How do women deal with men who haggle over every ounce?

Let's talk about such a phenomenon first, that is, how should women deal with men who haggle over every ounce? First of all, this haggle over every ounce, in fact, I tell you this is the nature of men, why is there such a nature? Maybe it's because some families are too thrifty, which makes them haggle over every ounce, or maybe it's because some people are too proud.

This kind of haggle over every ounce is not only manifested in intimate relationships, but also in some people's lives, including small things like talking to you for a long time. So what should we do in this situation?

If I give you some examples, you may feel it. For example, if you ask him to buy breakfast, he says it's your turn to ask him to buy more recently. For example, if you ask him to give you a shoulder, you can say that you are very tired recently. He said that the last time I had a backache, you didn't press it for me, so I won't press it for you. Or some small things make him dissatisfied, he will imitate your practice and return it to you, and then tell you that you did it, this is your practice, and I will do it as you do. This is haggling over every ounce. Then how to do it? I'll give you two suggestions.

1. Tell him clearly that you are too selfish.

Although there is a need for tolerance between partners, it should be remembered that this tolerance is never one-sided. You didn't hurt me, I have been suffering. I'm tolerating you. This is called connivance. If you find that your partner has been making mistakes, you must tell him clearly.

Let me give you a simple example. For example, after work, you promised to go home with your husband, but when you were waiting for him downstairs, you called him and said that I went out for dinner with my colleagues. If you forgive him for this, your heart tells you whether I forgot to tell him, whether I am busy and so on. He will do it again next time, or even worse.

How did you tell him about it? First of all, don't be angry, don't vent your emotions, make it clear to the other party, describe the facts, and say what I have been waiting for for a long time in advance next time. That's enough, isn't it very simple? But think about it, many times the other party haggles over every ounce. What shall we do? Put up with it, forget the grievances, forget the losses, and some even comfort themselves that it is a blessing to suffer. But the more you do this, the more you push your luck. This is a hint.

2. Use some examples of friends and relatives around him to change his selfishness.

Is that you tell him directly that some people feel frustrated with their self-esteem. Then you can use some examples of people around you. For example, if you tell him who you talked about recently and buy lipstick for his wife, don't look at him, but he is very kind to his wife, or you can give some examples of stars because of some halo effects brought by stars.

For example, your husband, when he sees a star doing something that reflects the design of this good man, will also want to imitate it, including some male stars he likes, that is, what he has done recently to spoil his wife. You can also say it. This is a hint.

3. What should I do if I meet someone who cares about everything in my daily life?

There are several points in this. First of all, you should establish your own personality. Have you ever wondered why you are bullied by others? Why do people like to haggle over every ounce for you? Because you have no personality or are shy and don't care, they all regard you as a soft persimmon.

So the next time you meet something, something. For example, you are obedient to Nuo Nuo. At this time, you should show determination and learn to say no, so that he will think you are angry. Secondly, just like this person, you must say something, that is, deal with this haggard person, and don't beat around the bush on the mountain road of 18.

Speak out directly or solve it directly, make it clear in person, don't delay, and finally speak out loudly if you are dissatisfied, and don't give in casually. As I said just now, some people just have this mentality. If they can't provoke others, they'd better not provoke them, so they won't do anything to themselves. But if you use this on ordinary friends, this may be, you respect me one foot and he respects me one foot. But if you use it on people who haggle over every ounce, they only care about themselves and don't care about your innocence, so the more you endure, the more they will hurt you and think you are easy to bully, so you must directly say those thoughts in your heart.

This is what we talked about above, how to deal with men who haggle over every ounce. Then let me analyze it for you now. What is the heart of a person who haggles over every ounce? Maybe everyone is a little hard to believe. In fact, men who haggle over every ounce are very inferior and fragile. They lack a sense of security and existence, and we can deal with him well by grasping his weakness.