Send meals to my husband every day and talk about my mood.

There are two suggestions: continue and not continue. If the landlord can't accept this marital status, it's very simple to ask for divorce and separation; If the landlord thinks that this husband still has some merits and wants to continue to manage the marriage, then he needs to plan how to improve the marriage relationship, improve the quality of marriage, and especially make himself happy. Let me give you some suggestions to continue: 1. Communicate well with your husband, which means that 400 January is not enough. This ledger needs the landlord to keep accounts and the daily expenses of the family. It usually takes three months. Calculate the approximate monthly expenses of the family. 2. If the husband holds the financial power of the family, he should put forward the landlord's pocket money every month and can't mix with the family. For example, your monthly income is 3000 yuan, how much your husband earns a month, how much everyone decides to give to the family, how much the family saves, and the rest is at their disposal, and so on. This requires the landlord to make a good plan and prepare several plans, and then according to the character of the landlord's husband, see which plan is the most feasible. In short, we must win some freedom for ourselves. As for housework, it seems that this family model developed by the landlord and your husband is not easy to change immediately. Only by looking for opportunities, such as the sudden illness of the landlord or other opportunities, can we find ways to strengthen our husband's sense of family responsibility and considerate care for his wife and children. I hope it helps you.