What if my husband is lazy and sloppy? I think he is not pleasing to the eye and often quarrels.

Your husband is so irresponsible! But you are unlikely to change him. Since you don't want a divorce, you should get used to him, accept him and tolerate him. You do what he refuses to do. You must support the whole family by yourself.

Educator makarenko once said a classic sentence: "Everything is given to children, everything is sacrificed, even our own happiness. This is the most terrible gift parents give their children. "

In fact, the impact of divorce itself on children is limited. Dad or dad, mom or mom. Many children in single-parent families have problems, mainly because children lack love and high-quality love! Therefore, as long as your care and love for children remain unchanged, you can further improve the quality of love. I believe that your current spouse will not love children because of divorce. If he really doesn't care about children, it's not because of divorce, but because he already has problems.

For children, the living environment is the most important. A family with bad feelings between husband and wife will have a great negative impact on children, and children will think that marriage is painful. How much harm will frequent quarrels, violence and cold violence do to children's young minds? It is better to divorce and let the children have a peaceful environment.

You can let your children know that we can bravely say no to the unbearable state of life. We can refuse pain and choose our own happiness.