Talking about being motivated to work

1, for the boss, they value personal interests first, followed by faction interests, rather than the interests of subordinates within the faction, which the boss will never consider.

When a person doesn't know when to offend others, it's because he used to talk nonsense and do things blindly, and finally harmed the interests of others.

You have been praised for decades. In the end, all your colleagues became your bosses and praised you. Then you will understand that you are a real loser.

If you are not satisfied with the company, you will secretly look for a new position, but you must never show any emotion before you find it. You should work harder than before and seize all resources.

5, sacred work In everyone's daily affairs, the ideal future lies in the beginning of bit by bit.

6. Nothing really valuable in the world can be obtained without hard work.

7. It is a laborer with hands, a helmsman with hands and brains, an artist with hands, brains and hearts, and a salesman who only cooperates with hands, brains and hearts.

8. The three major problems of losers are servility, inertia and shirking responsibility. Don't think independently, slavishly listen to the boss. The boss encouraged you to move. I don't know what I'm doing. It is inertia. Don't mix, blame the boss, blame the workplace, blame the society, in order to pass the buck.

9. We learn to think in the process of labor. Because of our labor, we know the mystery of the world, so we really changed our lives.

10, the more setbacks in life, the more insights in life; One more fall and one more struggle in life.

1 1. Action is a good medicine to cure fear, and hesitation and procrastination will constantly nourish fear.

12, choose, only this way, others are dead ends. Such self-confidence can't be cultivated overnight. You must not count on those children around fifteen. Before you get this belief, you must bear the grief and shed tears. But this is good, it should be like this. ...

13. Belief does not necessarily lead to success, and failure without faith will definitely lead to failure.

14. No matter how long the road is, you can go on step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't walk without taking your feet.

15, I know what labor is: labor is the source of all joy and all good things in the world.

16. The quickest and most reliable way to overcome fear and build self-confidence is to do what you are afraid of until you gain successful experience.

17, it is necessary to have a heart-to-heart talk with the boss occasionally, but it should be targeted.

18, no boss will be kind and will give honest people tangible benefits.

The best man for you is always the one who hasn't slept yet.

First, not every effort will be rewarded, but every effort must be paid. This is an unfair and irreversible proposition.

Second, your ex-boyfriend is a stop you pass by. Since he didn't reach the terminal, don't miss it, because there are many cars parked beside him, and you are not the only one, nor the last one.

Third, when you really care about a person, no matter how small the details are, they all become important. Because of love, so care, because of importance, so love.

Once you don't want anything anymore, you will get it. I think this is really an absolute truth.

Love is like tug of war. If one person lets go, another person will get hurt. One end of the train is always concerned, and the other end is always yearning. Some things last a lifetime. Not at first, not at last. Some love, have to let go, suddenly look back, has been unable to tell.

Sixth, the world of mortals is broken, but it is ups and downs; Life is only impermanent when it is broken; Love is broken, but it comes and goes.

Seven, you must be strong, even if you have been hurt and shed tears, you can bite your teeth and go on. Because life is your life alone.

Eight, tired or not, look at your own mentality. The room of the soul will be full of dust if it is not cleaned. Sweeping the floor and removing dust can make a gloomy heart bright; Only by sorting things out can we bid farewell to our troubles; Throw away some unnecessary pain, and there will be more room for happiness.

Life is in a hurry If you stop to admire it from time to time, you will miss its beauty. In feelings, what is lacking most is not passion, but persistence after passion.

Ten, with you is to have, love will last.

Xi。 When you encounter problems in life, refer to four simple and rude life rules: "If you can't do it, divide it, buy it if you like, drink plenty of water and try again."

Twelve, you think people can get something for nothing. I can't. No matter how beautiful and self-sacrificing feelings are, they are not delivered to your door for nothing. Strangely, it is this that makes it beautiful.

Thirteen, what you care about most, you will be the loser in this matter. For example, women care about love and men don't care about love, so women always lose and men always win.

Fourteen, when you see a person you are familiar with, you no longer pursue standing in the middle of the crowd, but silently pursue your dreams, no longer think about games all the time, but start planning your future, no longer having nothing to do with selfies, but working with your head down at the computer, no longer fighting for what others say, but laughing it off. You think he has changed a lot, but you don't know that all his calmness and efforts are stupid and naive now.

Fifteen, life is easier to live through constant forgetting.

Sixteen, that promise was finally carved into a cross wound of love at the time of farewell.

Seventeen, I am the place where you have wandered.

18. Busy, but I don't seem to be busy. Time was crushed to pieces, a gust of wind blew and all disappeared, so that when I tried to remember what I had done this year, I found myself waking up from a coma. Liu Yu

Nineteen, the fate with some people, like flowers in the dark, can not see the sun. It will wither silently before dawn and never bloom again. Love that belongs to moonlight and shadow. Out of the city, we have to continue on our way. Life is full of fantasies. There is always hope, and there is always no hope.

20. nothing. No matter how many times you do it again, you will definitely have regrets in your life.

Remember, the best man in the world is always the one who hasn't gone to bed yet.

Twenty-two, some roads are destined to be taken alone. If you want to reach prosperity, you must go through a desolate period.

Twenty-three, the most melodramatic thing we have done is to say that I only love you over and over again, but the object has changed one after another.

Twenty-four, distance is the measure to test feelings, too close will be tired; It's too far away to be confused.

Twenty-five, a person who doesn't appreciate himself is hard to be happy.

Talk about work, and treat your colleagues sincerely with your friends. How does he treat you?

Is it necessary for me to strive for such friendship? What is the best way to deal with it?

Q:

I don't know how to deal with some things recently. I hit it off with my new colleague. Often chat with each other, complain about their dissatisfaction with the company, talk about life, and occasionally go shopping for dinner. Slowly, I took her as my friend and talked about everything.

It wasn't long before she got close to another new colleague. I obviously feel left out. She knows that I don't like that new colleague very much, which makes me jealous. I thought I was too sensitive.

I understand that she doesn't really treat me as a friend. I wondered if I had too many negative emotions, or if something made her unhappy and alienated me, but I didn't treat her as an emotional trash can, but I really treated her as a friend, and she knew it.

Generally speaking, she is a nice person, smart and good-natured, but some of her actions make me uncomfortable, but when she says it, she is very melodramatic, and people don't care about your feelings and thoughts at all.

A:

(1) It is irrational to make friends with a new colleague, and it is even more foolish to share her dissatisfaction with the company. No new colleagues will like it.

(2) People come to a new company with expectations and sincerity. On the one hand, you don't solve your own problems, on the other hand, you are saying that her choice is wrong, and no one wants to be with someone who always has negative energy. It's normal for her to stay away from you. Don't be honest with others without saying anything, it depends on what you say.

(3) Don't think about whether you should strive for friendship. It is more practical to think about how to adjust your mentality. When you become a positive and optimistic person who can bring positive energy to others, you don't have to fight for it, and friends will take the initiative to approach you.

Q:

I am 29 years old. I met my current girlfriend by chance. She is 2 1. We talked for nine months, and now we feel more and more inappropriate.

She is too young to be financially independent, mainly because I have to spend money on clothes, shoes and food for her, so she may not be able to stay in the local area in the future. Her parents are also low-level, driving carts and working as cleaners. My parents are professors, so my parents don't agree. Their family's economic conditions are much worse than ours.

Maybe I'm selfish. Considering that this girl may not be suitable for me, she gave me her first time and was very loyal to me. What should I do? It's tangled

A:

(1) To put it bluntly, do you want to break up and be a good person? This is probably your usual attitude. At the beginning of knowing this girl, you should have the understanding that she may need you to spend more money when she is young (think about yourself when you are 2 1 year old, you may not be much better than her); The family background is not as good as yours.

As a 29-year-old, I knew these things at the beginning of my love, but you didn't think it was a problem, because compared with girls of the same age, this girl is young, simple, kind and heartless, and will not consider your conditions or evaluate your maturity. You have enjoyed her youth and beauty, but after getting it, you feel stale, so you want to break up after comprehensive consideration.

(2) Selfishness is selfishness. Don't talk about the level of parents. If you really think that other people's parents are too low to deserve your family, please admit your duplicity. You chose the daughter of such a low-level parent's family voluntarily, and no one is better than anyone else.

(3) As far as your current state is concerned, please make a happy choice, put aside all these inappropriateness and manage your feelings well. If you want to divide it, please give the girl proper compensation according to your conscience. If you get along in such an unequal position, you won't respect her. At the same time, we must admit that we are scum in this matter, and it's no big deal. Everyone is timid and irresponsible. It is better to know yourself before making more mistakes than to hurt two people later.

Q:

There is a problem that has been bothering me for many years, from the beginning of college until now, that is, I always can't do things well and learn things slowly. I always don't understand what others say to me, and I slowly understand it. I have tried many ways to solve this problem, but it just doesn't work.

Sometimes I am in a hurry and have extreme ideas about such a situation. Why can't I do the same thing when others can understand it right away? For a long time, I had no confidence in what I was doing. Sometimes I feel that I am a burden to my parents. I want to do it well, too I also want to work hard. I've been like this for a year.

I always feel inferior to others, and I didn't believe it before, but it turns out that I am inferior to others. What should I do?

A:

So you're just not as good as others. Accept this. Being slower than others doesn't mean you don't understand. Just practice more in a slow place. Don't use your thoughts to understand the problem, but to solve it. Talk to different people and see what others think.

Do this exercise every day: you think today is the most worthwhile problem to learn. Try to list 35 different solutions or methods and record them every day. After a month, you will find the difference.

What hurts others the most in the world is always language.

There is a young man in a village. This young man is excellent, but he has a fatal flaw: he often speaks ill of others. His parents and friends always advise him, and he always says, what's the big deal? Just a few words. What's the fuss about? Then go your own way.

Once a Zen master came to the village, and the young man said a very disrespectful word to the Zen master. Others criticized the young man, and the young man said plausibly, just a few words. Can't I just apologize to him? The Zen master smiled and said to the young man, Let me tell you a story! Many people, including the young man, gathered around the Zen master, ready to listen to his story. The Zen master paused and began to tell stories:

A man kept a bear, which he picked up from the mountains when he was a child. He kept the bear all the time, but one day, the bear damaged a piece of corn in his neighbor's house and the neighbor came to see him. He was very angry. He picked up a stick and pointed it at the bear, beating and cursing: animals are always animals. I raised you for nothing. He drove the bear out of the house after the fight.

The next day, he regretted it again, but the bear had already entered the back hill.

He regretted it, but he could never find the bear again. When he was hunting in the mountains, he met a tiger and closed his eyes with his bare hands. Suddenly, he heard the sound of fighting. He opened his eyes and saw the bear come back. The bear drove the tiger away. He happily went up to caress the bear and said, Great. Did it still hurt when I hit you last time? You come back with me!

The bear said, it doesn't hurt long ago. What you said still hurts me, hurts me. With that, the bear returned to the back of the mountain and never looked back.

After the story of the Zen master was finished, everyone lamented that what he said would hurt so much, but the young man looked disdainful. The Zen master took some nails out of his pocket and said to the young man, Go and nail these nails to the tree. The young man did as the Zen master said and nailed the nail to the tree.

As soon as the young man went back, the Zen master said, go and take down the nail. Without saying anything, the young man went back to the tree and took down the nail. However, the young man spent a long time trying to remove a nail with various tools.

The Zen master came to the young man and pointed to the trace left by the nail and said, even if it is pulled out, what can it do? Didn't you leave a deep scar on the trunk? Just like the bear in that story, although the pain left by the stick has long since disappeared, the injury that that person said to it is unforgettable.

The Zen master looked at the young man again, and then said, If you hurt others, it's like a nail. Although you can get it back, the harm you leave to others is like a scar left by a nail on a tree that can never be eliminated.

When the young man heard this, he suddenly realized, he said, I finally understand that rude remarks can deeply hurt others. Thank you for your advice. The Zen master nodded yes, and then drifted away.

What hurts others the most in the world is always language. When we speak disrespectfully to others, we also nail a nail in others' hearts, and such damage can never be made up.