How to lie to others?

1. When talking to you, his eyes are not looking at you

When the conversation gets to the point, if the other person sometimes looks away and looks into the distance, it is not his fundamental concern. Not caring what you say, you are calculating something.

2. When the other person stares at you and refuses to let go

When you encounter the other person’s attitude of “Ah! Let’s just leave it to fate now!”, it means that his lies or sins are about to be exposed. Revealed, at this moment he is glaring at you to pretend to be calm.

3. When the other person’s eyes flicker

When someone is worried about something in his heart but cannot really speak frankly, he will have this look in his eyes. It can be understood that the other person has an inferiority complex or is trying to deceive you.

When you meet a business partner and see the other person’s gloomy eyes, you should think that something is not going well with the other person or something unexpected has happened; and when you talk to the other person, the other person’s If his eyes suddenly brighten, it means that your words have hit the mark on what he is most eager to express.

In the process of communication, as long as we observe carefully, you will find that the eyes do convey the owner's thoughts.

Medical research has found that the eyes are an extension of the brain in the orbit. There are third-level neurons at the bottom of the eyeball, which are like cerebral cortex cells and have the ability to analyze and synthesize. Therefore, the eyes are the most sensitive among the five sense organs of human beings, accounting for more than 70% of the sensory field. The changes in pupils, the speed and direction of eyeball rotation, and other activities are directly controlled by the cranial nerves. Coupled with a series of actions such as the opening and closing of eyelids and the coordination of eye and head movements, people's emotions naturally come from the eyes. It reflects, and the message it conveys is truer than words and deeds.

So, if you want to understand a person, you must pay attention to his eye movements.

3. Eyes raised

Raising eyes is an expression of pretending to be innocent. This kind of action is to prove that he is indeed innocent. When looking at people with bright eyes, the upper eyelashes are pushed upwards, almost coinciding with the drooping eyebrows, creating an unforgettable expression that conveys some kind of frightened and angry expression. A sideways glance is an action of secretly glancing at someone without being noticed, conveying a message of shyness. This kind of action is equivalent to saying: "I am too scared to look at you, but I can't help but want to look at you."

4. Eye blinking

Blinking series Actions include continuous blinking, super blinking, eyelash vibration, etc. Blinking occurs when you are about to cry and represents a mood that you are trying to suppress. The action of super blinking is simple and exaggerated. The blinking speed is slower but the amplitude is larger. The person making the movement seemed to be saying, "I couldn't believe my eyes, so I blinked them hard to make sure that what I was seeing was the truth." When the eyelashes vibrate, the eyes open and close as quickly as a double blink. , is a showy and exaggerated action, as if to say: "You can't deceive me!"

5. Wink your eyes

You use one eye to wink. Winking at the other party indicates a certain tacit understanding between the two people. The message it conveys is: "No one else can know the secret you and I have at this moment." In social situations, a wink between two friends is a sign of They have the most common feelings or views on a subject, closer than anyone else in the room. If two strangers wink, it is highly suggestive no matter what. Since winking involves a tacit understanding between two people that is not known to outsiders, it will naturally make the third party feel alienated. Therefore, whether it is secretly or openly, this kind of behavior is regarded as a faux pas by some people who value politeness.

6. Hanging eyes

This kind of people hide ulterior secrets in their hearts and like to consciously exaggerate the facts. They have a negative personality and dare not look at each other.

7. Eyes drooping

This action means contempt for the other person, or else it means that you don't care about the other person's situation. The sender of this kind of action generally has a calm personality, and essentially only thinks about himself, and is a willful person.

8. Eyeball movement

Rapid eyeball movement indicates that the person has a keen sixth sense, quick reaction, and can quickly see through people's hearts. Such people tend to be independent and have an emotional personality.

Slow eye movement indicates that the person's body and five senses are slow, his emotions are less ups and downs, he is not easily influenced by others, and his lifestyle is uncoordinated.

In addition, different directions of eye movement mean different meanings. Eyeballs moving to the upper left means recalling things that have been seen before; eyeballs moving to the upper right means imagining things that have not been seen before; eyeballs moving to the lower left means talking to oneself; eyeballs moving to the lower right means imagining things that have not been seen before. You are feeling your body; looking straight to the left or right with your eyes indicates that you are trying to understand the meaning of the language you hear.

9. Pupil changes

Pupillary changes are beyond human control. The dilation and contraction of pupils truly reflect complex and changeable psychological activities. If a person feels happy, fond, or excited, his pupils will dilate to 4 times larger than usual; on the contrary, when he is angry, disgusted, or negative, his pupils will shrink very small; Change, indicating that he is indifferent to the object he is seeing or is bored.

Because the eyes convey information worth more than a thousand words, many artists use the eyes in the middle of their works to achieve the psychological description of the characters. In his later years, the famous director Stanislavsky even asked actors to reduce their postures to a minimum during performances. "Almost no movement at all, only eyes moving" is required. In the movie "The Kramers", the couple went to court to win custody of their son. When the hearing and defense went against Mrs. Kramer, she raised her eyes with tears and stared straight at Looking at her husband, her eyes revealed a sense of helplessness and longing for help from her husband to express the love between husband and wife. At this time, no words or actions can compare with the power of these eyes.

This is just as Emerson said: "A person's eyes can speak as many words as his tongue. He does not need a dictionary, but he can understand the whole world from the language of his eyes."