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30 things men don't have to care about before they turn 30.

0 1 Give it up

The opposite of grasping is giving up. Choosing an opportunity means giving up all other possibilities. When new opportunities are in front of us, we dare to give up everything we have gained. This is not failure, this is not giving up halfway, this is to seek greater development space; Or do nothing, just because you like to do it, because youth is the greatest opportunity. Before the age of thirty, people will only have courage, other capital and qualifications.

02 lovelorn

It's not that I don't care, it's that I can't afford it. Before the age of 30, what I fear most is not what I already have, but my dream. If love is just a process, then this is exactly what this era should experience. If you have to bear the consequences, you may be more capable and qualified after 30 years old. In fact, before the age of 30, we have to do a lot of things, fleeting, addicted to the dry river bed of love for too long, not in line with the pace of life at this age.

03 divorce

I don't care, but it's not too late. The 38-year-old girlfriend and her husband got married 15 years, and finally broke up in the cold war 13 years. She said: "If I say that I don't want to divorce later because of the children, I don't agree with his first divorce. Now think about it, I really don't know why. If I had broken up earlier, my life would never have been like this. It's always too late to start again. "

04 drifting

Wandering is not a misfortune, but a qualification. When can I float without being dragged down by my family and be healthy at this time? Of course, it is not necessarily the body that wanders, but perhaps only fantasies and dreams. The fashion leader in the new century is a wandering generation, and the only thing that people who are eager to wander are their hearts.

05 unemployment

It is unfortunate to taste unemployment before the age of 30, but it is not necessarily a bad thing. It may be the greatest misfortune to be fixed in a profession prematurely before the age of 30 and spend the rest of your life. Unemployment may remind you of long-buried dreams, and may awaken potential you didn't know. Maybe you don't have any dreams at all, and you will be forced to dream at this time.

06 fashion

Don't follow the fashion. It is said that young people should be the most fashionable, but independent thinking and personal life are more important. In this material society, the pursuit of fashion has already become the pursuit of money. Today, fashion is synonymous with materialism and secularity.

07 style

This is a petty bourgeoisie thing. The word "petty bourgeoisie" is popular again today, and the pursuit of style is their patent. Petty bourgeoisie says that the style should meet four requirements: wisdom, accomplishment, self-confidence and money. Style is to understand "nobility" as dress, temperament, hobby and taste, and interior decoration. In other words, a lout can only be vulgar in words, and the "petty bourgeoisie" has the ability to be vulgar in heart. The mainstream concept is not necessarily replaceable. Alternative has become the mainstream of young people's ideas. Today, this outdated concept seems to be different. The key is that today's society is an era of creating ideas, not an era of sticking to old ideas.

08 assessment

The last sacrifice we should make is to change ourselves because of other people's comments, because those who tell you what to do don't know what rules they follow. Don't just follow the rules, the rules are still being created, and do everything according to your own judgment, although it will be a bit troublesome.

childish

Don't be afraid of being called naive, which just shows that you are still young and energetic. "Maturity" is a terrible word and a harmful word. Maturity and naivety are the biggest, most irresponsible and most useless generalizations for a person. Those mediocre people will never be called childish. Believe it or not, when you are crushed by life, people will say that you are mature, and you will know what "maturity" is.

10 is not appropriate.

There is a sentence in a rock song: "This city has changed me, and this city doesn't need me?" ; Don't blindly adapt to the environment in which you live, because it is very likely that the environment itself has not adapted to the development of this society.

1 1 failed.

My teacher once told me that a person must experience at least one emotional lovelorn, career failure and choice mistake before he can grow up. Don't say failure is the mother of success. The sooner failure comes, the better. If you fail after 30 or 40 minutes, some things are likely to be too late.

12 error

This is a patent for young people.

13 shallow

If you cry every time you watch Titanic, you will be laughed at every time you watch A Chinese Odyssey. In fact, that only shows that your nerves are still very keen and will quickly adapt to even very weak stimuli; People will say you are deep when your senses are dull.

14 star

It's not that you don't care, it's that you can't. Stars are a kind of consumer goods in the commodity society. After spending money, listening to songs and watching movies, no matter how good the stars are, they are beyond their value and are not worthy of worship. It's like you spend the skirt bought by 50 yuan at the stall, and others guess it's 800 yuan. Is it not worth it? Do you like this skirt?

15 cost

Not regardless of the cost, but to understand that everything has to pay a price. For people our age, this is by no means nonsense. Otherwise, I won't know how much I've paid until I'm thirty, but I don't know why I've paid, let alone how much I've got and what I've got.

16 loneliness

This is the price of freedom.

17 frustrated

Including feelings, career, maybe I just spent money today and didn't buy anything to be happy, but my friend couldn't get in a word at his wedding. Pay too much attention to frustration, either teasing yourself with fate or punishing yourself with other people's mistakes.

18 defect

Maybe you are short, maybe you don't look good, maybe you sound like Donald Duck ... Then your advantage is that you won't be delayed by those superficial highlights on your surface, spend less time and detours, directly discover your inner advantages and tap your deep potential.

19 misunderstanding

If it is out of malice, then it is useless to explain; If it is well-intentioned, there is no need to explain. When it comes to "misunderstanding", it is not because a person is misunderstood more often before the age of 30, but that people at this age are even more reluctant.

20 rumors

This is an infectious disease. Silence is the best vaccine. Unless the source of infection can be found, explanation will become an ideal condition for the spread of the virus.

2 1 crazy

This is the best psychological adjustment for young people, which only shows that you are energetic and healthy. Calling you "crazy" is a malicious evaluation of some depressed and tired middle-aged and elderly people. They are like a machine that has been repaired for many years. They need debugging most, but they can only be fine-tuned. A major overhaul will make them completely scrapped.

22 stability

Before the age of 30, what I care about is a stable life. There are only two possibilities, either winning the lottery or getting old before I get old.

23 pressure

How much pressure a middle-aged person can bear is his tenacity; How much pressure a young man can bear is his potential.

24 Go abroad

Maybe it is an opportunity, maybe it is a trap. Unless you hold this goal from the moment you enter the university, treat going abroad as love and strive for success or failure.

25 salary

As long as you work for someone, the salary is not much higher. So before the age of 30, opportunities are far more important than money, careers are far more important than money, and the future is far more important than money. For most people, the primary goal of starting a career before the age of 30 is by no means to earn money, but to earn the future.

26 deposit

This is not necessarily because we have less money. Nowadays, young people know that money is alive. With so many opportunities and such good conditions, you can take money to mortgage, do today's work well and spend tomorrow's money well; You can also take money to invest and take money to "charge". Money is money only in circulation, otherwise it is just a pile of the best waste paper in the world.

27 house

Unless you buy a house to appreciate, or you are married. I have a classmate whose home is away from home. After graduating from college, the unit did not have a dormitory, and the family bought him a house. He had the opportunity to work in Beijing in the past, but he thought it unreasonable to leave the city just after buying a house, so he gave it up. So far, he has been working steadily, but he has accomplished nothing. The only achievement is getting married and having children. Because he thinks the house should be empty forever, the house becomes a home. The house is a fable of city life, and this fable should not be compared with us prematurely.

Related.

28 years old

Girls begin to hide their age as soon as they are over twenty-five. Actually, it's not necessary Now that youth is delayed to forty-five, what is twenty-five

29 care

This is a kind of mentality that we can't afford and can't let go. Its opposite is not giving up, but the spirit of freedom and eternal revolutionary optimism.

30 shedders

What you give is what you get!