Women are used to hurt, to feel distressed, not to hurt.

Last night, I worked the night shift. After dinner with my friends, I went back at eleven o'clock. I stayed up late for two consecutive days to work overtime. Coupled with the cold, the whole person was like a cotton ball, and I didn't want to move. I took the medicine, turned off my cell phone and fell asleep.

I was vaguely awakened by the woman's scolding upstairs. I looked at my mobile phone and just slept for less than an hour. I can't keep my eyes open, but I can't sleep anymore.

The woman is clamoring for a divorce from the man, saying that she will raise two children, and Carrie still has 88 yuan and 6 cents for the man, so she chooses to leave home clean. The man's voice is very small. I didn't hear what he said clearly, but I heard the woman crying all the time, as if the man had hit her.

The woman has been clamoring for men to stay away from her, saying, "I'm afraid of no one now, but you. Please don't touch me, okay? Please don't touch me for the sake of bearing children for you, please. "

the woman's crying is getting deeper and deeper, accompanied by the sound of vomiting, and she almost fainted from crying. The two words she said the most were "divorce". She said that she had had enough of this kind of life and didn't want to live like this anymore.

I have a splitting headache, so I don't pay attention to them at all. I have to get up early the next day to send a letter to the company, just want to go to bed quickly. I turned the pillow over, took a quilt from the cupboard, and confined myself to it, leaving only a small piece of breathing space, and actually fell asleep.

I was awakened by my mother's phone call this morning, and suddenly I remembered the couple who quarreled last night. I don't know how late they quarreled and whether they will get a divorce today. There is no movement upstairs. Maybe they have made up now, or they really can't live like a woman said.

I lay in bed and let my brain empty slowly.

Men used to love women very much, and women at that time certainly didn't look like last night. They must all love each other, or people, or material things, or something else.

probably before last night, a woman never thought that she would cry like that last night when she once gave birth to a child for a man, and now she is drifting north with a man, and the man she has always loved hit her. For so long, the balance on the card was less than three digits. I can't understand, and I feel bad for her.

2

When I was very young, I witnessed one quarrel after another, which was staged in my alley every summer.

There is never a particularly big contradiction in quarreling, but men can't resist women's curses. In the matter of swearing, I have to say that women are born stronger than men, and they will come with their mouths open if they are vicious. Men who are not good at words have undoubtedly become their way of venting.

I clearly remember that in the summer when I was 12 years old, my neighbor Zhang Shu, a taciturn and eccentric man, couldn't stand his wife's curses and made her disabled in a rage. And he was later beaten speechless by his wife's brother. It was a farce, but it turned into a tragedy.

the year aunt Zhang's accident happened, her son was just two years old, and the family was so separated. Aunt Zhang's family took Zhang Shu to court. On the day of sentencing, Zhang Shu's parents knelt in front of the judge, weeping bitterly, and asked them to sentence him less for a few years.

Aunt Zhang's family had a heart for killing Uncle Zhang at that time. The daughter was raised so big that she didn't want to hit her, but she was beaten by Uncle Zhang. They said that she should never be spared lightly.

Zhang Shu spent the next seven or eight years in prison. The two-year-old child was also taken away by Aunt Zhang's family, leaving only Uncle Zhang's parents to guard the dilapidated houses and wait for his son to come back.

In recent years, their family affairs have become a laughing stock, which has spread all over the village. They have also been used to warn newlyweds that they must love each other, and don't be like that, where their wife is disabled and they go to prison and don't talk about it, which makes their parents hold their heads up all their lives.

Later, after Zhang Shu was released from prison, the whole person changed a lot, and he was even less talkative. I often shut myself in the house, and my parents told me not to come out for dinner. I think he must blame himself for so many years. Such a good home was destroyed by himself, and his 1-year-old son denied himself. Compared with disability, such harm seems to be greater.

Later, Uncle Zhang went out to work with others, and I rarely saw him again. According to my parents, Zhang Shu met a woman with a child outside and probably won't come back to our village in the future.

That's all right. The villagers can't see him, and the gossip slowly disappears. Only when I met Zhang Shu's parents, I occasionally asked a few words about Zhang Shu's current situation. Grandma Zhang didn't answer much, only saying that she had followed someone else, and we would pretend that we didn't have this son.

When I came home for the Spring Festival last year, I saw Uncle Zhang visiting my house with a little girl. I greeted him with a smile. I just wanted to ask who the little girl was, but my mother stopped me with her eyes. Later, I learned that it was the child of the woman with the child.

"The little girl has a good relationship with Xiao Zhang. It seems that she can support Xiao Zhang in the future." After uncle Zhang left, my mother said this.

I asked my mother, "I haven't seen Uncle Zhang come back for the Spring Festival for a long time. Why did he come back this year?"

My mother said, "Xiao Zhang is probably homesick. He won't know what is most important until he is old." Then, I turned my head and explained to me, saying many times over the years, "You must not be like your uncle Zhang. If you marry a daughter-in-law, you must be kind to others. If I know that you beat your daughter-in-law, I won't kill you."

"I see, I'm not that kind of person."

women are used to hurt, to feel distressed, not to hurt.

3

Some time ago, I saw this passage in Weibo, Akagi:

I have known my boyfriend for five years, and I like him for five years. Maybe sometimes it is better to miss him than to meet him. We were separated for two years and didn't get together again until 215. He was very kind to me when he was good-tempered, and even hit me when he was bad. I cheated on him and slept with other women, so now I often check his cell phone. Today, I deleted all the women in his room, because this one is unhappy again, and I feel a little crazy, and I don't know how to continue.

Akagi's reply is: How do you want to continue? How do you want to continue? No matter how you keep the Spring Festival!

I think so. Why does such a man stay with him?

people can't be perfect, but there is always a bottom line. If you beat you, scold you, cheat, and sleep with other women, you can tolerate it. What else can you not accept?

Don't hurt each other in the name of love. If he can't give you love, it only hurts you, then why are you dragging on? Sometimes, if you should give up, you should let go decisively. No one in this world can live without anyone. Why do you have to make yourself flustered and black and blue?

If you love someone, listen to her talk or look at her past or past. The hardships you have suffered, the tiredness you have suffered, the lost road you have endured, and the loneliness you have endured will all be the reasons for your distress.

love in the end is painful. It is not easy to cherish her from the heart, to take care of her all her life, and to live a good life with her from the heart. Instead of punching and kicking her, let her heart cool, let her get hurt, and let her regret not passing by.

May all the people you love deserve to be loved.

May you live your life in the way you like.

May you be cherished all your life and get everything you want.