Philosophical classics say: learning to let go is for better progress.

First, we often encounter hard things and see people who are not pleasing to the eye. If we can't forgive, how tired you should be. Don't always grasp your own shortcomings and put down the bad ones. Let yourself decompress at all times. There is also rare wisdom in forgiving the bad. In life, there will inevitably be contradictions between people. Perhaps the other party inadvertently stepped back and broadened their horizons. While forgiving others, they are actually forgiving themselves.

Second, you can't have everything in your life, you can only experience it, and one day, you will wave goodbye to everything in the present. People who understand will understand that these losses are just experiences, and all gains are just experiences. No matter how beautiful it is, it is just a kind of brain. You should cherish what you get and say goodbye calmly when you lose it.

Third, don't wait until you lose it, don't wait until you regret it, don't wait until the quarrel is over, don't wait until your grievances are exhausted, don't think of your friends, don't look back when you miss it, and don't leave when you miss it. Life is short and happiness is hard to come by, so cherish what you cherish and do well at present, as long as you leave a wound, it will inevitably become a scar in the future.

Fourth, life belongs to you, and you don't need to judge yourself with other people's eyes. If you want everyone to be satisfied, you will only lose yourself in the end. You can't make everyone satisfied with you, because everyone has their own standards. Trying to make everyone like you is actually a futile performance and an irresponsible performance to yourself. Don't get lost in other people's opinions. Listen to your voice with your heart and be yourself simply.

Five, there are some things you can care about, but you must not go too far. Too much will make your pace heavier. There are some difficulties, you can immerse yourself in them, but you must not stay too long. Too long, you will cut your ambition and lose yourself. If you don't have it, you will never refuse or give up. This is your own generosity. If it's your destiny, don't let go easily. Let self-confidence and persistence become a good accomplishment. The more you care, the less you laugh and the less you look at anything, the easier it will be.

Sixth, learning to let go is for better progress. The good and the bad will go, and the happy and unhappy will pass. What happened in Jen is like a light rain outside. You got wet and walked away. You put the beauty of the past in your heart and put the pain of the past behind you. Don't care, don't regret, the past will eventually pass, learn to let go, and your benevolence will eventually move towards better.

Seven, the road of life is to rely on their own down-to-earth, what can really protect you is your own choice, and what hurts you will be your own wrong choice. It is not your destiny that determines your life, but your own choice.

8. Life is a dream. In retrospect, you can feel or feel a good mood. No matter whether you are rich or poor, there are gains and losses, everything is like a passing cloud. No matter which day, you can suddenly face it, it is a beautiful day. Regardless of all the mutual affection, it is best to cherish it all the time. Life is more like a ticket, there is no rehearsal at all, every step of going out is live broadcast, as long as you grasp every performance well, it is the best reward for life.

Nine, there are always people who will praise you, and some people will say that you are not good, but as long as you have a clear conscience, you don't have to care about other people's comments, let alone their eyes, and you don't need to blindly please others. In that case, you will live very tired. When others speak ill of you, don't pay attention to them, it's not worth it, because these words can't change the facts and will disturb your mentality. If your mind is out of order, everything will be out of order.

Our experience is honed to better comfort others.

First, being superior is not noble. True nobility should be superior to those who have experienced it.

Second, every group has a group hidden in its heart. You don't know if the other person can live well, but sometimes what you miss is just a complicated name and a complicated experience.

Third, sometimes, a person who advises you to separate can be the one who loves you the most. A person who wants you to stay can be the one who cares about you the most. A person who is eager to stop contacting can be the one who cares about you the most. A person who is silently separated may be the most reluctant to part with you. Our life is spent in such contradictions and entanglements. Love is not a game to play together. Love is just a pain that has to be separated because I care about you.

Fourth, our experience is tempered to better comfort others.

Everything will be fine, even if it is not tomorrow, there will be one day.

6. The world is so big. When you grow up, you are famous all over the world, but you want to find the little girl next door who licked the lollipop for you. You have been looking for death, but you still haven't heard from her. But the world is also small. Maybe you eat a bowl of dirty cooking fire and go to the toilet in the street, and then you will suddenly meet the shameless scum who robbed the neighbor girl's lollipop when you were young.

Falling in love with someone is not because he gives you what you need, but because he gives you a feeling that you have never had before.

Eight, there are always some things that make people forget the time. There are always some things that must be put aside, because there is still today.

Nine, everything is tolerant, everything is believed, everything is hoped, and everything is patient. If you can believe, you can do anything.

10. You stumble and get hurt all over, just like the residual makeup you painted for your youth.

Xi。 No matter who, what and what, you can't stand the toss, or you can't increase your persistence. People are not constant, things are not permanent, adversity is safe, prosperity is calm.

Twelve, time is quiet, talking to you; The trickle of water is with you in the year; Prosperous, you are old.

Thirteen, I always miss too much and miss the past that I can't go back one after another. Nobody told me, and nobody comforted me. In this way, it is a complicated and lonely life. We laughed and said that we stayed in the same place in time, but in fact we had already been swept away silently by the torrent. Life is always a dilemma, no matter how persistent and unwilling, we must learn to bear those who are no longer true. From crying and complaining to smiling, this is ultimately just a carefree situation.

Love is the most wonderful thing in the world. Even if it breaks your heart, forget it with a smile and start the next journey.

Fifteen, just because I am too old, all the sadness and happiness seem so deep, and the quiet touch is earth-shattering.

Sixteen, the time to get together is always very short; The waiting time is always long; For me, every day with you in my memory is colorful!

Seventeen, a lot of indifference, but also a lot of indifference, walking in the street, no longer bitter nostalgia; Sitting alone at home, no longer missing silently, every time people meet on the road, it is not necessarily that the whole encounter is lingering; On the road of life, we often get to know each other, but not all of them have origins. It is fate that always sparks, loves and splashes.

Eighteen, what we are constantly looking for is what I already have; We always look around, but we miss what we want, which is why we can't get what we want so far.

19. The sweetest joy in life is the fruit of sorrow, and the purest thing in life comes from suffering. We have to experience the difficulties ourselves before we know how to comfort others.

20. Until now, I still remember the beauty and chic of catkins, the misty sadness, the four-season brook, the wind and rain full of red leaves, and the elegant acacia. Is the burning Hong Kong River blocking your way home?

2 1. Perhaps the heaviest burden is also the most empty meaning of life. The heavier the burden, the closer our life will be to the earth, the more real and the more real it will be.

Twenty-two, some people, once met, will look for 10 thousand years; Some heart, once started, flowing water under the bridge.

Twenty-three, in addition to love, there are always lonely people, not who you love, who will love you.

24. Some people's statements are intended to open our eyes. Therefore, people must be able to resist lying, perfunctory, cheating, forgetting promises, letting go of everything, being refined and calm.

25. Nothing is eternal, and nothing is long-lasting. Find an excuse and anyone can go first.

Twenty-six, I learned a group, in a quiet afternoon, perhaps a quiet night, repeatedly listening to sad music, repeatedly reading sad words, quietly giving my heart to this indifferent ethereal, intoxicated in it, thinking in it, and understanding another real beauty in it.

Twenty-seven, whoever is a dance academy will accomplish nothing; Whoever can't dominate himself will always be a slave.

Twenty-eight, when I hold you, you are a cup, when I let you go, you are a glass slag. -to those who don't know how to cherish.

Twenty-nine, people who have the ability to be willful will also have the ability to be strong.

Thirty, the wrong love, like a necrotic muscle, should be removed as soon as possible, although you know it will hurt, but it is the only way to live.

Tencent said that taking back the fist is for a better counterattack.

1. God gave you this life because it knows that you are strong enough to live.

2. If one day, the goldfish closes her eyes and drops a tear, I won't love you anymore. You won't see the goldfish's tears, because he is always in the water.

Although she looks like a woman, don't forget that she is just a girl.

Four, some people, forget it, people don't care about you, why flatter yourself, in the future? In the future, love yourself with your life.

If your future bride is not me, I won't be so cruel as to throw sulfuric acid at her or cut her wedding dress. After all, she married someone I like.

6. In the eyes of others, I am proud of myself, but I have been groveling in front of you for so long.

Don't bother someone who doesn't want to talk to you, because the most important person in his heart is not you.

I don't like talking about dreams, but I am ambitious.

Life is your own drawing board. Why rely on others to paint it?

I just like to play with the people I love, and then we abuse each other.

Don't test people, you will not only be disappointed, but even despair.

I just want to have everything I want by my own efforts.

12. Even if I come to the end of the road, I won't go back to those dogs who betrayed me.

Thirteen, not all smiles are sincere, and not all persistence is easy.

14.[ Please be safe and don't let me down]

I'm sorry I didn't lock my memory well and let it be full of sadness.

Sixteen, [a beautiful girl makes them swoon with a look and a smile]

17. Which is more difficult, the sleepless night or the morning awakened by a nightmare?

Eighteen, life always needs motivation and faith or belief, so a person can be impartial, and immortality is you.

I haven't bothered you for a long time, because I don't know if you are in my active chat.

Twenty, take your fist back so that you can fight back better!

All I want is for your long-term partner to stay.

Twenty-two, [even if the world is unfair, the rest of the road should be lifted]

Fish has no eyelids, so it can't close its eyes. When it is afraid, it can only look at God, which is fair, so it is given a memory of seven seconds.

Seeing your long-lost name, I suddenly want to cry, but I can't cry.

25. The road ahead is bumpy, will you give up? Are you afraid of being covered with thorns? Are you a loser, young man?

The feeling of liking someone very much is probably: caring about everything but forgiving everything.

I know that time is a good medicine, which can dilute the beauty of the past and smooth the sadness of the past.

I don't want to be a secret in your heart. I want to be a scream when you are drunk and a sigh when you wake up.

I can't write down the date of return in the past]

The mirror is my best friend, because it never smiles when I cry.

I haven't bothered you for a long time, because I don't know if you are in my active chat.

Thirty-two, time will harvest the truest feelings, and wind and rain will test the warmest companionship.

Thirty-three, timely turn, not weakness, not concession, but a kind of mind and goodwill.

God gave you this life because he knew you were strong enough to live.

Forgive my ridiculous stubbornness, but I didn't know you had deep love for her in your heart.

I like the way you don't like me, but you can't fuck me.

We always get the best feelings from the most ordinary people.

Give me a good night and let me know that you are still here tomorrow.

There is always someone who makes you laugh the happiest. Cry the saddest

40. Is it too sensitive? People who pay too much attention to details are unhappy.

Forty-one, who hasn't been forced by reality to change from a kind-hearted child to a scheming madman?

Forty-two, how many students secretly peek at the people they like by chatting with the students at the back table.

[Lao and Meng Po may be lovers, but they always hurt Meng Po. The boss gives people love, but Meng Po wants them to forget. ]

Looking at the back of your departure, I want to run to hold you and tell you how much I love you.

45. If you don't understand my silence, how can you understand my sadness?

46. Time will cure everything. Please give me some time.

Forty-seven, the age that should be happy, is full of sadness.

48. I can always smile and play your supporting role and suffer behind your back.

Memories are like water in your hand, but when you try to catch them, they disappear one by one.

Fifty, a glass of water is hot again. No matter how hard it is, don't let go. Because the moment you let go, you lost not only the water, but also the cup.

Live better for yourself.

1, remember one sentence: "Thinking too much will ruin you. If nothing happens, it is the best revenge. Why do you want to prove something to someone who is not worth it? Live better for yourself.

2, some people have everything in their hearts, that is, they can't say it, so they wronged themselves; Some things already know the answer, but they don't want to get through it, so they torture themselves. In fact, people with stupid mouths are the most sincere; In fact, people who giggle are the most persistent.

3, emotional things are very strange, when you are very involved, the other party is very detached; When you are detached, the other person is very involved. Don't be friends after breaking up, learn not to disturb. This is not only the embodiment of principle, but also the respect and expectation for the other half in the future. No contact, no goodbye, don't be stingy.

I am not afraid of being stabbed in the back. I'm afraid that when I look back, I'll see that the man who stabbed me in the back is the one I treated with my heart. I'm not afraid to tell my best friend the truth. I'm afraid that if I turn around, he will tell others as a joke.

5. If there is such a state in the world: the mind is full and quiet, and people do not miss the past or look forward to the future, but only grasp the present, without feeling lack, enjoyment, unhappiness or fear, and only feel their own existence, people in this state can be said to be happy.

6. Sometimes it's like getting depressed and suddenly feeling bad. Occasionally autistic, suddenly don't want to talk. I often feel that I am wasting my time. Once it's over, I'll feel like I'm just thinking too much.

Every time I want to find someone to accompany me, I find that some people can't find it, some people shouldn't, and some people can't.

8. Since you have identified a path, why ask how long it will take?

9. Many times, when we say we have put it down, we don't really put it down. We just pretend to be happy, and then touch the scar alone in the silent corner.