Why do young people always fail in blind date?

Summarize the reasons for the failure of blind date:

1, speak in silence

Blind dates always meet, and it is impossible to chat on WeChat all the time. When meeting, many people have nothing to talk about, or don't take the initiative to find a topic to talk about, which leads to the two sides sitting awkwardly all the time, or even if one or two topics are answered, then such a blind date will naturally end in failure.

2. Improper dressing

Everyone will pay more attention to the first impression when dating. If they are different from Wan Li in dress, words and deeds, they will give each other an inappropriate impression, which is basically a stalemate meeting. If you dress yourself, it is not recommended to read fashion magazines or dress guides before departure.

3. The bill is not generous

There will be afternoon tea or afternoon tea when dating, but whether you choose to have afternoon tea or afternoon tea, you need to spend money, that is, there is the problem of paying the bill. In the end, who will pay the bill is actually a very important link. If both sides are westernized, it is no problem to choose AA system. If they are all traditional China people, and the man is coy and unwilling to pay the bill, or just leaves with half the bill, this careless stingy boy is often the most annoying behavior of the blind date.

4. Have physical contact with each other

Avoid physical contact on the first blind date. As the saying goes, people who are easy to get are the ones who will not be cherished the least. If you don't know anything about physical contact on the first blind date, you will always leave a frivolous impression on the other party and will soon lose your enthusiasm. There is only a thread as thin as hair between two people who meet for the first time. If you try hard, you will lose the game.

5. Talk about your love history.

Even if there are several love histories, you only need one or two sentences, not all, only one of them. Too rich love history makes people think that you are too playboy, or that you have problems being dumped, which leads to a blind date.

6. Say "whatever" blindly

If the other person asks you what you want to do, eat and play on a blind date, it's better to make one or two clear decisions and choices yourself instead of talking casually. On the one hand, it seems that you have no opinion, on the other hand, when the other party has made a complete decision, it will appear that the blind date is boring and there is no desire to continue.

7. No sense of time

When shall we meet? There should be no delay. At the same time, you can take the opportunity to observe whether the other party cares about the time you say. If the other person ignores you and forgets the time, such a person is generally not worth continuing, especially a man, at least not respecting the woman.