Be an interesting and knowledgeable person.

Interesting is a treasure that can give people infinite wealth; Interesting is a bright lamp, which can give people warmth and tranquility; Interestingly, a rough piece of jade, perhaps crystal clear, or stubborn as a stone, all carries the same light of wisdom.

Fun is a resource, and God scatters it at will. Some people are rich, while others are poor. Some people are born with jade, and some people have no chance all their lives.

I don't think I am a very interesting person. In the traditional mode of life and education, this background color of characters has been realized.

Even if some people are good at telling jokes, they are still a very boring person in my opinion.

Interestingly, everyone may have a different understanding.

Some people define interesting people as people with rich life experiences and stories. I believe that what makes people grow is not time, but experience. The more experiences you have, the more likely you are to look at life intelligently and treat yourself and others objectively, and the more interesting it is. I partially agree with this view.

Experience is really important. "Still water is deep" is the truth. "Running" is called a stream because it is so shallow that a small stone can make it bark. People who admire them very much, they are used to living and dying in bloodshed and have experienced too many big winds and waves. In their later years, they are as quiet as a deep pool, their eyes are as deep as the sea, and they are as calm as a mirror, and they can feel a special peace around them.

I once saw the madness of an English buddy. A man ran to Asia, tore up his passport and all his money, and then spent two years being sent from one country to another (the police found him and asked him where he came from, and he would say a country he had never been to, and then the police would send him there without money). In retrospect, he said that he enjoyed the state of pure freedom. I have also met many people who have traveled around the world or are traveling around the world. Looking at their photos and videos, watching their stories and anecdotes about the journey, sometimes I feel that this is alive. The ancients said that "reading thousands of books and taking Wan Li Road" are all ways to increase your knowledge. Compared with reading, I believe that the knowledge gained in walking is more vivid, profound, vivid and interesting. So I have always been fascinated by the experiences and experiences of walkers.

In my opinion, fun can be divided into two levels.

One is interest, which can also be associated with words such as fun, wit, childlike interest, style, taste, humor and humor. Some people are willing to be with TA. TA makes you feel comfortable. Talking and doing things makes you feel very interesting, makes you physically and mentally happy, and feels a silent beauty, relaxed and happy. As we all know, in addition to daily necessities, there are poems and hops in life. TA people can look at life and themselves with a detached attitude. They will stop to look at the road ahead, tidy up and plan their next trip. In addition to running around, TAs will also look at the roadside scenery, dust off their bodies, smell the flowers on the roadside, and abandon their physical and mental burdens from time to time so that they can start light. Breaking, giving up and leaving are the wisdom that TA people never lack in their lives. They laughed and scolded, bent on their own way, regardless of the eyes of passers-by. In the eyes of ordinary people, some TAs are even stupid and crazy (hehe, of course, these are only a few extreme), just because their behavior is not understandable and acceptable to ordinary people.

There are also people who make you feel heavy pressure and cold when you open your mouth. Even on a sunny day, when you open your mouth, Ta can make you feel the cold wind and dark clouds ~ ~ Chicken feathers in your life are still good, just like a garbage collector who specializes in rummaging through various trash cans. Being with such people makes you not only doubt life, but also lose interest. On the one hand, TA has only rice, oil and salt in his heart, and he has always bowed his head and walked his own way. Without goals and directions, TA will go with the tide of life and be too busy to eat and drink Lazarus every day. How can he have time to care about it? Can be eaten as a meal!

However, some people can jump out of the shackles of life and look at things on another level. Autumn is coming. In addition to the harvest, thick colors and thin autumn scenery can all trigger some feelings in TA's heart. "Look at the mountains, the jungle is dyed; Full of rivers and blue heads, winning every battle. " Even if I don't have such a great mind, the blue shirt will, like me, indulge in the myriad scenes of autumn, which has nothing to do with other things, only romance, hehe.

The real fun should be the fun of thinking. In the most boring life, I can also write interesting words. I am seven feet and one inch, thinking about the Millennium, and see Wan Li.

Such as Dongpo. There are many anecdotes about Dongpo. Here's one:

Fo Yin, a close friend of Su Shi, is a monk, but he never avoids wine and meat. On this day, Fo Yin fried fish and drank wine, which happened to be the day when Su Shi visited. Fo Yin quickly hid the fish under the big fish. Su Shi had already smelled the fishy smell, but he didn't see it when he entered the door. He remembered that he had been cheated by Huang Ting that day. He changed his subject and deliberately said, "Today, I came to ask the master, what is the next sentence of Xiangmendi Changchun?" To Fo Yin's great surprise, his old friend read a well-known old saying, and he blurted out the following sentence: The accumulation of good deeds is not just a celebration. Su Shi clapped his hands and smiled: "Since there are fish (surplus) in Qing (Qing), why not accumulate some goodness and enjoy it?" It is not difficult to see Comrade Dongpo's wit here. Similarly, I seem to see the embarrassment and cuteness of this fair-weather monk.

Interest can be divided into elegance and vulgarity, and you can define it as elegance or even wildness. Nothing, just a label you gave it, which has nothing to do with it. The important thing is to make people happy.

The second is "fun". To tell the truth, I don't know how to express this meaning more accurately. Maybe I can describe it in time. Change is everywhere, adapt to it, adjust it in time, adapt to the weather and popularity, and don't force it after the season, otherwise it will only be boring. Speaking of this, it leads to the most representative word "Zhiqu". Don't be a nerd. For example, you like the darkness that a person likes, but the other person seems to be different from you, which is actually easy to feel. At this time, whether you are "familiar with fun" or "unfamiliar with fun" is different. If you don't know it's fun, you'll become a dog skin plaster. If you know it's fun, you'll stop. People who care about you will care about everything about you, including feelings; Similarly, people who don't care about you, everything about you has nothing to do with TA, and you are infatuated with someone who doesn't care about you at all. Apart from boredom, what you can probably get is humility, self-abuse and physical and mental destruction. Things are changeable, things are constantly changing, and timely response can keep things not chaotic, interesting and boring. I have seen Who Moved My Cheese, which was once widely circulated in the workplace. The metaphor of two little mice is very vivid. I am more like the little mouse that lingers in the same place and is unwilling to accept change. It was good. How can I say it has changed? Even if you don't say it. Think about it, in fact, changes are everywhere, and some subtle changes are hard to detect at the moment, but we lack the necessary knowledge and consciousness. "At that time, it was only the Tao that was ordinary." "I lost my heart when I was free, but I lost my mind."

Being familiar with fun is a kind of cultivation, and you don't embarrass others or yourself. Interesting is a kind of ability, knowing how to advance and retreat, knowing how to choose. Familiarity and fun is a realm. It is used to watching flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, but it is unmoved. What is obvious between static and dynamic is the pattern and tolerance.

But I really like TA. What should I do?

Go with TA!

Calm down, slowly feel your emotions and feelings, follow the trace and see what it is. In the end, it may be selfish. Is it yours or mine? Come on, TA, what else do you have besides emotions?

The tides rise and fall, and the clouds fall in Yun Qi. Who and who can be together forever? There are so many exciting things in the world, can you put them in your pocket? What can I do if I can? Are you really lucky?

I can't let it go. I just can't get over it.

If you can't get through it, you will be bored, uninterested and fall into an emotional swamp.

It is my goal to be an interesting and knowledgeable person. What about you?