I should believe that you love me very much.

Your situation belongs to the standard spare tire.

There is a difference between a spare tire and a good male card. The latter is often given by beautiful women to suitors who are not interested in her and have no guts. The spare tire is different. Women date you, talk to you about feelings, and let you eat small tofu. I just want to tell you: I have a good impression on you, too. I'm not ready. Please wait, don't worry.

She's really not ready. She is not satisfied with having a boyfriend like you. But she can't find a better one, so she can only hook up with you. Take you as a spare tire In case there is nothing to do in the end, I can only talk to you.

"In order to catch up with her, I can do whatever it takes, both materially and spiritually. Any good suggestions? Sincerely ask for advice. "

There is a suggestion. The most practical and easy thing for you to do. Is to keep the status quo, continue to be nice to her, and make her inseparable from you. Let others know about your affair and let other blind people retreat.

A protracted war is king. Six points girl, 26 years old, she can't afford it. In two years, she will be yours. The spare tire finally became the first round. Because she really can't find another starter.

I'm not laughing at you. This is the best and most realistic way. I have seen many similar examples in my life. Don't think that only pua can get girls. Most people want to get married and have children all their lives, and more than half of them are AFC. Many people use this method. Please remember: even an ordinary woman will get married.

I can imagine your pain: it exists in hopeless pain. Your biggest enemy in this protracted war is yourself. There's a good chance that you won't be able to keep it yourself. Even if she refuses a little, you will suffer. This kind of torture is enough to break you down. The AFC's protracted war method also needs thick skin, hehe. It is best not to take rejection seriously. Anyway, it doesn't matter if you persist for so long. How many milkshakes don't itch

I'm sure you understand all the reasons. You know you are obsessed, and you know very well that this obsession can't last forever. But you just want her. You just miss her, right? In that case, I won't reason with you. Here is just to tell you what she thinks of some of your behaviors:

1. Just met, just studied abroad for 3 weeks. This man is possessed and wants to chase me. I'm in a bad state. Has he never seen a woman before? Why are you so hungry? Even if I want to be with him, I have to wait for him to calm down. Now she treats me like a princess. Actually, I am a woman who digs her toes while watching TV. I'm with him now, and I'm probably going to dump me soon.

I received a letter of confession. I have to answer a letter seriously. Definitely can't promise. But you can't refuse death. The last person chased me. After telling the truth, he will wake up for a while and may ignore me. Let me preach to him. And give him the impression that I am serious about my feelings. (Note: Actually, she wrote this letter with great care. Tell the truth. )

This man is too kind to me to ask for anything. Then I will talk to him about everything. It doesn't matter if you tell him the bank password. He won't move anyway. I don't have the courage to disturb my secret crush xx anymore.

4. I have dysmenorrhea again, nnd. Tell lz and other men quickly, let them care more about my mother and help her do more work. Last time Xx laughed at me and said, "Are you going to tell every man about this?" After work at noon, he made me a cup of black tea and said, "It doesn't hurt to find a man to live with." Md, I'm so angry. I really love and hate him. Never tell him again.

He waited for me under the floor for two nights! What a psycho! Shit! This sounds terrible. . . . . It seems that I have to stay away from him in the future. . . .

That's basically it. I won't lecture you or give you advice. As a real man, how should I control my heart? You don't listen to me. I won't force you to "freeze" her because you can't do it at all. I'm just telling you what this woman will think of some of your actions. It doesn't matter whether you can continue to chase her or use AFC in the future. Just fight a protracted war. However, you'd better do less stupid things.

An extra reminder: don't learn from some playboys in the bubble, flirt and suppress. If people do this, they may fuck her after two days of knowing each other, but you can't follow suit. Because your image in her mind has been fixed, it is impossible to TD soon. Short-term changes will only make you obscene. Moreover, your mental control is not in place, and it is easy to be self-defeating, so you have only two choices: 1, keep it as it is and keep chasing. 2. Swing a sword to cut off love. I don't think you will choose the second option.

Finally, your crazy behavior proves that you have a serious "emotional hunger", so I want to copy a unique sentence for you to see:

"emotional hunger"

People of all ages will go hungry. Take me for example, I can't stand sleeping alone. Even if I take a nap, I can't stand sleeping alone. I feel that I have been trying to find someone to sleep with me for so many years. This is not so much a habit as an emotional hunger, but I spent a lot of energy to find a solution to this hunger. To illustrate the problem, let's talk about another kind of hunger-money hunger. As a part-time tour guide, LZ has just started his career and is bound to suffer from "money hunger". Suppose your daily income is 100 yuan, then if you work 10 months a year, your income should be at least 100 * 22 *. Although this number can't eliminate all the symptoms of your "money hunger", it will never lead to your anxiety about money rising to the highest point-at least your food and drink can be guaranteed, and your anxiety will only "rise" when you see someone else's famous car and mansion!

So, in fact, you may have taken measures to treat your "money thirst". For example, the first move is to be a part-time tour guide. At least your current income can curb your anxiety level; If your strategy is to raise your daily income from 0 to 500 in six years, and you don't make a penny in these six years, even if your goal is clear and hard-working, I can conclude that you may not last six months unless you go to prison!

Well, suppose LZ admits that you have "emotional hunger", and you can't help but spend 24 months treating this symptom, but there is no sign of improvement at present. How can you not collapse? The dog said well, "lz time span is not short, and there is a saying in the middle," Another year has passed ". I just want to say, brother, this year, you have been able to associate with three MMS. " In an adult's mind, you have received an impossible task. You should ask yourself, "What's the stupidest thing I've done in the past 24 months?"