What makes you less inclined to "visit relatives"?

1, the gap between the rich and the poor is too big, and family ties are fading. Nowadays, people, even relatives, are rich and make friends with rich people. The rich rarely have too much contact with the poor, and they don't even want to leave, and they dislike and despise each other. If you have money and power, you have all your relatives and friends; if you have no money and power, you have no feelings. This is true in real life, even if you are brothers and sisters. Look at the people around you carefully. They are the best examples.

2, there is no interest bond between relatives. Although there is a certain blood relationship, it is basically different. Except for a few times on holidays, it is rare to see a few times a year. If we meet less and have our own life circle, there will be no bond of interest, and it is useless to rely solely on blood. If there is a chain of interests as a link, it is impossible to alienate if you move around frequently.

3, strong comparison psychology, false enthusiasm between relatives Now, when relatives and friends meet, they are all kinds of comparisons, not stronger than anyone, or more expensive than who bought the house; It's not how many points you scored compared with which child, or which training courses you signed up for; Either it is more than the salary or it is bigger than the house in someone's hometown. This kind of false comparison and false enthusiasm makes people very uncomfortable. Many post-00 s can't stand this "fake" phenomenon. Meeting is nothing more than "casual" greetings and then going home.

4, no communication for a long time, no communication topics With the emergence of the epidemic, everyone is very busy, and the communication between relatives is getting less and less. After a few years, everyone feels that relatives are not so important, and the most important thing is family happiness. The older generation still has childhood affection, and there are some connections when dealing with wine, but for the young people of the children's generation, it seems that these have nothing to do with them. Perhaps the times of life are different and the circle of friends is different, which leads to no topic and little communication even when we meet. Especially those half-baked relatives, did not communicate.

5, now go to relatives' homes, in addition to bringing fruit drinks, you have to send red envelopes when you see your children. If a relative brings four or five children to your home, and you only have one child, and he gives you 500 yuan, you should at least give it to 500 yuan. But in this way, each person only gave 100, and you may be complained by some relatives. Some relatives took their children away, originally thinking of making a fortune, but after they went, they said it was thousands of dollars. For some families, life is already very tight, and red envelopes are not bad! I have to send it to save face.

6. If you don't get married, where can you find relatives? Nowadays, more and more young people, whether boys or girls, are unmarried. They may be afraid of getting married, or they may not trust and want to get married. This is also one of the reasons for the negative population growth. Now, after 90 s and 00 s, they are no longer active in marriage, as if they were married but not married. Most of the relatives in life are parents' fathers. Their relatives go by themselves, and then go by themselves. No daughter-in-law, fewer natural relatives. And with the passage of time, everyone is busy with work, and perhaps even the contact between friends has become less and less. A WeChat has thousands of friends, but I can't find anyone who wants to send a message.