6 minimalist life rules that make you happy (recommended collection! )

Looking back on 202 1, do you feel full and satisfied, or are you confused and depressed? In fact, no matter which one, it is an experience of life, and it doesn't matter whether it is good or bad.

After all, that time has passed and you don't need to think too much. Looking back briefly, more time should be spent thinking about the future. "Consciousness decides action". With a clear plan and understanding, you can act more easily.

Guo Xiaochuan once said: "I hope that every time I recall, I will not feel guilty about life."

In order to be worthy of ourselves and those who love us, we should live in an orderly way. Here I share six minimalist lifestyles, hoping to live a simple life and be a down-to-earth person for the rest of my life.

A while ago, Viya, a former "Taobao Sister", was fined1.3,438+0 billion for tax evasion. Wang Leehom's emotional exposure and endless desire led them to a road of no return.

Some people say that people's real growth is to keep their original heart and not be driven by endless desires.

The minimalist desire is not to drink too much, to be temperate and to do the right thing at the right time. Take wealth as an example. Your actual ability determines your ability to make money. Even at a certain moment, you have gained wealth far beyond your control, and in the future, these things will eventually leave you.

I once had a colleague. At the age of early twenties, I made small achievements because I seized the opportunity and caught up with the policy. He has several apartments in the center of the city and started a company, but it didn't last long. Because of the lack of anti-risk ability and experience, my career suffered from waterloo.

In modern society, the attitude of quick success and instant benefit often does not get good results.

For spiritual minimalism, it is often the most difficult, just like a couple who break up and can throw away each other's things, but it still takes some effort to get out of the emotional haze.

The spirit is extremely simple, and you need to learn to let go of your past persistence and stubbornness.

I have a best friend who likes to be alone. When I decide something, I will try my best to do it to the extreme. She will try her best to finish a job that she is determined to finish within a certain period of time, thinking that she is still young and should work hard.

However, "plans can never keep up with changes." After a performance, she passed out directly on the ground. After the doctor diagnosed, it was because she didn't eat according to the rules, and because of lack of sleep, her body was overdrawn.

When I was young, I was obsessed with doing a good job and wanted to realize the freedom of wealth as soon as possible. But it is the biggest harm to me to consume my body excessively and not pay attention to rest.

As Thoreau said, "The more you let go, the richer you will be."

Later, my good friend put down the obsession of "everything should be perfect". Imperfection is also a high-quality living condition. After she balanced her life and work, her happiness was greatly improved.

The first time I came into contact with minimalist life was from the book Breaking Up written by Japanese writer Eiko Yamashita, dating back to the beginning of their minimalist life.

Naoki, 4 1 year-old, was the first person to start minimalism in Japan. In his home, things are simple to the extreme, only a table, a TV set and a cupboard.

Even the daily necessities are few and the materials are simple, which greatly expands the living space he can use and gives him a unique understanding of minimalism in his mind.

He said: "in western culture, we should let a representative with complete space put other things;" However, in the world of tea ceremony or Zen, objects are deliberately left blank in order to inject people's imagination into them and achieve perfection. "

In fact, for us, the material is extremely simple, so it's good not to hoard goods or put them anywhere. Stockpiling looks cheap and feels cost-effective, but once there are too many things beyond the shelf life, it will eventually be harmful to the human body.

When we tidy up the room, the last thing we want is messy space. The more chaotic it is, the more time it takes to organize, and the less we want to organize. If it's not messy, just wait a while before cleaning, then the daily cleaning will be much easier.

The material is extremely simple, only buying what you just need can also reduce the chance of returning goods after buying.

With the development of network technology, it is now an information explosion society, and all kinds of information can be seen everywhere: magazines and publications on the plane, billboards on the roadside, messages automatically pushed on mobile phones and so on. Are invading our field of vision.

Moreover, this information has certain attraction, such as exquisite pictures, novel content, large text and so on. This will attract our attention to a great extent, but when we concentrate on these things, we forget our work.

For example, if you are a copywriter, you usually need to collect information online. Then a pop-up message of a star pops up. You have paid attention to the content of this star, so you will click in.

After reading it, there is similar content at the bottom of the article. With the feeling of wanting to know, you clicked in again. As a result, you were bombarded by information one by one, and it took you half a day to recover.

Minimalist information means doing the most things with the simplest page. For example, we usually join many groups. These groups may or may not be useful, but you don't want to quit the group and be bombarded by information. The direct way is to block the group chat and go in and have a look when you suddenly think of it that day.

By reducing the appearance of useless information, the reading time is reduced, and the natural information is simple.

Have you ever met such a person? When he talks to you, he always says everything, twists and turns, and tells many irrelevant stories. You can't get to the point of the other party's speech.

As the saying goes: learn to speak in three years, and learn to shut up all your life. When we don't know how to explain an idea, we need to learn to shut up, listen to what the other person says, learn the tone, logic and confidence of the other person, or record what you think is particularly good and tear it down while learning.

Minimalism means telling the most things with the least words. There are two general standards: no procrastination, no contradiction, no content divorced from water, logical and orderly, which can make people understand what it is.

Just like when you call "1 10" or "120" for emergency help, you need to be clear about the place, people and events so that they can arrive and deal with related problems faster.

It is easy for us to get confused about life, just like going to the supermarket and not knowing what to buy.

Socrates, an ancient Greek philosopher, once had such an experience. His students encouraged him to say, "There are countless new things in the market, and you will definitely come home with a full load."

When he visited the market, the students asked him to talk about his harvest. Socrates said: "The biggest gain of this trip is to find that there are so many things in this world that I don't need."

As the saying goes, "life is not as beautiful as you think, nine times out of ten, you should always think about it." Life is very simple, just like Socrates, who only pays attention to one or two things and doesn't take up his time for other unimportant things.

After all, people's energy is limited. When we spend most of our time on things we are interested in, everything else will be put aside for the time being. I believe the result will not be too bad.

Regarding minimalism, there is a well-received answer in Zhihu: "Minimalism is a comfortable lifestyle, not a tool to improve the status quo."

Indeed, for life, we may not live with abalone and seafood and wear gold and silver when going out, but it is enough to live a comfortable life and live the life we want.

Minimalist life, simplified needs, simplified ways, and simple life are also good.

Discussion: What do you want to share with them about minimalist life? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area and write down your minimalist attitude. I believe that every time I share it, I will win flowers and applause ~