My mother-in-law gave me 50 thousand when I gave birth to my daughter, and my mother came. I have lived in my mother-in-law's house ever since. What should I do?

0 1. Your mother-in-law is so kind to you. She gave you 50 thousand yuan because you gave birth to a daughter. Do you know how much money her mother-in-law gave her to have a daughter? I gave her 200 yuan, and we were all at a loss. How did we get this 200 yuan? I don't care whether I take it or not, that is, my relatives and friends will take gifts. Now I want to take 500 yuan. That's your daughter-in-law, that's your son, and you give 200 yuan when your granddaughter is born?

Later, I heard that my mother-in-law prepared a red envelope of 5000 yuan. Hearing this, she gave birth to a daughter and changed her name to 200 yuan. What money did you give her daughter? You said you would meet such a mother-in-law. What would you do?

I know why your mother came. You live in your mother-in-law's house! Did your mother take that 50 thousand yuan Do you have a brother at home? Your mother took your brother's money for getting married and buying a house, or your mother was not a fuel-efficient lamp at all, so she took the money and went out to travel by herself.

When my brother and wife got married, her mother asked my second aunt for 60 thousand yuan. What is this 60,000 yuan? It's my daughter's nursing expenses, and I don't know what it means. Anyway, I have to give my mother-in-law 60 thousand yuan!

My old woman also gave me 200,000 yuan, but this 200,000 yuan is for my husband and me to live in the future, which is different from the 60,000 yuan. My brother and mother-in-law took 60 thousand yuan to travel. Later, they bought a house to decorate and didn't take any money. People really give birth to daughters to sell.

What do you think of my sister-in-law and mother in the future? Do you think she is too cheap? Your mother is equivalent to selling you to my family for 60 thousand yuan. I have always thought that the gift money must be given, but this money is not for my mother, but for my husband and me to live in the future. Just married, there is nothing at home. How can you live without money?

03. Do what you can and learn to refuse, no matter how close you are! Your mother-in-law won't give you a good look if your mother takes the money. Hard-earned money is given to you so that you can raise other people's granddaughters well. You want to give it to your mother for consideration. If you were a mother-in-law, would you feel better?

There is a kind of pit that can't be filled, and my mother will never do it. My mother would rather go out to borrow money than ask me for money, because she knows that I have children, I have a family and I have difficulties, so she will never give me any trouble.

Conclusion: Who is to blame? You are to blame. You should say no to your mother first. Isn't it easy to find a reason? Just say that your husband has the money now. You need to discuss it with your husband. When your husband comes back, you two can talk it over and see why your mother borrowed money. If your mother or father is ill and needs money badly, accept it. If nothing is important, forget it. Just say you want to buy a house. I don't have enough money and want to borrow it.

You must discuss borrowing money with your husband. Don't lend money without permission. Family is a whole, not you alone. After discussion, your husband agreed. Even if your mother-in-law knows, what will happen in the future? Your husband is good to you, and your husband agrees. You can throw this pot outside without carrying it yourself.