What should I do if I can't mature? I am in my thirties and have been working outside for fifteen years. Among them, I experienced unspeakable setbacks and hardships. Nobody owns me.

1. Since we came to this world, we have put a piece of luggage in our backpack. No matter how many long journeys we have gone through, it is impossible to lack it. This burden is called responsibility by us.

Responsibility is often two-way. Parents have the obligation to support their children, and children have the responsibility to support their parents; Individuals have the responsibility to contribute to society, and society also has the responsibility to individuals. For example, society has the responsibility of compulsory education for minors.

People who can take responsibility are praised as brave. The ancients often took the motto "Every man is responsible for the rise and fall of the world", which led to all kinds of earth-shattering actions in history, but cowards could not bear the responsibility. It is not enough to have courage to take responsibility, but also to work hard. Do not believe me, let me tell a story like this:

An American boy of 1 1 years old accidentally broke the neighbor's glass while playing football. The neighbor was furious and claimed compensation from him 12. Five dollars. This is 12. Five dollars was astronomical at that time, enough for a hen to lay eggs. The boy told his father about it and regretted it. Seeing his son's embarrassment, the father took out 12. He said, "I lent you this money, and I will pay you back in a year." After the boy lost money, he began to work hard. Finally, after half a year's efforts, he returned this "astronomical figure" to his father word for word. This boy was the later American President Ronald Li Gen, and he also recalled: "Taking responsibility through my own labor made me understand what responsibility is."

Indeed, it takes effort to take responsibility. Some responsibilities should be borne by us, not evaded. However, there must be certain principles for taking responsibility, and some responsibilities should not be taken blindly, but should be done according to one's ability. Before we do something, we should have a general understanding of the whole thing and correctly estimate our abilities. Otherwise, the consequences are unimaginable.

Sometimes, irresponsible things often happen, which often leads to tragedy.

On May 28th, 2008, a train was heading for Guannei, and a railway worker put the track crane on the route. Without taking it off, he went to the popsicle. As a result, a train rollover accident shocked China and foreign countries. 10 car scrapped. Three passengers were killed. The cause of the accident is undoubtedly that the worker failed to fulfill his obligations and responsibilities.

Responsibility is a sign of honesty. Although there is bitterness and sweetness, what should be borne is still to be borne. Let's shoulder the responsibility and shout: "Pick it up and be a strong and brave person!" " "

Share responsibility for parents

Wu (2) Zhangwen, Zhicai Primary School, Wuzhen, Tongxiang City, Zhejiang Province

It's hot, I'm still working on the concrete floor, and my mouth keeps nagging. Because it is sunny today and my father is not at home, I have to undertake this task. I work on the concrete floor with a rake and broom.

I put down my broom and spread the accumulated millet around with a rake. I felt relaxed when I first started working. However, it didn't take me long to feel tired and the rake became heavier and heavier. So, I took a break. Then, I went back to work. I pushed Xiaomi away first, and then pushed Xiaomi onto a ridge. After the work was finished, I found a place to sit down. After a few minutes, my eyes slowly closed. I fell asleep.

When I woke up, Xiaomi was almost burnt. I stood up and picked up the tools to collect the millet. It took me a long time to flatten these particles one by one. Then, I pushed Xiaomi into a ditch. In this way, the original millet is turned over, and more millet can be dried, so that the millet is easy to dry.

I feel very happy after finishing all these tasks. Then, I took out the extracurricular books I carried with me and read them. At the same time, my eyes also aim at Xiaomi from time to time, so as not to let the chicken eat Xiaomi.

Through this work, I not only participated in the sunshine, but also exercised and shared the responsibility for my parents. I'm happier when I think about it.

2. Buds grow quietly in spring, taking me from a baby to a teenager.

Buds began to bloom brilliantly, and the years of youth opened an indispensable life mission for me-responsibility.

Young time has passed, taking away the innocence of young children. What I brought back was youth. Youth has company, and comes to us with the footsteps of youth. It represents our times, it is the main spirit of youth, it is responsibility.

When I carelessly squandered my youth willfully and arrogantly, I found that it was hard-won and would eventually disappear ... Looking back on my growing process, when my face was full of youth, my mother's eyes quietly climbed into wrinkles; When my thick black hair flashes in the sun, my mother's white hair is more conspicuous in the light; When I was radiant with youth, my mother was entering her twilight years. Finally understand that youth is no longer just the most brilliant season in life, but also a responsibility.

When I first realized the word responsibility, it was sometimes like this. It can be said that I am a little excited, a little sad and a little heavy. If you divide the feelings in your heart into several parts, there will be joy and sorrow.

Speaking of feeling responsible for the first time, I actually learned it from the same study and life. I've been thinking about it for a long time. Is what others learn so' new'? What I learned came from my painful study life, which is called my "nineteenth hell" and exam. Looking back on that day, I felt cold in my heart and trembled all over. It was the first time that I got more than 40 points in the math test, and I remembered my mother's unique skill "speak with words" and my father's "grandson's words". At present, my mother speaks as fast as Tang Priest, leaving me speechless. The last time I gave my mother an education was last week. The reason is that I didn't go home first after school and went out to play in a small fish pond with some girls, and I was just caught by my off-duty mother. The last record seemed to be three hours, and I still regret it. If I had known about it, I would have gone. And dad's "Sun Yanzi" is full of truth. I didn't feel anything terrible when I was a child, but I have learned it now. It is one of the psychological tactics, and it makes us feel ashamed. If you want poison, you must be cruel. The legendary murder is invisible.

Hey. My parents, who are here today, scare me. I don't know how to face them. I handed my "shaped paper" to my parents like a judge, and my face turned from red to purple. After seven-color transformation, it became cyan, and the temperature rolled down-cold. Finally, they finally said, "Since you are not young, I won't talk about you this time, but you should know that this is your responsibility."

The word responsibility was scattered in my mind, and it turned out that I was also responsible. These two words alone are enough to make me hang my head heavily.

Now, I have many responsibilities. Because I have grown up, youth-responsibility, no matter what, can't let them exist. I love youth and I love responsibility.

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From the moment our mother was born, responsibility was doomed to be inseparable from us.

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Since March this year, I have become a 15-year-old girl, and I am old enough to judge right or wrong by myself. I really hope that I will never grow up, but time always slips through my fingers, jumps over my pen and flies over my dreams like running water. People always have to grow up. With the passage of time, I grew up with endless troubles and sorrows besides joy. I really miss the carefree days when I was a child and I couldn't stand anything.

But now, I am a junior high school student who is about to graduate, and this state makes me afraid to relax all the time. It's the second semester of grade three, and junior high school life is coming to an end, but what have I learned? Looking back on yourself these years, what are you living for? I'm at a loss, I'm at a loss, I can't think I've passed 15 and 15, so what's the value of my existence?

It's been like this all my life 15 years old. How can we make it a year without regrets? What can I do to be worthy of myself and responsible for my life?

15 years old, the world becomes more complicated and there are more temptations. What should I do when beautiful temptations confuse people again and again? When facing the crossroads of life, who can tell me which road is really suitable for me? /kloc-at the age of 0/5, you should learn to bid farewell to the roadside temptation that affects the future. After all, it's just a beautiful meteor passing by on the journey, just a passer-by in life. Going to Qiu Lai in spring, day after day, year after year, I have learned to say "no" to my parents who read our diaries privately; Say "no!" to a friend who knows it but is stubborn. To that excellent and considerate boy, he said, "If the true feelings are long-lasting, it will be sooner or later." 15 years old, we have our own thoughts and opinions, and we are no longer dolls at the mercy of our parents; People who have no principle for the so-called "buddy loyalty"; Give up the whole world without being persuaded by a word or two, all the girls with ideals and impulses. After going through hardships again and again, we learned to grow up alone; After falling down again and again, I have learned to stand up strongly. Learn a lesson and start over. After encountering setbacks again and again, I have learned to tell myself that avoiding problems is the biggest problem, and escaping is worthless, because after escaping, problems still exist.

Now, I have gradually matured, carefully looking for the positioning of life. Of course, in this long journey, I may be full of holes and bleeding, but my heart is calm, and my life experience has gradually taught me to heal and stop bleeding.

We need to be responsible for ourselves and our lives! To be able to make a list of our actions, after all, we are maturing step by step!

The test of responsibility

Every year, every month and every day, thousands of things happen to people. In the busy life, people are in a hurry and exhausted. Although it is so hard, I have been insisting. Because there is a heavy chain around us mercilessly-responsibility.

At school, we study hard, which is our responsibility. At home, we help our parents do housework, which is our responsibility. It is the responsibility to go out and do something for the society. In the world, grass has a responsibility, flowers have a responsibility, and trees have a responsibility. No matter what life is, you have your own unshirkable responsibilities.

Be responsible for yourself and others. There are thousands of traffic accidents in this country every year, and there are various reasons. It can be said that this is not irresponsible. If car drivers are responsible for themselves and others and act according to the rules, will so many people die in vain?

Responsibility is a commitment as heavy as Mount Tai. It promotes generations of people to devote themselves diligently in their respective posts. This year, under the attack of the whole country, thousands of medical staff bravely rushed to the front line. They are brave. They are fearless. In the battle with "",no one is afraid and no one flinches. No matter how terrible it is, the strong sense of responsibility of medical staff can't be swallowed. When the patient came, everyone took care of him day and night. Some medical staff fell, and someone came to supplement them immediately. In this battle, which is more dangerous than bullets without smoke, they have high hopes for their country. In the end, it was made with the dedication and strong sense of responsibility of medical staff day and night. If they don't have a strong sense of responsibility, they don't know how long this storm will last and how many innocent lives will be taken.

The ancient Greeks said that people walked with heavy burdens on their backs. There are family, career, friendship, children in the baggage ... after suffering, I can't throw away any of them. Because it says two words: responsibility. In life, there are tests of responsibility everywhere. Inadvertently picking up a piece of waste paper is the responsibility to protect the environment; Helping the frail old people and children is the responsibility of respecting the old and loving the young; Solving difficulties for others is the responsibility of helping others. Responsibility is the foundation of society. Without it, tall buildings can easily shake in the breeze. Responsible for yourself, the responsibility is strict instructor; Paying responsibility to others, responsibility is the guarantee of life and property safety; Being responsible for the country is a condition for social progress. Abandoned it, I felt the temporary ease of standing, but lost the glory of my life. Responsibility is a mission that cannot be abandoned. It is shouldered by people. Let each of us have a sense of responsibility to overcome the sudden tests again and again!

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