I feel like a loser. Tell me about it.

Life is like chess, you have no regrets, one careless move will lose the game.

This life is like a chess game. Every choice you make and every step you take will determine your future direction. After choosing, no matter how regretful you are, there is no chance to start again. Because the game of life is fair to everyone.

Ancestors often say, be a man and do things step by step, be cautious and focus on the future. Only in this way can people live a stable life, make fewer mistakes and not be caught by others.

There is a saying in the Book of Songs: "Fear is like walking on thin ice."

Every time we walk, every road is full of unknowns and challenges. If a person doesn't have the courage to wander around at will, then his life will be "timid" and it will be difficult for him to live high. However, if a person is confident enough and cautious enough, I believe that he can go to live high without being controlled by others.

In life, there are always people who complain that they are "timid" and are bullied. Then, looking back, why are people "timid" and then regarded as soft persimmons?

Just because I made the wrong choice before, I took the wrong road, so that the more I live, the more uncomfortable I feel and the more wronged I am. Then, in this life, people can't go wrong in these four ways, otherwise, they will regret it.

A timid, timid, self-confident "heart"

Someone said, "What is cowardly is not his natural perfection, but his choice."

People's cowardice is not born, it is their own choice. Why do you say that? The so-called "whether there is life or not depends entirely on people." You don't have self-confidence, just because you have problems in your heart, not because you were born humble.

Those timid people, they will always be a person with their heads down, and they don't know how to raise their heads to become a strong person. Therefore, being bullied, looked down upon, and even being "fish" on the chopping block of others dare not say anything.

Just like in social occasions, no matter who you meet, you dare not look up at others for fear that they will eat him. Such people lack self-confidence and are too weak.

Just like in the workplace, the boss gave them the opportunity to express their opinions, but these cowards were afraid to stand up and speak on the stage below. Such a person ruined his life not because he didn't have a chance to show it, but because he didn't have self-confidence.

Timid people, they go the wrong way, and this road is the "humble" road of life. You know, if you don't know how to be confident and self-reliant, you will only become a soft persimmon in the end.

Being a coward, being excluded and lacking enough "self-confidence"

There is a saying on the Internet: "The reason why I dare not speak too loudly is because I have no money."

What does lack of money symbolize? It symbolizes that this person does not have his confidence. Imagine what kind of career and life a person can achieve without self-confidence.

What is the bottom spirit? It's a human pedal. Although some people lack material strength, they are full of spirit and brilliant. With this pedal, they can achieve their "goals" and win wealth.

People who want to live a wonderful life without being looked down upon or bullied should know how to improve their self-confidence. If you have money, who will call you a coward? If you are talented, who will say you are incompetent?

Everyone has his skills, the key is whether he can use them. If you can use it to the extreme, I believe this person is not far from going uphill. Because their life will be full of confidence rather than cowardice.

Being a coward, being bullied, losing the courage to be "not afraid of things"

When I was a child, the old man often told us: "A person can only succeed and achieve his life if he is not afraid of things and offending others."

When I was young, I thought that harmony is the most important thing when people get along with each other. Why should we be "not afraid of things"?

Later, I learned that "not afraid of things" here is not to intentionally offend others, but to let us learn to stick to our bottom line and stand, not to be bullied by others and not to let others cross our boundaries.

People who are really fearless, they punch one punch at a time to avoid a hundred punches. No matter who they are, they will show them their boundaries and not let them violate them. Once the other party violates it, it will not retreat, but will fight back.

This is exactly what "cowardly" people can't do. Because people are too timid, they will only lose the principle of being a man in the end. How can we talk about cultivating "bottom line thinking"?

People are in rivers and lakes, and things are complicated. If people always give in blindly, they will eventually give each other a feeling that you are good at bullying others. Then, the other person will push your luck, push your nose and face, and trample you into mud.

The biggest weakness of people is to choose to lower their bottom line infinitely and make themselves unprincipled.

Be a coward, be passive to Nuo Nuo, and lack personal "opinions"

In this society, there are two words to describe "no opinion", one is "conformity" and the other is "drifting with the tide".

With the gradual expansion of our social circle, people have to face more and more people. Then, how to survive in the circle and how to keep yourself in the crowd has become a problem that everyone has to think about.

Why do so many people like to follow the trend blindly and be timid now? It is because they lack independent opinions, don't know what they want, where they want to go, and what they want to achieve. They are totally dependent on others and listen to their words. So, this is not someone else's "puppet"?

The essence of cowardice is "puppet". People can't live without their own ideas, so what is a truly capable person?

Just like cotton, whoever hits it will be soft and won't let the other side taste "pain". But if you have an idea and hide the "fine needles" in cotton, they will get hurt and won't come again if the other person punches them down.

This is the essence of life. You know, that soft cotton belongs to those timid people. And those fine needles are their "opinions" and "ideas".

When a person has the wisdom of "hiding needles in cotton wool" and the courage to "stick to his heart", then the road he takes is a glorious one, not a dark narrow path.

In life, one misstep makes an everlasting regret. The reason why people live "cowardice" is because they choose the wrong direction and go the wrong way, so the more they live, the more inferior they feel, and the more cowardly they live. For the rest of my life, be an upright person, do things generously, live calmly, and be a strong person who meets the wind and rain and sees the world.

Text/There are deer in Shushan