When I really want to give up on you, it means I'm really tired. Tell me.

1, when you find that this relationship is only maintained by your initiative.

Nominally, you are a couple, but in fact, the other party has not paid anything in this relationship, as if you were holding the rope by yourself, and when you let go of the rope, you fell off. Such a lover will suck up your energy, energy and tears like a vampire, and you feel very tired, so please let go at this time.

2. When you are chatting, you find that you are not in the future plan of ta, or there is no ta in your future plan.

In your plan, the future is not in a city, and the other party has not given you any promises. This relationship is like a kite without thread. You even carefully avoided the topic of "the future", as if it were a minefield, "Just be happy now". You comforted yourself in this way, but in fact you already knew it wouldn't last long.

3.ta's actions towards others are seen by you, which makes you panic for an instant: Do you really want to spend your life with such a person?

For example, you have a bad attitude towards the waiter in a restaurant, or you see lying to your family on the phone, bragging, drinking too much, and being grumpy and rude after getting drunk.

You will only have negative emotions when you are together.

Once upon a time, they were a couple talking and laughing. I don't know where to start. Together, they only blame each other and dig at each other. This kind of love is not sweet love, but bitter. Why do people want to be bitter gourd?

His "brother" makes you feel that you are not from the same world.

A girl once told me that her boyfriend's fraternity joked about the relationship between men and women in front of her: "Huh? Your girl hasn't come with you for a long time recently. Changed one? " At that time, she felt very bad and worried: would she be called "girl" by him and his "brother" when she was away?

6. After you were with him, you didn't become a better self, but worse and worse.

The right people will help each other, and the wrong people will use laziness, deception, anger and irritability to adversely affect your state and drag you down the abyss.

7. He didn't show up when you needed him most.

You registered yourself for acute gastroenteritis, because he said he happened to be out socializing. You have to take medicine just by intravenous drip. There will be many difficult moments in life that need the support of two people. Not this time, and not next time.

8. deceptive

9. Violence

What is terrible about violence is not the pain of flesh and blood, but the complete tear of trust between two people. From then on, you know that there is something in his heart that is uncontrollable. I don't know when he will release the beast that hurts you, insult you, beat you, and even kill you. No matter how gentle he is, please leave him as soon as you are sure that there is a violent beast living in his heart.

10, show off

Ta said, "Who likes her, who she knows and how to get in and out". People who love to show off generally have inferiority complex. He is eager to put everything he has experienced and everyone he knows on his belt and on the table. First of all, you can't puncture his self-confidence when you get along with such a person. He is very tired.

1 1, cold violence

If the phone doesn't answer, WeChat doesn't answer, and it's difficult to communicate, just say that you are tired and don't want to talk. Please tell me directly if you don't love me. If you find that the other party is using cold violence to distance yourself from you, it not only shows that ta doesn't love you, but also shows that ta is a person who dare not take responsibility for his refusal. Not worth it.

12, two people sit down and don't know what to say.

This is the most common in long-distance relationships. There are thousands of words in the world, but when I picked up the phone, I found that I didn't know where to start except "I miss you". If two people love each other, please cultivate as many hobbies and topics as possible. Good love needs careful management.

If you really have nothing to say, and you don't want to share your trifles with him at all, then let go. People from two different worlds can only kill each other together.

13. His house makes you feel incompatible.

Please pay attention to the first feeling of meeting the other family for the first time.

Being born in a family is a shackle that a person can't get rid of all his life. No matter what kind of education you receive, no matter what kind of people you meet in your life, it is difficult to completely get rid of the influence of your family background. If his family disagrees with you, Even if he is in love, he will protect you. What about the future? Who will he choose between his family and you?

14, he doesn't want you to integrate into his circle of friends.

I won't take you to meet his friends, and I won't even reveal his love in any social occasions. He would say, "I'm afraid of trouble, so I don't want to go public." The actual reason is that he doesn't love you enough to give up a forest for a tree.

You have to trust me.

15, people around you say that you seem to have something on your mind recently, and you are always depressed. I haven't seen you smile happily for a long time.

Ta has become your biggest melancholy. Being unhappy with him, being self-centered all day is more anxiety, worrying that he will no longer like himself, fearing to be apart and together, feeling that he is not so important, and guessing his thoughts. He didn't force you.