The reason why Bill Gates divorced was because he was lustful or because he could not coordinate between family and work.

The news of Bill Gates and his wife's divorce on May 4 shocked the whole world, because before that Bill Gates had always said that Melinda was his all-round partner in life. The marriage of the two has always been optimistic by the outside world, but in fact, I don’t know when, there were more and more irreconcilable conflicts between the two people, and finally they had to break up. What was the reason for Bill Gates and Melinda to break up? , let’s take a look together?

1. The technical-minded Gates meets the emotionally intelligent Melinda

As a technology expert, Bill Gates met the most important partner in his life, Melinda, when he was prospering at Microsoft. The meeting between the two was very interesting. At a party, Bill Gates found that he fell in love with this girl. It is not an exaggeration to say that it was love at first sight. Later, Bill Gates wanted to ask Melinda out, so he proposed a Friday night two weeks later. When a man meets a boy he likes, he usually wants to ask the girl out the next day, but Bill Gates chooses to ask the girl out two weeks later, which shows that his emotional intelligence is not high. Even Melinda thought Bill Gates was too funny. Later, Bill Gates asked Melinda out that night. This realization can be said to be the cleverness of Bill Gates.

Like most couples, the man has his own concubine, and Melinda and Bill Gates soon got together. The two people are equally good, but the difference is that Melinda's emotional intelligence is significantly higher, while Bill Gates has stronger business capabilities. The two got married 7 years later.

2. How to balance work and family

Bill Gates’ career is booming, but family affairs need an administrator. So after her first pregnancy, Melinda said she wanted to be a housewife. In fact, if Melinda had not resigned at that time, would the two people have different endings? Bill Gates is busy with his career and has less time to participate in family affairs, including children's education. However, compared to others, Bill Gates spends more time on family than others. When you gain something, you will inevitably lose something. Bill Gates devotes most of his time to his career and naturally spends less time at home. Many netizens speculate that this is one of the conflicts between Bill Gates and his wife.

In fact, conflicts like this are very common in China. I still remember a previous paragraph describing it like this. I can’t feed you, and I can’t hold you as soon as I lift the bricks. Nowadays, young people in China also spend most of their time at work. After work, the husband and wife are responsible for each other's housework and the education and growth of their children. But such a relationship is not balanced. If one spouse has a busy job, he or she may often need to work overtime. They go to work during the day and work overtime at night. When they get home, the children have already slept, and they have to rush to work early in the morning, leaving very little time for family.

3. How to balance family and work

Having less time to participate in family and often working overtime is contradictory in this situation It is easy to trigger conflicts with your wife and children. Some people think that when children are young, it doesn’t matter how much time they spend with them, because the children are still young and they don’t understand. Although children are young, they know in their hearts who has paid more to them and who has paid less to them. Men also want to spend more time with their children and express their true feelings to their wives, but they have no choice. They have to fight and work hard to survive.

After getting married, the wife takes on more housework than the husband. In addition to going to work, she also needs to deal with children’s education and homework after get off work. etc.

You will find that in the parent groups of many classes, most of the people who handle things are mothers, and the number of fathers is less than one-tenth. I have to say that married women are very responsible and responsible. But women will also get tired. I hope that fathers can integrate more into the family when they have time, help with housework and supervise their children's homework. This is a very effective way to maintain a family. Melinda is responsible for most of the education issues for Bill Gates's three children. From the birth to the education of the children, Melinda is responsible for them.

Why many women choose to divorce after their children grow up or after the college entrance examination is over? It is because the father’s role is less involved in family affairs and leaves everything to his wife. That's why women feel tired. And once they can be freed, they can't wait to escape from this life. An interview survey showed that more than half of married women want a divorce, which shows how tiring life is for women after marriage. The days in the past were hard, with not enough food and clothing, but now the days are tiring. Even though the living conditions have improved, the husband is obviously not attentive enough to share family responsibilities. The reason why Bill Gates and Melinda divorced is that they cannot reconcile work and family. It should also be a very important aspect.

4. Why did Bill Gates and Melinda divorce after retirement?

After retiring, Bill Gates has been following Melinda in his passion for public welfare. But does Bill Gates really stop doing things after retirement? No, he still needs to deal with many things every day. Many times, even Bill Gates is unable to attend the charity events organized by Melinda. At this time, Melinda was exuding vitality and running for her career, which was her dream. Her husband was not attentive enough in supporting her dream, which is probably the reason why Melinda felt frustrated.

Melinda can live a good life without Bill Gates, but Bill Gates cannot live without Melinda. I hope they can have a chance to get back together! Of course, some media broke the news that Bill Gates was very lustful in private and often dated some women. This was the real reason why Bill Gates and Melinda divorced. #GATES SAYS HIS MARRIAGE HAS NO LOVE#

How to get along between husband and wife is a very big science. It is different from love. It must be implemented into your eating and sleeping. and what to wear to work every day and other aspects of life, and the state must be "comfortable" and "natural". Only in this way can the couple or parents and children get along harmoniously.