Is it really reliable for men to say I love you when chatting? Will it just set off the atmosphere?

Every woman wants a man to love herself, likes to listen to sweet words and thinks that it is to love himself. Maybe when he is in love, he can be very happy and there will be no contradiction. But marriage is life. It's not just about two people, it's not just about love. San Mao once said: "Love won't last long until it falls into the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping and counting money." For two people, three meals a day is a kind of daily life, and it is also a test to test your handling of relationships and control of money.

If a man just says he loves you, but he never proves his love with practical actions and doesn't take your side in everything, it's hard to say that he really loves you.

When Xiao Fei and her husband fell in love, life was very natural and unrestrained. When they go out to eat and go to work, they all feel very happy, and even think that life is like this. But not long after the marriage, she became pregnant and her mother-in-law took care of her. She thinks it's good to have someone to cook and take care of herself. Needless to say, her husband doesn't like his mother coming. However, two days later, she came. She doesn't like to eat particularly greasy food, but her mother-in-law thinks that she is so vegetarian, how can she make her eldest grandson nutritious? Sometimes when I can't remember in the morning, my mother-in-law is awake outside the door until she wakes up. She is unhappy and feels that life is completely free. She wants her mother-in-law to go back, resign and take care of the children.

I didn't expect my husband to be the first to object. He said my mother was not nice to you. If you don't eat well, how long have our children been? As a mother, you should have a sense of responsibility and don't be so headstrong. If we go on, my husband will say that my mother is still helping at this age, so just make way. It is even more impossible to resign. Husband feels too stressed and has no money to give her every month. He also expects her to go to work to support her family and children. She thinks it's a good day for chickens to fly and dogs to jump.

She thinks about it, when she is in love, she also spends money on her own, and she doesn't want gifts on holidays. This leads to problems, such as who will bear the burden and who he favors, in order to truly see a person's love for you. In fact, whether a man loves you or not, it is definitely useless to rely on his mouth. The most typical thing is to see if he will stand on your side in these two things.

It's normal to have conflicts with your mother-in-law. You have to quarrel with your mother. Some men will reconcile, and some men pretend not to know. To make matters worse, it is biased towards your mother. Because of the existence of blood relationship, this man will unconsciously favor his mother, but if a man quarrels again and again for his mother and wife, even the best relationship between husband and wife will gradually fade away. After all, some things are not absolutely right or wrong. If you keep blaming your wife and don't even listen to her explanation, no one can accept it. Originally, as wives, many people were integrated into the man's family. All she wants is the feeling of family, not something happened. You are all together, but she is alone.