My girlfriend has opened her shop for a year, and she has to pay the rent. She wants me to help her raise money, and she wants me to help her raise money to purchase goods, and then I will pay back al

My girlfriend has opened her shop for a year, and she has to pay the rent. She wants me to help her raise money, and she wants me to help her raise money to purchase goods, and then I will pay back all the money she borrowed.

1. She has used up all your credit cards. On the surface, it sounds like she is being unreasonable and you are helpless. But in essence, it was caused by you avoiding your own responsibilities and not being good at managing yourself. The problem is not with her, but with you. I wonder if you realize it?

2. She can have her own preferences, she can be free and easy, and she can be casual. These are her characteristics. Since you like her, you should like everything about her, regardless of her advantages or disadvantages. It's her, this is real love.

3. In the final analysis, in the face of love, money is simply an external thing, it depends on what you care about:)