When do you feel you have to leave your job? The kind without any reason?

After more than ten years in the workplace, there were three moments that made me feel I had to leave.

First of all, my first job was in the suburbs. Public security is very poor, and robberies often occur. At that time, the department worked overtime, and I was afraid to go home every night. On the eve of the Spring Festival, a colleague was robbed of his bag at the bus stop in broad daylight and almost got injured. At that moment, I made up my mind to leave my job.

Second, the second job has been relatively stable, and the sudden reorganization has caused many colleagues to leave. The hardest thing to accept is to have a meeting with colleagues to discuss work. TA was suddenly called away, and when she came back, she packed up and left. All this has broken the culture that the company has been advocating. At that moment, I made up my mind to leave my job.

Third, the third job is actually handy, and the promotion and salary increase in the same year. However, when I was planning at the beginning of the second year, I found that my work arrangement for the whole year could be seen at a glance, and I felt very tired. I have a strong desire in my heart: to see the outside world and what is possible for me. At that moment, I made up my mind to leave my job.

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The above three moments represent three different psychological needs:

1. Safety requirements: Social safety and occupational safety are the most basic demands of people in the workplace. How can employees who have no sense of security and are always on tenterhooks devote themselves to work with enthusiasm and peace of mind?

2, value recognition: individuals will pay attention to salary when looking for a job. But in the end, corporate culture plays a vital role in deciding whether to really join a company, that is, the recognition of corporate values. The culture of the enterprise has changed, which is inconsistent with its own values. Naturally, it is impossible to stay.

3. Self-realization: I have stayed in a company for a long time and lost my enthusiasm for work. At the same time, I hope to realize my self-worth in a broader world. It seems that I am sorry for myself if I don't challenge when I am old.

If it is based on the above psychological demands, then don't suppress or embarrass yourself, resolutely propose to leave and create better opportunities for yourself!

Thanks for paying attention to the free space of Little C! Good Night!

Hello, I'm Wang Xiaoer, the village head.

I'm glad to answer your question.

Ma Yun once said,

A man wants to leave his job,

Then there are two reasons.

One,

I just didn't give enough money.

Second, I feel wronged.

Employees in the workplace,

The purpose of work

Just for

Make money,

Or for the dream in my heart.

If the company can't meet these two requirements,

That employee will definitely leave.

When I used to work in the company,

At first,

The company ignited my dream and made me feel like following my boss.

It will have a bright future. So I do my duty every day, not afraid of being tired.

Not afraid of suffering,

Do any difficult work,

Because I always thought,

As long as you work hard,

The boss will certainly not treat me badly.

I must devote myself to the company,

Then, through our own efforts,

Get rich returns,

It wasn't until later that I slowly discovered that,

It turns out that it has always been.

It was the boss who drew a cake for us.

I have to watch it, but I can't satisfy my hunger.

The promise of being a boss has not been fulfilled,

I wasted my efforts,

And the money hasn't arrived yet,

I feel wronged in my heart,

As a double blow,

This moment will make me feel,

That's what I should do

Leave this place.

All right!

I hope my answer can help you,

Bye.

Nowadays, most young people are wandering outside, accompanied by loneliness and poverty. How many pretend to be alive, how many empty nesters, and how many Buddhists? They support big cities, but most of them can't stay, and it's hard to take anything away.

Faced with endless classes, endless money and endless complaints, I don't know how many moments I want to quit my job and escape from this day-to-day muddled life. Everyone has thousands of experiences, and the reasons for wanting to resign and leave are different, but there are three scenarios, which are probably the sadness that everyone has generally tasted.

First, the loneliness at that moment made me want to go home. I don't know when the word "empty nesters" came into being. It refers to going to work, eating and shopping alone. I got rid of the noise from my colleagues at work, went back to the rented small house, turned on my cell phone and found that there was no one to talk to. Occasionally, when I am free, I feel the room is empty, and no one knows when I will die. Think about the warmth of home, I really want to go home regardless.

Second, when I wash my face in the morning, I feel that I am no longer young. A girl told me that she has been working in a big city since college. Her parents think that she has a decent job, her relatives think that her salary is high, her friends think that she is doing well, and everyone thinks that the reason why she is single is that she is too picky. But in fact, only you know the real pain. In his thirties, he can't see any hope. The salary is only enough for consumption in big cities, and under the glamorous appearance is endless suffering.

One day, when the girl was washing her face, she suddenly felt a little vicissitudes of life and was shocked at once, followed by deep sorrow. She is really no longer young. Besides, she is like this. Do many boys feel that they have no energy from the beginning? The sense of loss and crisis goes hand in hand. How I want to stop gnashing my teeth and go home to live an ordinary but peaceful life.

Third, if you add classes you don't play, you will be scolded endlessly. I usually work overtime when I have something to do. If you are tired, you have to change a word. This is nothing, the key is that sometimes, good help leaders do extra things and help leaders carry extra pots. The workplace is the place where grievances are most concentrated. Even if I am so angry, I can only submit to humiliation. Many times, people are on the verge of collapse, as if you were going home.

I am afraid that many people have experienced these three scenarios. It is said that there are dreams outside, but how many can really realize them? Seeing getting older and younger, but getting farther and farther away from their dreams, many people have to accept the reality that they are ordinary people. But at this time, even if you don't want to, most of you don't have the courage to walk away, because even if you don't talk about your dreams, you are short of money.

You can't fight if you have a wife and children at home. Even if I have no attachments, I want to stay until the New Year and have the money to play twice. It's not how much I like it now, but the way I choose to grit my teeth and go on.

Hello, I am handsome. I'll answer this question.

When did you feel you had to leave your job? Just resigned this month.

In fact, I have long wanted to quit, but I have never had the courage to take that step.

I think the main reason for my resignation is that I can't see the future in this company. [Covering your face] (I can't see the money) 70,000 a year.

Last year, in 65438+February, the company reformed (in the name of reform, layoffs), a 50-year-old colleague was laid off, and skilled workers were laid off as porters.

At that moment, I found that I had to leave here, and I couldn't fool around here.

I'm afraid I'll be like him when I'm 50. Our work here has no technical content. Say something.

If you don't like it, you may be nothing and nothing if you leave here. You may only be able to do some hard work. You are old and have no strength. I don't want you anywhere.

Ma Yun said that whether a job is done well depends on two aspects.

Is there any future and money that is not in place?

If you have neither, you can resign. [Tears streaming down her face] [Tears streaming down her face]

Young people can fool around, but they can't fool around all the time I want to be quiet.

This question is exactly what I want to do these two days. My question is simple. It's because of my children. My children have been brought up by grandparents since childhood. I am six years old. I do my own sales work. I have no fixed rest time all year round. I often work overtime and have no time to take care of my children. The old man is not used to city life and won't follow me. To put it bluntly, I have no freedom at home. I always feel that children depend on others. There are no special requirements for the elderly to take care of their children. Special thanks to my mother for taking care of my children. Although I didn't bring it with me, I brought it well. I should start taking it myself this year. Because of the epidemic, the cost of home mortgage and car loan is too high, and I dare not give up my job at present. After I went to take care of my brother's children the day before yesterday, I began to feel that I would give up my job to take care of my children, because the children were at home with my grandfather, although I was very sensible. But the lack of mother's care always feels that it is a kind of harm to such a small child. When I talk to my child, she often says that she has nothing to say to me. Maybe the reason why I haven't taken care of her for too long is that there is a gap, which makes me think that children are more important than money. I should give more to my children, and I can't just think about economic problems. My child only grew up once and missed too much. I really want to give up my job to accompany my children and share my current real situation.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. Here, I want to answer your question with one thing. I was very busy at my last job. I have to get up early at 6 am and go to work at 7 am. I didn't get home until around 7 pm, and sometimes I worked overtime. It's nearly afternoon 10:00 when I get home. I'm very busy!

My mother helps take care of the children. I remember an incident that happened in my hometown. My mother went back to her hometown for a few days, and I also said hello to the company leaders. I can get off work early these days. Send the children to kindergarten early in the morning and go to work in the afternoon. At night, my child suddenly had a fever, and I couldn't go to the emergency room quickly (because my husband was working in other places at that time, my mother and I mainly took care of the children). I still had a fever the next morning and couldn't ask for leave from the company. The leader was very good and agreed at once. But there is a meeting in our department today, and I want to sort out the contents of the meeting and send them to them. This meeting is very important, which is related to the project promotion of the company in the first half of the year. After I gave the child the medicine, I quickly drafted it on the computer at home. As a result, I heard a loud noise just after writing for 5 minutes. The child went to get something, fell down and cried, and then hurriedly coaxed him to write. I've been writing for nearly 20 minutes, and I'm almost finished. I think this child is really helpful. It's too quiet. I'm in trouble when I look over there. The child took the medicine I prepared from the hospital for three days and took it there. When I saw it, I was frightened and went to the hospital for gastric lavage. Fortunately, it was timely, nothing serious, but at that moment I really wanted to resign, without any reason, just wanted to resign. Later, the manuscript was written by a colleague, and I stayed at home to look after the children for those days. Later, I changed my job closer to home, and I felt that it was not easy for everyone. Just like the song "Leaving Roots" sings, people run around for their livelihood, but their destinies are intertwined.

Thank you, I hope my answer can help you! ?

This all exists. You must be young. You can choose too many when you are young, and then it will gradually decrease in middle age. At that time, you will be stereotyped. I suggest you think about it when you are young.

For example, I worked in a large enterprise for three years. At first, the leader told me that as long as I worked hard for two years, I would have a chance to climb up. My three years of hard work and persistence have brought high profits to the company after taking office. I'll ask the leader if I can get a raise and promotion. My leader told me two words: work hard and try again. My conclusion is that ability is directly proportional to treatment, and an enterprise that doesn't talk about money and dreams with you. I won't consider leaving my job directly.

Common ones are as follows:

1. When the salary is raised, others add 500, and you add 50, and you want to slam the door in an instant!

2. When the department was too busy, the supervisor told the boss that there was no shortage of people and that he could come and do all the tasks assigned to us. We were already overwhelmed and went to have tea!

3. All kinds of prevarication at work, when there are interests, they don't give in to each other, and if they are not caught, they will make a scene. This kind of disharmonious team atmosphere can only be bad if it persists!

A leader whose ability is far less than his own was parachuted in. He is arbitrary, does not listen to reasonable advice, and often gives himself orders!

5. What the boss promised has not been fulfilled!

6. I was robbed of my credit by my boss!

A healthy person should be normal psychologically at first, but I am not normal.

I left the company like this, and I really can't find any reason to stay. It's a little long, please read it patiently.

In May of 20 18, the company's capital chain suddenly broke, and a new energy listed company with nearly 10,000 people closed down instantly. Almost all the projects that have been in operation for decades and are being expanded have stopped working, and the debt crisis broke out in an all-round way. Creditors from all sides (shareholders, investors and suppliers) flocked to defend their rights. Employees have been unpaid for five or six months in a row, and their hearts are unstable, and they have resigned. In the future, many projects can't maintain employees' daily food and shelter, so they can only have a holiday. It's a mess. It's a real mess.

1.

In fact, the capital chain went wrong as early as the end of 20 17, and the top management of the group has been hiding it by making false accounts. The following projects will not be paid from February 20 18, and some projects will be paid after the self-help operation is successful, but our project will not be paid until the end of the year, during which only 4000 yuan of living allowance will be paid, which means that wages will not be paid for 11 months in 20 18.

I insist on being on duty in the project until the middle of 1 1 month. I am really unbearable, depressed and anxious, and I am confused in front. So I found a heating company to work, but the original unit did not resign. Just started for a month,1late February, the project suddenly called and said it would resume work. After much deliberation, I resigned from the heating company and returned to the project. At the end of the year, the headquarters requires the project start-up unit with a large amount of materials to burn materials, so that the refund of electricity charges can pay some wages to employees. Second, burn the stored materials to avoid accidental fires during the Spring Festival. The project also received some funds from the headquarters, so we completed the last 12 days of power generation years ago, and fortunately got all the benefits for the whole year, five months' salary and year-end bonus at the end of the year. This is a dull year, and I suddenly feel very happy and comfortable, even though my salary has not been paid for six months. If you are thirsty for a long time, a drop of water will save your life. Be grateful and smile. After the problem of storing materials was solved, only five or six people were needed to be on duty in the factory, and the leaders arranged people to be on duty in turn, so we rested at home for nearly a month during the Spring Festival of 20 19. On the 23rd of the first month, I returned to the project on duty, and the factory was empty. Five or six people on duty only meet and communicate in the canteen when they eat every day, and sleep in the dormitory and play with their mobile phones the rest of the time. One day in early March, there was a sudden news that our running team was going out to support other projects that could generate electricity. Everyone in the group responded in succession, but I was helpless. Because of the double entanglement of bipolar disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder, I have many obstacles in emotional expression, and I especially want to avoid them for a large number of people. Always inexplicable anxiety, worried about environmental changes, do not want to go out. ).

2.

On March 8th, our party arrived at the Jiangxi project, where we lived and ate. At the beginning, I worked long hours from Monday to Friday, mainly to eliminate defects and debug various equipment, and rested on Saturday and Sunday. Rest after work, sometimes stay in the dormitory, and sometimes go out for a walk to see the surrounding folk customs and street scenes. Jiangnan is a land of plenty, with moist and fresh air, and rural villa-style houses show the wealth of the people. I have been sick for many years, and I have been unable to communicate with people intimately and sincerely for several years. I have avoided talking about almost everyone around me and perfunctory things, so I have never been able to form a stable and trusting relationship with others. People always seem to be a little distant and shy to me, but the situation is not bad. Call me when you go out to play. Although I have been entangled in illness for many years and avoided close contact and communication with people, the basic communication is not bad, so I am not bad at all. Everything is going on naturally, except that there is often no one to accompany you when you eat in the canteen, so you are lonely and flustered. I always feel that others don't like and hate myself, which is very shameful. I have always been self-abased, proud and hypocritical. I always live in the eyes of others and have no self. In order not to be treated differently by new colleagues in the new environment, I always have the cheek to approach my old colleagues, so I am not alone most of the time, as if I have won back some face, but even I feel shameless. This is secondary, mainly because I am deeply ashamed of my inferiority, pride and hypocrisy, but I can't change it. Ah, why is it so difficult and tired to live? How can I become the person I used to hate the most! Well, come to think of it, it's right that others don't like me, because even I hate myself. It's sad to always be treated differently, but it's not a day or two. I'm used to it. I forgive myself for saying that it's a habit distorted by illness. I didn't dislike myself that much.

After a period of steady running-in, small groups will be formed, and people interested in them will get close in private and go out for drinks and meals together. I am a marginal person, and it is difficult for me to identify with anyone, although there is no big gap with anyone. I clearly remember that everyone attended the dinner twice, but I didn't know it beforehand. It's a shame to hear them go out from the corridor and come back together, talking and laughing. Everyone's gone. I'm missing. What should everyone think? In fact, I know they don't want to treat me differently, because when I went out, I asked if everyone was around and heard someone mention me, but no one thought of me when I was having an affair with each other, so I felt like a failure. But when I think about it, the reasons are all on my own side. In recent years, I have rarely been able to treat people correctly and sincerely. It is normal to have a sense of distance, so I can only understand myself and others, and I have accepted similar things in the future, and I have not made any waves in my heart. At that time, I always felt that there was no difference in economic aspects (wages and benefits) (I went to work mainly to earn money), and it didn't matter as for eating, drinking and having fun. But then I realized that it was nothing to eat less economically, but the lack of such a meal showed that others really didn't take me seriously, and I should be ashamed of my failure as a human being. The feeling of going out to Jiangxi for four months: it is necessary to be harmonious with the team and independent from yourself. Harmony with the team, outsiders dare not discriminate at will. Be independent of yourself and circle new territory calmly. As a person, I failed completely. Maybe it is really difficult for a bipolar patient to establish a normal and correct relationship with others, so he ignores it. This happened once or twice, and then it became a matter of course. Whether you are on everyone's side or on my side, I rarely attended some later dinners, and many of them were completely unaware of it. However, this is not the worst, only worse. In the next few months, I was besieged by all my contacts online and became the target of public criticism.

3.

On July 6th, four people who were separated from us moved to Jilin project, probably because of their inappropriate words and deeds, which made them uncomfortable. What's worse, they had a bad impression on me as a whole when we were together before. Three people always avoid me intentionally or unintentionally, which makes me embarrassed and uncomfortable. Traveling all the way, I always feel alienated intentionally or unintentionally. Three of the four people tend to hide and dodge, so there is nothing to say except basic and unavoidable communication when they are on standby, and they will only bow their heads and play with their mobile phones. Before and after the voyage, two people, left and right communication, no words before and after. Arriving at the project site after six o'clock, Lao Wang arranged to receive us. When a team is new to a strange place, the other party doesn't know us, and they praise each other and raise each other while eating, but the team leader Liu obviously pauses and reserves the most when praising me. He is so reluctant to give it at this time, which shows that he has a lot of prejudice against me. In the past, I stayed in a small team with my leader Liu for more than two years. He is my boss and knows each other a little. He doesn't like me, and I don't like him very much. Lao Wang is too good at taking care of people, so he speaks well at dinner, but his conscious words and deeds are still not appropriate. His emotional expression is sometimes too cold and sometimes too warm, and his manners are a little pretentious, which seems to make Lao Wang a little uncomfortable, but he knows that Lao Wang will not care too much about me when he first meets me, so I am not at ease. But in the next five months, I always say inappropriate things at inappropriate times and occasions, which may cause some people's dissatisfaction and discomfort. Finally, I made some stumbling blocks. It's really time to control my mouth.

Lao Wang arranged accommodation for us. Four people live in a room, and there is a door in the middle to divide it into two small rooms. Each room has two beds and a table in the middle. Eat, go to work, sleep and live a 3. 1 life. Eat three meals a day, stay in the dormitory, go to work, and live a life of three points and one line again. This is the first time I have lived with Zhao. It's strange that we didn't know each other very well before, and there was even less communication. The leader of the other family, Liu and Wang Lao, lived together for more than two years and got along well. I have worked with them in a small team for more than two years, and we know each other well, but not deeply, because when we are together, it seems that we are limited to work and have never dealt with each other privately. Before I led Liu, I was the boss of Wang Lao. He gets along well with Wang Lao, but he never pays much attention to me, I know. The first time I went to the canteen to eat, four people went out together and made a table. While eating, I chatted with my neighbor table. After the team leader Liu finished eating, he left without waiting for the three of us. Zhao is very sensitive, depending on the situation (observed in the later relationship), quickly pull away. Wang Lao, a living ghost (also found in the later period of getting along), also left according to the situation. It seems that every one of them dislikes me very much, but it's not. It is true that leader Liu despises me, and neither do Zhao and Wang, just because of their inertia in Jiangxi. Or maybe I didn't talk much when we were talking at the next table. I was originally due to the inappropriate tone, speech speed and expression of bipolar disorder. I always like to interrupt others' words and grab others' words, without taking into account Liu, the leader, and making him uncomfortable. Liu was also not good at words, so he stole a few words with me easily, which made him lose face. This is what I learned later. I didn't think about it at that time, otherwise I would have restrained myself. Ah, explore the psychology behind my love performance-inferiority complex, always afraid that others will look down on me. Hypocrisy, so always live in the eyes of others. Arrogance always makes people hide. Because of the entanglement of miscellaneous diseases, my facial expression and breath are not stable, I am always anxious and eager to express my feelings, so I am always bored. During the months of Jilin project, three meals a day in the canteen were a severe test for our body and mind. Who goes first, who goes later, and how long is the interval. Who calls who, who doesn't call who, who to sit with, one person or several people, has become our very serious sensitive point. Every meal time, the air in the dormitory is tense in an instant. Whoever shouts, who doesn't shout, why not shout, there are certain parts and uncertain parts in my heart, which are vague but clear. Hey, it's all people. Why are you doing this? How much attention is needed? I am so tired!

4.

Speaking regardless of the occasion, I had disputes with my old and new colleagues, which affected my daily communication. In other people's words: "I stink myself." It has also been targeted by leaders, causing some stumbling blocks and great work pressure. In the dead of night, I always think of what happened at work and some people's reactions and attitudes. I always feel that I have tried my best, but I have never been affirmed. On the contrary, most of them are negative comments. Think again, although I tried my best, I really made an unwise move of "picking up sesame seeds and losing watermelon" Considering the management environment of the factory, and the boiler will trip the fan at any time due to total deflagration, safety first, and the index will fall back. Hey, why are you always driven by small points and trapped by perfect thinking? Next, I mainly do my job well, take good care of my health properly, and try not to stop writing: "I saw Wang Lao off in the value last night." During the conversation, everyone seemed to point the finger at me again. Because I didn't have a good rest, I didn't feel it in time, and I interacted with them. Today, I went out with Xiaodong and suddenly found that what they said last night seemed to be hostility and attack. In retrospect, my words and deeds seem to be somewhat inappropriate. Alas, emotional expression disorder, the power of this disease is terrible. I always express my emotions wrongly and confusedly, which easily makes others feel uncomfortable, and then misjudges and finally makes tit for tat. I can still make peace with a simple young man like the fat man, which shows that my emotional expression has been seriously wrong. Hey, how can life be so difficult! " .

It's terrible. Emotion, words and deeds are out of control, and people can't communicate correctly. My mood always switches back and forth between depression and excitement. I've been trying to control myself and make sure my work is not affected, but it's still not very good. Rigid and passive in the team, can't feel a person's self-esteem and self-confidence. People who are particularly attractive to themselves, especially want to respect, and especially want to associate with each other are very painful because they can't correctly express their feelings and keep their distance. I really hope I can take good care of my illness, be a normal person, be an ordinary person, and at least live with dignity. "Today, the representative of Jilin saw us off. Alas, I decided not to come again, but some emotions and expressions are beyond my control. How to go down the road? It's too difficult! If only I could turn this page, I hope everything can start all over again. " .

Due to a series of bad effects brought by my physical condition, I really can only leave that familiar and unfamiliar environment. 2020, let's start again!