202 1 wechat's hottest inspirational talk; Giving up properly is an elegant turn of life.

1, if you love to lose your temper, you will feel that others often make you angry, and anything may be the reason for your anger. It's not that everything is wrong, but that you can project, and you can project what is hidden in yourself to others.

The most terrible thing in a person's life is doing nothing. Life is a journey to an unknown destination. More often, we don't know what kind of future we will encounter next. It's just that sometimes, we just rush blindly and forget the meaning of travel. Some people live their whole lives, but they don't really live a whole day. Because they either look back on the past or look forward to the future and never live in the present.

4. Some people, once missed, are former people; Some things, no matter how beautiful, are also the past. Time condenses the past into memories. You can turn back, but you can't. Everything you encounter, farewell, ownership and loss, can't be changed. Be open-minded, have answers, be practical and open-minded, learn to forbear your temperament, know how to restrain your desires, be sensible when you are backward, be generous when you are modest, get rid of distractions and keep up with the joneses less, and you will adapt to the situation.

As the saying goes, although life is beautiful, it is also fragile. Birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws that everyone living in this world must experience. We have to face the reality, but we must also know how to treat life and cherish it.

6. Smiling is a respect for others and life. Smiling is beneficial. Interpersonal relationships are like the balance of power in physics. As you treat others, others will treat you. The more you smile at others, the more others will smile at you.

7. Leave some space in your life. That kind of blank is not vacant, nor is it pale. It nourishes movement with quietness and supports existence with nothingness. It charges people's spirits. It is a "short circuit of life" deliberately created by wise men, and "short circuit" can help them to get on the road and move forward better.

8. People only have one life. In fact, there is no need to be too demanding and extravagant. As long as you have a happy home of your own, do what you want to do, love what you want to love, try to live your own life, look at the flowers in front of the court and the clouds in the distance, everything can be indifferent, get rid of distractions in your heart and cultivate the pure land in your heart.

9, big day, those are for others to see. Only the small days are for myself. Therefore, every day when two people are together should be a day of little happiness, happiness and gratitude. Even if you have money, there is no need to eat black silk. Even if you are rich, you don't need to spend money indiscriminately.

10, life, there is no eternal pain, no matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal. There is no hurdle in life. You can't sit next to an obstacle and wait for it to disappear. You can only try to cross it. Life, without eternal love and endless feelings, always ends; People who can't get it will always forget it. Slowly, you won't cry anymore; Slowly, everything is over. Giving up properly is an elegant turn of life.

About the cure of life: giving up properly is an elegant turn of life.

1, the stage of life is as wide as your heart is. If you can't break the barriers in your heart, even if you give the whole world, you won't find the feeling of freedom. Persistence in life is persistence in learning. Although we have encountered hardships, we can grow up in repeated hardships and stand up again. This is a life of struggle.

2. Every choice must be a transcendence, otherwise don't choose; Every time you give up, you must be a sublimation, otherwise don't give up. The greatest pleasure of being a man is to realize your ideals through struggle, so choosing to give up means being more perfect, and having shortcomings means working harder. Giving up is a kind of wisdom, and defect is a kind of grace. Because with new goals to struggle, life will be more exciting and life will be more fulfilling.

3, all the way, too tired, stop and rest, rest for a while, to go further. Looking up at the sky, I saw the mottled sunshine coming out of the cracks in the dark clouds and picking up the courage and confidence to move forward again; Looking back, think about what you left behind and what you can leave behind. As long as you relax, any giving up is an effort. Go on firmly, after all, the dream is far away, the future is far away, and the end point is far away.

4, no one can be your crutch, you have to learn to wander independently; When you make a mistake, you should be brave enough to take it. Although shrinking is a kind of self-protection, when others look down on you, you completely fade out the chance of success. No matter how hard it is, the bullet will always pass; If you make another mistake, you won't be lonely. You can start over.

We are grateful to those who love us, but ignore that those who hurt ourselves are grateful to themselves. He makes you stronger and stronger enough to withstand all kinds of storms; We are willing to accept all kinds of compliments, but we forget that it is also important to slander. It calms your heart and faces all kinds of humiliation. No matter how ugly things can be turned into positive energy, the key lies in your heart.

6. Many people like to set small goals because they are afraid of failure. In fact, what they are afraid of is realizing that they have the ability to do many things, but wasting their time and dreams. You have the ability to do anything you want. Don't set small goals, look bigger today. This is a goal you owe yourself!

7. God is fair to everyone. When it closes a door, it will definitely open a window. No matter how bad things are, the world has reserved a place for them. I believe raindrops will not just fall on your roof. Believe in yourself, there is always a corner in the world for you. Having a positive and optimistic attitude is the first step to solve and overcome any difficulties.

8, can let oneself climb, not by others' shoulders, but their own knowledge; What can make you hold on is not the humble struggle all day long, but the unyielding struggle; What can make you thoroughly remould oneself is not waiting for the end of your stay, but bravely saying goodbye; What you can pursue is not the lofty goal in your heart, but the immortal faith; It is not a lifetime of brilliant achievements, but a lifetime of hard work to satisfy you.

9, life, there is no hurdle, you can't sit on the edge of the hurdle and wait for it to disappear, you can only find a way to cross it; Life, there is no eternal pain, no matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal; Life, without eternal love and endless feelings, always ends; People who can't get it will always forget it. Slowly, you won't cry anymore; Slowly, everything has passed ... giving up properly is an elegant turn of life.

10, young, you must have the desire to go on the road and go on bravely. It is better to face it bravely than to bear it passively; It is better to flap your wings and get wet than to stay under the eaves; Excellence is the fruit of courage. You are not brave, and no one is strong for you. If you can overcome the demons that bind you, you are truly brave. Sometimes courage is not conducive to thinking, but it is conducive to doing things. Therefore, perseverance, wisdom, modesty and mediocrity are the yardsticks of a truly brave person.

1 1. Time without laughter is wasted. Everyone who is really strong has to live without help and support. Everything is supported by oneself, and all emotions are only known to oneself. But as long as you bite the bullet, everything will be different. No matter who you are, no matter what you are going through, stick to it and you will see your strongest self.

A classic life sentence: giving up properly is an elegant turn of life.

1. Everyone has pain and scars. If you expose them often, you will create something new. Learn to forget, there is sunshine, there is joy. Time is not buried in time, but submerged in endless worries. If the heart is like the wind, it comes and goes freely, and life belongs to you. Many things can only be seen clearly when the distance is getting farther and farther. Perhaps, many people have passed by us, but few have set foot in our hearts; Perhaps, there are many people who stir our hearts, but few people leave traces in our hearts. People who have experienced setbacks are always more tenacious, more mature and braver, and can see the immediate success, that is, we are one step closer to success.

2. The road you have traveled, you know that it is short and long; After the incident, I know there are joys and sorrows; Only when you taste it will you know it is astringent and cold. Don't arrange your life too full and don't design your life too crowded. No matter what you do, you should leave some space for yourself, so that you can turn around calmly. Therefore, you don't have to look ahead and look back, and you don't have to be too persistent; Learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations and let go of fruitless persistence. Therefore, we should look down on everything, look down on everything and see through everything. Everything is lost, nothing can be left, only the happiness and happiness of the moment.

The road of life is very short. Every road has its own scenery and every road has its own responsibilities. There will be sunny days, rain, snow and frost along the way; There will be difficulties and obstacles, and there will also be Ma Pingchuan. We can't control other people's thoughts; We can't force others to do anything. The only thing I can do is try my best to do my own thing, go my own way and live my life according to my own principles. You must be smart and confused.

4, people, help each other calm down; The road, accompanied by the scenery, is charming; Festivals, remembering each other is particularly warm. The end of the world is just a stone's throw away, and happiness is at this time. People, the most beautiful moment comes from missing relatives and friends, and the most touching moment comes from being remembered by relatives and friends! There is nothing wrong with calling it 1 in my heart. People need to call it expensive. Smile at the clouds, and then sit and watch the rising clouds. Not arguing is compassion, not arguing is wisdom, not smelling is purity, not looking is freedom, forgiveness is liberation, and contentment is letting go. Don't be confused, don't fall in love. Not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past.

5, life, those who can't say, the stream is endless, the road is long, Xiu Yuan is more tired, more bitter and more painful; Sometimes not tired, just don't want to shout tired; Sometimes I am not without tears, but I don't want to cry; Sometimes it is not painless, but it is no longer sad. Some are tired, tired in the body, some are tired, and tired in the heart; Some tears hang on my face and hurt my heart; Some pain, no injury, no trace, pain in the heart; Sound, also tired; Tangible and bitter; The injured person is still injured.

6, peace of mind, can be happy. Quiet inside, you can't hold it. Imprisonment will only deepen his desire for freedom; Indulgence will only increase the length of pain. If you want to live happily, you must first set your mind at ease. The real peace of mind is not to realize one's wishes, because the longing for the sea is endless, but indifferent. The wall stands a thousand miles, and it is just without desire. Indifferent heart regardless of gains and losses, know how to tolerate, naturally win a quiet. A quiet and happy life should be bought with a calm heart.

7. We often can't help comparing with others, but we don't know that comparing with others is meaningless. Only comparing with ourselves is the most valuable. Your today is stronger than yesterday, which proves that you have made progress; As long as you are close to your goal, you will succeed. Happiness is actually a bowl of boiled water that we drink every day. Don't envy other people's drinks of all colors. In fact, there may be no boiled water to quench our thirst!

8. In our life, we always see many people who are much better than ourselves. If you always see people worse than you, then you should reflect on whether your life is constantly sinking. If you often meet people you expect in the process of progress, congratulations, you are making progress. You will feel inferior, but this inferiority can be turned into motivation.

9. Our life is not good. Many times, we are deceiving ourselves. We always dream distant dreams, lose our pace, envy the happiness of others and ignore the happiness around us. The environment is created by the heart, and the direction of the heart is wrong. We will lose the opportunity to feel the joy of life for no reason, and imprison the freedom of thought in a cage made by ourselves. At any time, look at people less, don't sell yourself short, and take care of your life. This is the best way to live.

10 Many times, we live in the criticism of others and often care about the gossip around us. We are happy, depressed or miserable because of an insignificant sentence, which makes our nerves very sensitive and makes our body and mind very tired. As a result, we lost ourselves and gained nothing. We live for ourselves and don't have to immerse ourselves in other people's languages and curl up in the shadows of the outside world. If you hesitate, someone will smile; Break the shackles and the spring is bright ahead.

1 1, we have a natural inertia, always thinking that we can suffer the least, take the shortest detour and get the maximum benefit. There are some things that others can do for you, but they can't feel for you. Without this mental journey, even if you succeed again, the spiritual field is still barren. The happiness of success and the satisfaction of harvest are not at the end of struggle, but in the process of struggle. Therefore, you have to go your own way, and others can't replace it.

12, happiness is a psychological feeling. Knowing and being good at happiness is a kind of wisdom and a kind of verve. Pain and happiness are twin brothers, the only difference is your choice. In this complicated society, ordinary life is a blessing! People always pin the joy of life on external things and attach themselves to secular identity. In fact, happiness is a feeling. If you are not satisfied, you will never be happy. There is no absolute happiness in the world, only a heart that refuses happiness.

13. In our life, we have to experience many things, and the mind is like a sieve, which is slowly missed by some people in the world. However, for smart people, what they miss is only the shortcomings and deficiencies of others. They will not deliberately remember a person, but will remember the good of others and always be grateful. A tolerant life will make it easier for us to feel joy and security.

14, you envy others with a monthly salary of tens of thousands, but you don't know the hard work of working overtime until late at night. You envy the freedom of others to play around, but you don't know what he gave up for this freedom. Everything has a price, whether it's wealth 1, career, love or freedom. Others will always be others. Other places will always be other places. When you pass by, the place where you are now will become another place for you. So don't envy. Life is not anywhere else, it is here.

15, if we like someone, we will devote ourselves wholeheartedly to each other and our own time and experience. Some people say that the lovers in this life are because you accepted his kindness in your last life, so the Buddha asked you to love each other in this life and repay each other with each other's lives. If not forever, it can only show that the person who really helped you in your last life has not yet appeared! I would like to cherish what the other party has done for you.

16, we have been fighting for happiness, and we are still persisting as always. I don't know that happiness is around us. A greeting from a friend, a concern from a relative, and every action of a lover are all representatives of love. Therefore, we face the world around us with a grateful heart and bless my family and friends with a sincere heart. Believe in beauty, believe in miracles, believe in hope, and believe that people who love me are never far away!

17, sometimes we pay too much attention to the voice in our ears, are indecisive and timid, and finally tire our hearts and spirits. Even if it is done well, there will be people pointing fingers; Even if you are in a mess, you can still hear hymns. The only thing that can save you is yourself. You don't have to dwell on external judgment, fall into the eyes of others and distort yourself to please the world.

18, if the heart is simple and there is no complicated confusion, you can see through it; Life is simple, goals are clear, and you can go far naturally. The more desire, the more pain, and the farther and farther happiness will be. Only those who know how to control their desires can enjoy the real pleasure of life. Only those who know how to care can enjoy the harmony between the left and the right. Only those who know how to let go of themselves can enjoy the ease and calmness of life.

19, friends know. In the journey of life, some people know each other but don't come to know each other, some people know each other but don't have time to promise each other, and some people promise but don't come to be together. These painful memories, these secrets belonging to two people, will disappear with the wind. Remember that some people don't need to be with her every day. As long as she smiles happily, your world will not be black and white!

20. We should learn from sunflowers and be a person who actively absorbs positive energy. In fact, there are not many big waves in life, and most of the time life is asking for trouble. The so-called trouble bothers you, that is, you absorb too much negative energy. If you want to learn from sunflower, you should go to it where there is sunshine. Contact more excellent people, talk more about healthy and upward topics, and think more about issues that are conducive to the development of life. If the heart is full of sunshine, even if it rains, life will turn into spring rain.

2 1, many times, I would rather be misunderstood than explained. A drop of ink can stain a glass of water, but it is difficult to stain a river, because generosity can accommodate it; In a word, it can destroy a temporary mood, and it is difficult to decide a person's life, because fate is in your own hands; An accident can make you walk heavily, and it is difficult to erase your persistent pursuit, because you are alive, because you are strong, and because you believe. Let go of your mood, let go of your heart, and let the beautiful world be in your heart!

22, people, expensive in the atmosphere. Some words are just words, don't care; Some scenery, just scenery, need not be nostalgic; Some moods are just moods, not a lifetime. If you let go, you must learn to turn gracefully; If you get it, you must learn to cherish it in various ways. People who know you don't need to explain; People who don't understand you don't need to explain and don't deserve to explain. Walking in the sun, there is actually no shadow; Smile at yourself, but everything is smiling. Touch the sea with your heart, and the sea is in front of you; Touch the world with your heart, and the world is in your heart.

23. Life is beautiful only when it comes out, but not when it comes out. When I grow up, I understand, and my heart will be complicated. After twists and turns, after hardships, I still feel that indifference is the best and simplicity is the happiest. Language is often false, and what we experience together is true. Many times, I would rather be misunderstood than explained. Believe it or not, it's in your mind. People who understand me, why explain! Some memories are doomed to be indelible; Just like some people are destined to be irreplaceable.

24. On the journey of life, all roads are roads, and you must taste the ups and downs. There is a lot of helplessness in life. When you can't change the environment, you can learn to change yourself quietly. When you cannot change things in real time, you can try to change your attitude; When you cannot change the past, you can prove yourself by changing the present; People can't predict tomorrow, but they can grasp today. Living is a state of mind. Life, rather than being satisfied with constant pursuit, is better to precipitate yourself first and see your real inner needs clearly. As long as you are willing to open your closed heart and experience and embrace the happiness in front of you, you will live more 1 foot and be happier than others.

25. Just looking at other people's mistakes and remembering them all day is like piling up garbage in your heart. As everyone knows, endless troubles are not all caused by people who have a hard time with themselves or people who make themselves angry. The fundamental reason is that they are eager to stare at others and always punish themselves with other people's mistakes. When garbage keeps piling up in my heart, happiness can't come in. It is better to see the scenery than to see right or wrong.

There are three attitudes to a happy life: indifference to the past; Cherish the present; Believe in the future. There is no eraser in the answer sheet of life. You can't change it if you write it. Let bygones be bygones, or you will have a hard time with yourself. If the heart is simple, the world will be simple and happiness will grow; If you have a free heart, you will live freely and be happy everywhere. Sometimes, it is better to care less than to care more. Without heart and lungs, you can live without being tired!

26. There are always some people and things in life that make us helpless. This is an unspeakable pain and deep sorrow. Since there is nothing to do, we should adjust our mentality and accept it frankly, tear up the past calendar and start over; Use rational hands to soothe the wounded heart, and let the flowing water of time dilute the sad memory. Since there is nothing to do, let it rain and wind, and let those helpless people and things do nothing for us!

27. There are two realms in life, one is silent pain and the other is silent smile. Life is hurt, painful, sweet and bitter. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity, which makes people think, make people strong, and make people know how to cherish. Life, without eternal love and endless feelings, will always end, and those who can't get it will always forget it. Slowly, you won't cry anymore; Slowly, everything is over. Giving up properly is an elegant turn of life.

28. Life is not the length of life. Every cycle of life is a process of blooming and falling. When flowers bloom, they will bloom incisively and vividly, and when flowers bloom, there will be colorful places. Everyone will be hurt a lot in the process of growing up, crying, feeling sad and suffering. And after the pain, you are a brand-new self. If you have been injured, you will understand; When you cross it, you are mature; Always lose something before you learn to cherish it; Before you learn to change and give up, you always have to hit a wall.

Classic Quotations: Giving up properly is an elegant turn of life.

Guide: true love should be cherished. There is nothing shameful about loving only one person in your life. No one and no one are born together. Life is not long. How lucky you are to meet the person you love.

1, love is beautiful at first, happy in the process, but painful in the end.

Time won't stay for anyone, it always slips away from us inadvertently.

I can assure you that all I can give you is my whole world.

As long as my heart is still beating, my love for you will not stop.

Love is always suspicious, so we are all verifying it repeatedly.

6. You once said,' If you stay, I will always love'. Now I am still here, but your love is not.

7. Love is like multiplication, one of which is zero and the result is always zero.

8. Time can witness love, but not all love can stand the test.

9. Strong people always laugh at others, but only cry at themselves.

10, some unbearable sadness, we always learn to hide it slowly.

1 1. Love is a war. I'm not afraid of getting hurt, but I'm afraid you'll be unhappy.

12, love is a kind of cruelty. Only on the balance of your heart can you weigh whether you have love in the other person's heart.

13, in life, there is always someone who can make you smile even when you are not around, which is really good.

Sometimes, life is unfair, but we have no reason to despair.

15, in fact, there is nothing I can't let go of, but I will feel sorry and pay so much affection. If I say no, it's gone.

16, you won't meet the second me. You have to understand. Some people once lost can never come back. Like ... no one will stand in the same place forever waiting for someone.

17, when someone breaks your heart, there must be another person waiting to repair it for you.

18, giving up properly is an elegant turn of life. Life is such a process of awakening.

19, love a person, the original love to seven points is enough, there are three points to keep loving yourself.

20. It's all my fault. I shouldn't have dreamed of being seventy when I was seventeen.

2 1. If we meet again, I will congratulate you with tears and silence after many years.

22. You are unhappy because you don't love yourself well. You often consume yourself because of others.

23. The sky is not always clear, and the sun is not always bright, so it's no harm to have an emotional breakdown occasionally.

24. Elegance is not trained, but an experience. Indifference is not a disguise, but a precipitation.

25. Sometimes, for love, the figure is quietly avoided, but the silent feelings cannot be avoided.

26. The wind blew sand into the desert. You wait for me, waiting for ten years of long meditation. You are a legend in the world, and you are the only one in the world.

27, a little lonely, a little painful, a little publicity, a little overwhelmed, a little need comfort. All right, open it. Kind of beautiful.

28, a person is not alone, want to be alone; A person who loves others is unhappy and a person who is loved is happy.

29, life is like this, cherish it, you will always be your own protagonist, don't always play a supporting role in other people's plays.

30. We will think about what we are afraid of, and we will hear what we believe. What scares us is not the outside world, but our hearts.

3 1, tell yourself that you can cry in a mess when you are sad, and look up when your tears run dry and smile beautifully.

32. On the road of life, some things can only be faced by yourself. I really want to rely on it, but I must be strong.

33. No one has ever compromised in front of the secular world, but there is always a reason for you to motivate yourself to become strong.

When a person is quiet and relaxed, he will find that all his troubles can be solved by himself.

35. If what you gave me is also for others, I'd rather not. It's not terrible not to get it, but it's a joke not to stay.

36. Be a calm person, be a kind person, be a person with a smile on his mouth and a happy heart.

37. Every morning, I remind myself once again that life is short and beautiful, and there is no time to struggle and care.

38. Nothing. No matter how many times you do it again, you will definitely have regrets in your life.

39. In the scenery I have walked through, I am no longer lonely with you. In my scattered years, you are here and the sun is shining.

I admit that I really miss everything, but I also admit that I have accepted the fact that everything has changed.

Editor's note: The most precious person in life is the one who knows you and is willing to accompany you for a lifetime. There is a kind of happiness called cherish, and there is a kind of happiness called forever! Knowing each other is wordless warmth. How many times can you get drunk in life? I hope to win a heart and never give up.