How to deal with Xiong Haizi who wants to buy everything?

How to deal with Xiong Haizi who wants to buy everything?

Phenomenon:

Children will buy everything they see in buy buy, and if they don't, they will roll around and cry, especially when they have been shopping for a long time. Grandparents often buy whatever they want, which makes their children worse ... I believe many parents have encountered such a situation.

Reason:

In fact, in the process of growing up, the colorful material world will stimulate children's curiosity and desire to "possess themselves." Before the age of 6, children do not have a very clear and objective concept of "buy" and "money". When they use their strength to succeed, they will try again and again. Others buy whatever they want, and they are satisfied as soon as they want, which naturally encourages bad habits.

Method:

First, put it another way, "Don't buy anything, do you have money?" "Go or not, you won't be left!" Rough refusal often brings crying, so it is better to make it difficult for children to refuse in another way. For example, before going out, agree on whether to buy or not, and how much you can buy. For example, "You can only buy things within 1 20 yuan today!" "1 time can only buy 1", or give the child a choice, "buy this but not that. Have you decided? " It can also be exchanged with rewards, and the accumulation is not enough, and children are encouraged to get it through their own efforts.

Secondly, help children sort out "want" and "need"

Tell children how the money comes from and how it is used by making a list of wishes and expenses. Try asking them, "What if we all buy toys and have no money to buy food?" You want to buy this, can you tell me the reason? "Help children learn to choose between" want "and" need ". You can also set up a "small treasury" for children, guide them to control it reasonably, and gradually establish a correct view of money and consumption.

Summary:

The next time a child says "Mom, I want to buy this", you must know how to do it!

Make an agreement before you go out, whether you can buy it or not, and how much you can buy.

(2) There should be no shortage of reward mechanisms to encourage children to exchange labor for rewards.

3 to cultivate the concept of financial management, it is necessary to distinguish what is needed and what is wanted.