honor to the alma mater that trained you, and to the teacher who educated you. Win glory, win glory for the parents who raised you, and realize your lofty ideals.

Child, I want to tell you that learning to be a good person is your eternal homework in life. Live and learn until you are old. Although you are always a well-behaved and good child in the eyes of your parents, grandparents, and grandparents, you are sometimes a bit introverted. When greeting elders, your voice is a bit low, and sometimes you are not proactive enough. We must learn to be a human being first, then do things, and then be knowledgeable. Put being a human being first. Being a human being includes being polite, moral, civilized, respecting the old and caring for the young, etc. We must respect teachers and parents and do things before doing anything. You must learn to think repeatedly, communicate frequently with classmates and friends, unite classmates, help others, learn from the strengths of others, and supplement your own shortcomings. Having good moral character will benefit you throughout your life. In terms of being a specific person, Dad hopes that you will gradually develop a sense of responsibility. Don't always think about what others should do for you, but think about what you can do for others. You should do your own things by yourself, and you should also help others with their things. People without a sense of responsibility will have difficulty achieving great things, will not have real friends, and will find it even harder to be recognized by society. The sense of responsibility is reflected in all aspects of family, school and social life. A person who has the courage to take responsibility is also a person who keeps his word, an honest person, a self-respecting person and a fair person.

You must learn to communicate with others. Communicating with parents will deepen family ties, communicating with teachers will help you understand things, communicating with classmates will enhance friendship, and communicating with the outside world will help you better understand society. Good communication can help you eliminate depression in your heart, and good communication can make you feel the beauty of life. You must understand and cherish feelings, and have a grateful heart. Be grateful for your parents’ upbringing, your teachers’ teachings, your classmates’ friendship, and the society’s help.

Child, I want to tell you that a good body is an important foundation for any work you do. Without a good body, nothing can be done. Didn’t health experts say that a good body is ?1?, career, family, knowledge, wealth, everything is ?0? after ?1?, without a good body ?1?, everything after ?0? . Children, the body is the capital of life. Only with a good body can you experience and enjoy life better, and make more contributions to the country, society, and family. Having a good body does not happen overnight, it is the result of continuous efforts. The health I am talking about includes physical health and mental health, both of which are indispensable.

Don’t be picky about your diet and eat more vegetables and fruits; when it comes to physical exercise, you must have a long-term plan and insist on long-term physical exercise. Maintaining mental health is also the result of continuous learning and hard work. Bad habits and hobbies can greatly damage a person's health.

I remember a writer said this: There are only three days in a person's life, yesterday, today and tomorrow. Yesterday has passed, become history, and will never return; today, it is under your feet, shortening every second; tomorrow, it is the future, it is hope? I hope that by seizing and cherishing today, there will be hope for the future.

Sincerely

Good luck with your studies

Dad

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Written by parents to their seventeen-year-old son Sample Letter Part 2

Son:

Mom hasn’t written to you for a long time. Now you are a handsome boy who is seventeen years old and over 1.8 meters tall. , has also entered the intense and arduous learning stage of the senior year of high school. I study harder and become more assertive in doing things than before. Mom knows that you have grown up and become sensible.

Mom has noticed some changes in you recently: you change your clothes very frequently, you also like to look in the mirror, you pay special attention to your external image, and you send more text messages on your mobile phone than before. Mom knows that you have grown up and have your own little secret. In fact, this is nothing. It shows that you are a normal and healthy child. Entering adolescence is a stage of physical and psychological growth that everyone should go through.

What makes my mother happy is that my son is admired by girls, which means that you are excellent; you have your favorite girl, which also means that you are a boy with a sound mind. To be honest, you have been brought up by your mother. She is really afraid that you will rely too much on her and become a boy who will not grow up. Now it seems that your mother is too worried.

What makes mom happy is that your good classmates and good friends can help you a lot in your studies, and your grades have improved by leaps and bounds. It seems that you have made good friends and have someone to care about you. You, a good friend who helps you learn and encourages you to make progress, are a great blessing in life. So mom is happy for you.

The friendship between classmates is the purest and most true. During the three years of high school, *** spent more than a thousand days studying hard together. *** faced pressure together, *** Witnessing each other's growth, sharing each other's joy, and resolving each other's worries, this friendship is extremely precious. What's even more gratifying is that you can learn from each other's strengths and complement each other's weaknesses. You are good at Chinese and physics, and she is good at English and biology. Each of you teaches your own effective learning methods to the other, lectures on each other's topics, helps your classmates, and improves yourself. In this year's entrance examination, your class ranked 12th in the first 16th grade of the school year. This is inseparable from the idea of ????learning together and helping others to improve yourself, advocated by your class teacher.

This kind of mutual help between you and your classmates is an example of successful learning. Mom hopes that you can set more ambitious goals for yourself, set progressive stage goals, and move forward solidly. When getting along with classmates, you must be more cheerful and open-minded. When getting along with female classmates, you must be more generous and responsible, and do not enter a narrow emotional world. Because after all, you are only seventeen years old, and what you have seen, thought, and experienced are very limited. You still have a long way to go to learn, grow, and experience. Work hard together with your classmates and sprint towards your respective goals. I hope that in next year's entrance examination, you and your classmates can harvest the heavy fruits you have longed for, and be able to compete with more good classmates and Good friends enter higher education together, win opportunities for themselves at critical turning points in life, and set sail.

Mom

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On the occasion of your 17th birthday, when your father decided to write you a letter, a faint sadness surged in his heart. It has been almost 17 years since you were born. Dad has never written you a letter seriously, and has never communicated with you properly using pen and paper. Because you have always been by my side and almost never left my sight for a long time. A few simple words are the normal communication between you and my father and son. Sometimes you also tell us very interesting stories and insights, and talk about the class. anecdotes. Although these exchanges are not much, they are the greatest comfort to your mother and me.

Dear son, as your seventeenth birthday passes, your steps towards adulthood are getting closer and closer, and the morality and responsibility you have to shoulder will also be obvious.

Dear son, in your study career, you must pay attention to methods and have super perseverance in study. ?Life is not easy for anyone, we must have perseverance. The most important thing is that we have to have confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we have a natural talent for everything and do it no matter what the cost. When it's over, you have to be able to say with a clear conscience: "I did the best I could." The method also includes the need to have good arrangements for doing things and to have a certain degree of organization. Carefully sort out and review your life and study. Have you done anything that satisfies you?

My dear son, on the road to growth, you must have clear goals and hold on to your dreams. The first paragraph of a model article "Going on the Road with a Goal" is very well written: The goal is a beacon that illuminates your life; the goal is a road sign that points you in the direction when you are lost; the goal is a compass , to guide you in the direction of life; the goal is a torch, which can burn everyone's potential and lead you to fly to the sky of your dreams. Romain Rolland said: The most terrifying enemy in life is the lack of clear goals.

?Indeed, the goal is the dream you pursue, and the goal is the hope of success. If you lose your goal, you lose your direction and everything. ?The higher the goal, the more valuable the ambition. ?Son, when you are in your prime, you should swim in the ocean of knowledge, absorb as much nutrition as possible, arm yourself, and work hard to achieve your goals in life. Now, it’s time to determine your goal. Whether you are an online writer, an archaeologist, or a film and television director, you should determine it as soon as possible.

Dear son, learn to use hard work to achieve your dreams and become a useful person to society. Although you will inevitably encounter ups and downs of one kind or another during the journey, I sincerely hope that you can face it with strength, because your happiness is your mother’s eternal happiness. Through their own efforts, my parents came out of the countryside and created a world for themselves. Without any background, you can find your own value on a blank piece of paper, and it also builds a platform for you to grow. Going to Xi'an is a prestigious school in Shaanxi, which is what many children and parents dream of. Mom and Dad hope that you can use this platform to rise from a high starting point. Human potential is great, and we are all people with shortcomings, including my father and my mother, but we all have dreams in our hearts, a dream that may not be said, but will always exist. For a dream, my parents left their hometown and came to Xi'an. When we were at home, we were worried about our poor life every day, and we were often ashamed that we couldn't hold our heads high in front of our classmates. Because of poverty, we cannot get together with our classmates and colleagues frequently; because of poverty, we have to think about buying a book for a long time; we have to hesitate for a long time to buy a piece of clothing. The pace of life after work is tense, and the intensity and pressure of work are huge, but we have no regrets. Because life should be more exciting and more proud. Dear son, neither mom nor dad are extremely smart people, but it can be said that we are all arrogant people, people who strive for self-improvement, and people who never admit defeat. Although we have not done anything great, after all, we are all changing our lives with our diligence.

Dear son, you must learn to be grateful; people often say: a drop of kindness should be repaid with a spring. You are a very kind person. You are so kind that you don’t even curse or hit others. Kind people won't even fight for the benefits you deserve. Thank you to your parents, teachers and classmates, thank you to everyone who has helped you, and thank you to those who have brought obstacles to you. However, kindness also has choices. Kindness to evildoers is abuse to oneself.

Dear son, you must learn to grow up and learn to share. The famous cultural figure Yang Lan once said: You may not succeed in this life, but you must grow. Maybe you have reached a balance on a certain occasion and period, but the balance is short-lived and may be fleeting and constantly broken. Growth is endless, and this growth is a dynamic process of continuous development. Many things in life are difficult to grasp, but growth can be grasped. This is a promise to oneself. Although we can't become Liu Xiang no matter how hard we try, we can still enjoy running. Growth means taking on responsibility. Responsibility to oneself, to others, to parents, and to society. A man should bravely shoulder heavy burdens, learn to share burdens, and learn to take responsibility. Growing up means being exposed to more things and a wider world.

Son, please believe that as you grow up, your parents will be your strongest backing. We will share your burden and cheer for you! In the process of realizing your life goals, dad Mom is your counselor and your partner.

Dear son, dad loves you and mom loves you too! I wish you a happy birthday, good health and academic progress!

Dad, mom

XXXX .X. > Poor parents in the world, there are so many things that I want to say to you as a father, but as someone who has been through this, I know that you think your mother and I are too wordy, so you never said it. In my opinion, you have been sensible, cute, and obedient since you were a child.

Although you are now studying in the military academy, in my opinion, you are still a child after all, and your life and social experience need to grow. Disobedience during the youthful rebellious period is inevitable. Therefore, I still have a lot to say to you, so I wrote the following text for us to discuss together. As a father, I am willing to communicate with you on an equal footing as a friend, and talk about some of my life insights, and some of your mother and my hopes and entrustments to you. If it is not right, please criticize me.

1. Son, you must learn to control yourself

People do not live for themselves in the world. There are many people walking around around you in life. As a man, you will need to start a family and start a career in the future, you will need to take responsibility, you will need to honor your parents, and you will need to raise your baby. People living in this world cannot do whatever they want. They must learn to control themselves, do what they should do, and what they shouldn't do should not be done. From childhood to adulthood, your parents have invested a lot in your growth and often teach you to study hard, be a good person, and do things well. Even today, everyone in your family is still worrying about your studies. We are happy when you make progress and worry about your shortcomings. Your parents' love for you and their deep affection for you are often left unsaid. Just because you are alone outside does not mean you are free from restraints and can act as you please. Any freedom is relative, and there is no absolute freedom. Therefore, strict self-discipline is required at all times. In the big aspect, we must abide by laws, regulations, systems, and regulations; in the small aspect, we must strictly follow ethical standards. In terms of learning, you must have your own study plan every day, every week, every month, and every semester. Only by accumulation over time can you reach the peak of knowledge. You are about to face a graduation assignment, so from now on, you should work steadily and step by step. We must have a strict sense of time and strictly abide by the work and rest time every day. We must know that hard work is better than hard work, and waste is not play; actions are accomplished by thinking, and destroyed by randomness. This has been true since ancient times. To be honest, the father was shocked when he heard that you were getting married. I understand your feelings, but my reason tells me that it is not appropriate for you to get married now. Marriage is a lifelong event for two people and is related to the future happiness of the two families. It requires a financial foundation and emotional integration. It is definitely not a temporary impulsive play. Fathers were once young, and they understand: Which girl is not passionate, and which boy is not pregnant? However, it is too early for you to get married now. I also know that it is difficult for you to listen to your parents now, but I hope you understand the painstaking efforts of being a parent. We do not hope that you will regret it one day in the future. You will Tell us why we didn't dissuade you in the first place. All in all, as a father, I respect your feelings, but please also respect your parents' feelings. I am still opposed to your marriage. I just hope you can think it over carefully. When you graduate and have a stable job in the future, your parents will be the first to agree with you to start a family and start a business as soon as possible.

Second, son, you must cherish time

Whether it is from a personal or family perspective, you must cherish time. Your parents have placed great hopes on you, but I think you have no obligation to fulfill your parents' wishes, nor do you have the responsibility to honor your ancestors. However, just for your personal future, you must cherish and cherish it. Do you have your own life plan? Have you considered what you want to do in the future? If you have, you should arrange your time scientifically and rationally. In order to achieve your life goals, eliminate all interference and move forward courageously. At the very least, you should be a decent person who is useful to society. Now that you are going to get married, take a step back and ask, son, have you ever thought about how you will make a living after you get married? Both marriage and having children require a financial foundation. With your current situation, isn't getting married nothing more than child's play? As a father, don't you? I hope you will regret it in the future and don't want this incident to become a regret in your life. Time is the medicine of no regrets. Only by enduring hardship can you become a master. Now is the time for you to study hard. Although some girls have expressed it to you, I think your main task now is to study and grow. The golden period of knowledge and skills. Once this issue is involved, too much time and energy will be spent. Emotional issues are not allowed to be played or teased. We must respect our own feelings and the feelings of others.

Although your bodies have grown into adults, your minds are still underage and you have many problems, especially when it comes to love issues. You don't have many ways to deal with them. It should be to deal with the problems of one age group. Going beyond the stages will delay the important things at hand. There is no need for a truly capable man to have a wife!

3. Son, you must learn to endure hardship

All those who have achieved success in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, are without exception those who can endure hardship. ?Hardships and hardships will educate you to success? Your generation, those born in the 1990s, are only children with flamboyant personalities. They are all centered on me and rely on their parents for everything. This will not work in the long run and is not conducive to your growth. Learn to live independently. You must know that suffering is a precious asset in life and a rare opportunity to learn. Only by going to hell can you go to heaven. The ancients said that those who travel a hundred miles only make it half as long. Why is this so? The reason is that many people lack perseverance and fall short of success. In a certain sense, learning is hard work, and we need to use tenacious perseverance to overcome it and overcome it in order to reach the pinnacle of glory and achieve our set goals. As a father, I hope that one day my son will truly grow up, be able to take charge of his own affairs, and truly take on the responsibilities of a family. At that time, I, as a father, will definitely give my most sincere blessings to my son’s wedding. Son, good advice is harsh to your ears, and good medicine is bitter to your taste. Don’t always feel that your parents are nagging and are always taking care of you. Only when you raise children can you appreciate the kindness of your parents. One day you will understand your parents’ painstaking efforts.

Finally, I wish my son success in his studies and all the happiness. Remember to take care of yourself when you are out alone, and keep in touch with your parents. Remember, no matter what happens, your parents will always be your strong backing.

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