(Comment: You have already disarmed your weapons, so you are no longer qualified to negotiate with him. You have no trump card. At most, he/you can have a chance to be intimate when you are lonely. Yo

(Comment: You have already disarmed your weapons, so you are no longer qualified to negotiate with him. You have no trump card. At most, he/you can have a chance to be intimate when you are lonely. You hope he can give Is it just a dream to love you more so that you can stand firmly on your side? Don’t forget that the age difference between you is 7 years old. Does it mean that he has passed through spring and passed through autumn? Can you tell me the difference between you and his numerous blind dates? Just by saying that he is very fond of you, you feel it, and finally you are attracted by yours. I feel deceived.) His inconsistent performance disappointed me. But the next day, he would still call me to greet me. I am also confused now. What went wrong? (Comment: They clearly want to develop a brother-sister relationship with you, but if you don’t agree, who’s to blame? For a person who can perform, it will bring tears to your eyes when watching in front of others, and he will scold the people watching the performance behind the scenes. Fool! When a person has many choices, each of us believes that as long as he chooses the right one, everything is a choice. Everything depends on feeling, fate, and zodiac signs. Since everyone believes this, then What's so strange about the ending? Are you still imagining those sweet words? How many people has he said similar things to at the age of 35? Just like Zhang Ailing, who studies love every day and writes love stories so thoroughly, what's the result? Are you careful not to fall into the arms of the abusive lover Hu Lancheng? Compared with Zhang Ailing, most girls should feel happy.) I have only been dating him for 2 months, and it is too soon to get married. I feel like I don’t know him well enough, and I want to enjoy the feeling of being in love a little more. (Comment: Politics governs everything. This is not the saying of the Cultural Revolution. You don’t even look at the big dating environment. Everyone says they believe in fate constellations, so you believe it too. He is really a person who is very good at joining in the fun. To be honest, Those female love experts are fooled by the more advanced male love experts, let alone you?! Then why do you want to sleep with him? Wrong. A female visitor once told me that a local celebrity was very serious when going on a blind date. She showed her ID card, work permit, entrepreneur certificate, and even National People's Congress representative certificate. She was so sincere that you had to believe it. One of the prerequisites for dating is that you must first try sexual relations. Happiness = sexual happiness. Is it appropriate to let people try this aspect at such an old age? And they have had so many dates, but they don’t want to get married. , doesn’t it show that he is very cautious? Look, his reasons are so tempting. This kind of reason is like the kind of married man who criticizes his wife and then willingly becomes a mistress. People are really good representatives of the people. But upon closer inspection, this statement is just like an animal. Why? Because he is still floating. How long will it take for this kind of man? I said, how clean is free sex? And with a little skill, those women who are anxious for blind dates and want to get married will always feel that they are in trouble. Fortunately, my female visitor listened to me and did not. Become one of his many captives.This National People's Congress representative is still weird. My reasons are so good, why don't you live happily with me? ! You said you don’t understand him, and I believe that. Do you have a modern appearance, but deep down you still despise flash marriages? Isn't this a contradiction in itself? And isn’t the purpose of doing this to make the other person feel bad about you? The most terrible thing is that what you want is the feeling of love, but you also have to think about the feeling of love you want, which is not necessarily rare for him. At least if he develops a relationship with another girl, he will not be criticized by the girl’s parents. Oppose? I don’t know how you discussed with him how to deal with parents’ objections? Or should we take a walk and take a look? ) Should I still reach out to him? Based on his current attitude towards me, I don’t feel that he really loves me? I don’t know if what I said is right. I feel that my own ability to love is not enough, so I want to ask the teacher, how can I get along with the opposite sex and improve my charm? (Comment: Why do you want to contact him? Tell him that you love him very much? Tell him that you have a package of solutions to solve the problems between you? What is true love? You gave him the most precious things, so what do you do? Keeping him passionate about you? Sex is not terrible. The key is whether you have a deeper understanding of him before and after you have sex. Do you know how to understand a person except when he takes the initiative to tell you? In addition to the secrets that everyone knows, is there any way for you to know some more secrets about him? There is a huge gap between men and women in terms of understanding secrets. This is why it is recommended to be careful about how to sleep with an older girl before getting married. How much do you know about the opposite sex? How much do you know about the dating market today? Have you experienced "being loved"? Do you love others only when you experience love? As some leftover women claim, it's not that I don't know how to act coquettishly, it's because I haven't met the right person. How can I act like a coquettish person? This sentence is very reasonable, but actually it is not, because this kind of leftover women regard coquettishness as something that they are completely attracted to, but coquettishness is a person's inner cultivation, and more women don't know how to act like a coquettish girl in love, or so It is said that more girls act coquettishly under the influence or temptation of men's strong love, so this kind of coquettishness is as precious as gold. This statement puts oneself in a completely passive state, so this kind of coquettishness is as precious as gold. Men are either already married, or they are just emotional bastards. So the theories put forward by many leftover women are always inspiring, but they have never thought about whether they are practical. As women, we should ignore these people for the time being. , no matter which man you get along with, in fact, the fundamental needs of men must be grasped. This is the virtuousness of women. More women immediately stood up and refuted, why do we need to be virtuous? What about you men? , is it easy for us to make money? We are finally financially independent. It is too much for you men to make such demands. But where is the practicality in that sentence, except for giving some leftover women some reason to stay? , what are the benefits? I think of one of my clients, she was married, but her husband wanted to get divorced because of her long-term rage. I later found out that she knew she loved him very much. , it is her husband who cooks, and everything in the house is done by her husband. She takes it for granted and enjoys it all. Being able to cook is one of the reasons why she chose this man in the first place. She doesn't even know how to cook, and she doesn't even sweep the floor. . Asked her, she still said plausibly, we usually don’t have dinner at home, and our family doesn’t have to worry about having money to buy it. She still enjoys the grace and luxury of a young girl and a young woman. , still enjoying the feeling of being in love, it was not until her husband filed for divorce that she suddenly woke up.

Your current question is the same. When you are with him, have you ever thought about your marriage? On the one hand, you said you know too little about him, but on the other hand, you still had the opportunity to meet him. How did you guide him to talk about marriage, including children, houses, cars, daily necessities, etc.? And the more important point is How did you deal with your parents' opposition to him? Do you think it will resolve itself over time? Have you thought about how to solve it? Have you thought about how to solve it? According to my extensive consulting experience, I’m afraid you just take it wherever you go, right? For this reason, which man would like this kind of woman? On the one hand, women are indeed financially independent, but psychologically they are often still young and passive. Of course, older leftover women will be defeated by younger girls, because at least young people can afford to play. As a man, , and blame yourself less. ) Hope to get your reply! ! ! Confused Jenny