Students write an argumentative essay under the protection of the teacher.

What's wrong with students giving umbrellas to teachers?

Recently, several photos entitled "The most domineering female teacher goes out to travel, and primary school students open umbrellas to shade her" became popular on the Internet. Many comments are full of "sense of justice": "The current teacher is really awesome!" "Domineering female teacher, what's your score?" "Feelings are you a national leader?" ...... There is also a comment directed at the elementary school students with umbrellas: "You know how to kiss up at an early age!"

My first reaction when I learned this was to recall that I had been teaching for more than 30 years, and whether I ever asked my students to hold an umbrella for me. After thinking for a long time, I'm sure I didn't get it. But I'm not relieved by this. I'm more "uneasy" because many of my behaviors are far worse than asking students to give me an umbrella-

I once asked students to help me move, and more than once; I fell down with my students many times and held them tightly under my body; I have dinner with my students, and I ask them to help me wash the dishes. One year on a business trip, my classmates took me to the railway station.

They help me carry my backpack; As for asking them to hold my exercise book for me, or go to the office to get my chalk, or ... oh, too much. The more I think about it, the more I get scared. At the same time, I am glad that taking photos and videos was not so convenient before.

And there is no network, otherwise I don't know how many times I will be "human flesh"!

The so-called "fear" and "happiness" are of course just teasing. In fact, when I recall these past events, I think of warmth or happiness. As I said before, as long as teachers and students trust each other, they can become education by laughing and cursing. Now, I want to add that as long as teachers and students are in love, gestures are true feelings-

I asked my students to help me move, because I regard them as my buddies, and they are also happy to move for "Lao Li", "Xi Brothers" and "General Zhenxi". I put the students down because they put me down, too.

Below-but no matter who presses who, the feeling of * * * is "painful and happy"; I asked my students to help me with the dishes, because I invited them to my house to play with jiaozi on weekends. After gluttony, some of them washed dishes and some swept the floor.

Just like a family, how can there be a teacher-student relationship? On the way to the railway station, the children helped me with my backpack. They are happy and I am happy, and each other is moved. How can there be a trace of so-called "domineering" and so-called "flattering"?

Of course, if it is a kind of "pay" for students to do things for teachers, then I have paid a lot for them. That day, I saw a child in the kindergarten (the kindergarten affiliated to our school) taking a nap at the gate of the primary school with a quilt.

Son, I quickly took it and helped her carry it to the fifth floor classroom. One night thirty years ago, a girl from the countryside in our class suddenly had appendicitis, and I immediately went straight to the hospital behind her back (it suddenly occurred to me that if this happened today,

One day, a young male teacher carrying a senior one girl in the middle of the night will probably become a different kind of "news". The inpatient department is on the mountain. I bite my teeth and move up bit by bit, while jokingly chanting to the girl on my back.

The famous poem "Some People": "He rides on the people's heads and the people crush him to death!" The girl who has been moaning softly responded to me: "The people will always remember him as a person who works for the people!" "

I don't want to flaunt how much I love students, but I want to say that when the teacher-student relationship reaches a state, it is hard to say who is "paying for whom" or who is "serving" for whom. I believe many ordinary teachers have such a warm story, which is the ordinary life we usually lead with our students. This is our * * * same emotion * * same love-simple and pure.

At the same time, it is natural. For example, recently, photos of primary school students giving umbrellas to teachers were circulated on the Internet. Looking at the photos in isolation, as described on the Internet: "This female teacher is holding a fan and wearing sunglasses, and she has been expressionless ..." It seems that this

The teacher is cold and pretentious. In some people's eyes, the teacher in the photo should have a kind expression and a smile, and it is best to put his hands on the child's shoulders. However, this is a gesture, not a show-many of our leaders are "approachable"

This is how photos are "posed" and "made". But these photos are not. This is a moment in the life of this pair of teachers and students, a cross section. Maybe I smiled before or after the photo shoot.

Rong, with intimacy, but this "moment" and "section" are gone-true but not false, natural and not artificial, isn't that good?

The problem is that the internet has been exposed, so the relevant departments have attached great importance to it. According to media reports-

Soon, Shanghai Baoshan District Education Bureau responded to this matter, saying that after investigation, it was confirmed that the umbrella teacher was Shanghai Baoshan Gucun Central School, and it was true that students played umbrellas for teachers. Umbrella students said they volunteered to hold umbrellas for their teachers.

Instruct the school to criticize and educate them, and ask all units to strengthen the education of teachers' morality and style, remind teachers to be strict with themselves, pay attention to setting an example, care for students, and actively create a harmonious atmosphere of mutual respect between teachers and students.

Since the child "volunteered to give the teacher an umbrella", I really can't figure out what's wrong with this female teacher. The Education Bureau actually "instructed the school to criticize and educate it"! The government education department that should be dominated by teachers has actually

This matter has risen to the height of "teachers' morality and style" to "remind teachers to be strict with themselves, pay attention to their words and deeds, care for students, and actively create a harmonious atmosphere of mutual respect between teachers and students".

I don't know what to say! I only know that it is a "harmonious atmosphere" for children to help teachers with umbrellas. This is not just my "subjective prejudice". On my blog, many netizens left such comments-

Pupils hold umbrellas for their teachers, so beautiful and lovely. Is there a problem?

Teachers love students, and students will love teachers, which is actually a manifestation of love. It is a scene full of warmth between teachers and students, and it is hurt by a nosy person.

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The media report also mentioned: "This female teacher usually has a good relationship with children." What I see in these three photos is not only "better", but also good without distance. If it is not the usual love for children, this teacher will gain the love of children who take the initiative to help themselves open umbrellas? I'm not speculating subjectively, but the latest development of events proves this point-

Under the strong pressure of public opinion, female teachers said "I was wrong" when interviewed by reporters, and said with tears: "Now public opinion is one-sided and says my behavior is not good. I admit that. How does the principal handle it? Education?

I accept the way the bureau handles it, because this is really my personal problem. However, I have also seen some remarks attacking children. I hope you can help me, that is, ask them to stop judging (choking) children. they

Still young, only about ten years old. I'm worried because what they don't really understand is very simple. "

I am very moved and sad to read this passage. Being denounced by public opinion and worrying about children, what kind of love is this? From here we can find the reason why the child took the initiative to open an umbrella for her.

A young teacher who has only been teaching for three years loves children so much, but there is no fault. She is criticized by the leaders, exposed by the Internet, and denounced by the whole people ... I feel a kind of heartache for our teacher.

I really don't know how that lovely little boy will get along with this innocent female teacher from now on. I can't imagine.

I want to tell my children that you are cute and cute. Continue to love the teacher like this!

I want to say to the female teacher, continue to love your children, and don't give up your educational ideal because of this!

I also want to say-

Those who attack children's "flattery" are distorted because they speculate on their pure hearts with their unclean spiritual world.

And the photographer and uploader of these photos are shameful-what psychology? It's so dark