Should girls test their boyfriends?

Should girls test their boyfriends after all?

No, every adult has his own little secrets and ideas more or less. Once this little idea is punctured, the consequences will be incalculable.

There is a saying called. People's hearts are most vulnerable to temptation? Once a girl has the idea of testing her boyfriend, it means that there are some hidden dangers in the relationship between the two people. As soon as this idea comes out, girls can't help but observe all kinds of actions in boys' lives, eager to see each other's mobile phones and find a friend to pretend to be a stranger to test her boyfriend's reaction. Once the boyfriend takes the bait, the two will face the inevitable result of breaking up. If the boyfriend doesn't take the bait, it will also plant a time bomb for the relationship between two people, which may detonate at some time in the future, and eventually this relationship will be shattered.

Put yourself in others' shoes. How would you feel if your boyfriend tested you? The first feeling must be that the other person doesn't trust himself, which will make him feel very uncomfortable psychologically. After a temptation, he will leave a shadow in his heart. In the future, your boyfriend may inadvertently mention something, and you will suspect that he may be testing you. In the future, you will become unable to trust each other wholeheartedly, resulting in your feelings becoming less solid, and it is very likely that a little trouble will separate you. If you test your boyfriend, your boyfriend will have the same reaction.

No matter what the final test result is, you will pay a huge price for this test. Trust between the two sides is really the foundation for a lasting and stable development of a relationship. If there is no trust, everything is just a flower in the mirror and can't stand a little twists and turns. If the relationship between you is stable at this time and you really want to develop with each other, then I suggest you give up the idea of temptation as soon as possible. Neither of the last two results will be what you want.