I am a freshman. How can I persuade the counselor to be an assistant counselor?

there are no more than three tricks to convince leaders. With these three tricks, you will succeed immediately.

but if you can only use one or two tricks, it shows that you are really capable.

the first trick: recommend yourself and show off your advantages.

Say what you know first, even if you can't do what the teacher asks, don't say die. "I'm not very skilled, but I can learn. I will do it as long as you ask." Then tell your strengths, "I am confident in XX and XX".

Note: When you speak, you must pay attention to your tone. Even if you are really outstanding in a certain aspect (such as writing), you should express it implicitly. Don't let the teacher think that you are showing off and making public.

the second measure: put yourself in the other's shoes and enjoy the resources.

This requires that you can always think about every problem from your teacher's point of view, keep the same interests with your teacher, share your views and ideas with your teacher, and then give all the credit to the teacher. However, this requirement is relatively high, because with your experience and mind, I'm afraid you can't reach the height of your teacher, so I suggest that you just concentrate on safeguarding your teacher's interests.

note: don't compete with the teacher for merit, or you will be miserable. However, when you give all the credit to the teacher, the teacher will give you more honor. When safeguarding the interests of teachers, we should also pay attention to it. Only speak well of your teacher and never involve others.

the third trick: communicate with one hundred and be satisfied with one hundred

this is not an advertisement, but a trend. If you want to get rich, build roads first, and if you want to get along well with teachers, stereotypes are inevitable. Ask the teacher to have a drink, say something complimentary, say something heartfelt, and finally express something.

Note: Don't talk to yourself when drinking with the teacher. Be sure to lead the topic to the teacher, try to lead to the topic that the teacher is good at, listen to the teacher more, and then be a listener. Don't talk too long, control it at about 2 hours, and tell the teacher at the end that I really want to do something with the teacher to improve my skills, and then give the teacher a gift, and everything will come naturally. There are many ways to express your meaning to the teacher by giving another sip. If a man gives two cigarettes, a woman gives a bottle of high-grade perfume, or directly stuffs a small red envelope.

finally, maybe some people (or you) will disdain my point of view, but I want to say that it is such an ethos in the whole society now, and teachers are also members of the society, so they naturally like it. Everyone can do what he should do for his ideal, but the chance of success always belongs to a few people.