My girl knows everything except that she speaks late.

Language is a unique way of human communication. When people check a baby's intelligence, language ability is one of the five major areas. Therefore, language and intelligence are related. But are children who talk late mentally poor? This problem cannot be simply concluded.

Under normal circumstances, children can be called "father" or "mother" in eight or nine months, and they can talk short when they are 1.5 years old. But some children start learning languages when they are two or three years old, which annoys their parents. What is the reason? Will the child be dumb? Do children who talk late have poor intelligence? Some old people may say that Bao Gong is so smart and stupid. It is said that Bao Gong won't talk until he is 5 years old. There is no research on how old Bao Gong can talk, but this idea is wrong. Children who talk late have many reasons:

Some of them are related to family inheritance. The older generation speaks late, and some of their children learn late. Although they were speechless for a while, they knew in their hearts that their intellectual development was not bad.

Some children are shy and quiet. They are often ashamed to speak because of special psychology such as shyness or fear, so it is naturally late to learn to speak. Some children are busy with their parents' work, and the adults who take care of them lack the knowledge of raising children. They just take care of their children's lives and seldom talk to them, which leads to late speech.

Hearing impairment. If children have severe hearing impairment, it is difficult for them to develop their language ability like ordinary children, because they can't hear all the sounds in the language world around them clearly. For such children, if parents ignore their hearing impairment, their intelligence will be seriously affected because they cannot communicate with the outside world. However, if children's hearing problems are found early and suitable hearing AIDS are put on them, their language ability can be developed like other children.

There are still a few children with brain injuries. People with encephalopathy not only speak late, but also have poor intelligence. Some children have ear diseases, especially high-pitched deafness, which is medically called high-pitched deafness. They started to speak late, and they talked like singing and reciting poems. Parents should take their children to the hospital for examination and treatment in time.

In the first three cases, the child's intellectual development is not bad, so parents don't have to worry. They can create more conditions to talk with him to promote their language development. However, the development of children's language ability is, after all, a leap in intelligence, so teach children to speak well in advance. So how to do this work?

Children should receive language education in a planned way from birth. It is very important for children to listen to tapes and talk to them often. Babies will babble in two months and begin to remember everything around them and what happened. Because they will unconsciously remember the mother's usual behavior, whether the mother talks to the baby during this period will directly affect the baby's speech sooner or later.

We know that babies have better language acquisition ability than adults. That's because they learn languages not by reason, but by feeling. When they listen to adults, although they can't understand the language itself, they have a feeling that they can understand the meaning with the information of the other person's demeanor and movements. This beautiful feeling is based on learning from each other. When the mother speaks to the baby, the baby smiles back; When the baby babbles, the mother rewards him with a smile and verbal encouragement. This kind of communication will arouse his interest in language communication, and then stimulate him to speak as soon as possible.

In addition, it is not necessary to use children's language when talking to children aged 0-3. If the adults around you always think that babies can only listen to their children's language and talk to them in their language, then it is difficult for children to master the standardized language. Furthermore, the reason why babies can master standardized language is not entirely in the process of parents talking to themselves, but the result of often listening to parents and people around them. If children have a strong ability to accept, then how many?

Therefore, it is necessary to speak to children in a standardized language in early childhood. If you wait until the child goes to kindergarten to correct the child's language problems, it will increase the burden on the child and is not conducive to the child's physical and mental development.