Who is in your circle of friends?

Who are the people in your circle of friends?

Do you communicate with your friends often?

Who are the people you often contact, and is there anything about them that attracts you?

Do you have any friends you meet by chance? What an interesting encounter?

Is there anyone in your circle of friends who hurts your feelings?

What is a true friend?

The spiritual nourishment between friends is admiration and respect;

The physical nourishment between friends is talking about what is happening now with familiar words;

The harder you work, The lonelier you become, because those who are left behind do not want to accept their own backwardness compared to your progress;

The harder you work, the lonelier you become. As you continue to upgrade, the entire portrait is automatically updated with a system that has a powerful filtering function. By filtering out many meaningless people who take up your energy, you will allocate your time to the right people and discover more meaningful things.

Having few friends does not mean loneliness, but liberation and freedom of the heart.

The real loneliness is that although you have many friends, there is no excitement and your soul is unhappy.

A true friend is someone who wishes you well from the bottom of his heart!

1. The structure of my frequent contacts with friends is as follows:

1. Clear thinking, developed mind, and accurate analysis of problems. She is a leader sister who I admire very much for her integrity. I think she is a rare genius in the workplace! (Sister Jiao);

2. Just like I like my leader sister, I like my little sister and little fan. She is motivated, dedicated, persistent, loves life and has two skills (Su Mo);

3. Clear thinking, able to discover the essence of problems, good communicator, happy to communicate with each other, and grow together. (Recently, I want to be Mr. Lover and help him chase his girlfriend)

4. Old classmate Xiao Jian, he is the only one in our class who insists on taking the artistic route and now makes sculptures. He has endured a lot of hardships and never complained. He is the most righteous person. He is a practitioner of Buddhism, simple and simple. In his calligraphy, painting and sculpture, his spirit shines! (People without backbone can’t do it).

5. Zhenzhen is a full-time mother. She became a full-time mother after graduation. She educated her son and daughter very well and managed the family beautifully. I saw the confidence and affection in marriage from their family of four! (She was diagnosed with late-stage gastric cancer this year. Heartbroken! Sad!) She always enlightens me on any emotional matters I have. I will also talk to her about work and listen to her about methods of educating children. May the good things last forever!

6. There are two more, one boy and one girl, both present and absent, neither far nor near. We have the right temperament and personality. We can say whatever we want, complain, share our emotions with each other, relieve stress and worries, and are free and unrestrained. We have been together for 5 years now.

7. Depending on fate, you will meet interesting new people and become familiar old friends!

Picture: (For those of you who are lucky enough to read this article)

2. Random encounters with random friends:

In addition to those who are in constant contact, there are also a few casual friends People, such as in expressway service areas, on airplanes, on the road, Didi Hitchhiker... Of course, the process of getting to know each other is also very interesting! Some are coincidences, some are funny, but they are all calm and quiet. Meeting them is like reading a few more books, and experiencing different life scenes. They are colorful, interesting, smart, and beautiful!

Suiyuan A:

Last summer I drove to Chifeng. On the way back, I went to the service area to refuel. When I was hungry, I bought a bucket of instant noodles and sat on a small table in the service area. Eat, two boys were sitting across from me, and they also made two new buckets of instant noodles. I bought a bucket of Laotan pickled cabbage, which was a bit spicy. I couldn’t eat it after one bite, but I was very hungry. I looked at the boy opposite. The chicken mushroom noodles were just right, and I said to them without shame, "Can we switch noodles?" I took one bite and it was too spicy because I am easily allergic to spicy food.

Business cards were exchanged, my car arrived, and I waved goodbye! Later, his friends would ask me whenever they had car-related business, and we would chat about work and related business. They followed each other’s circle of friends and found that the other party believed in Buddhism and was very pious! In the future, when female colleagues in the company talk about handsome guys, looks and tastes, I will show another photo, sparkling, buling buling!

3. Cold violence in the circle of friends

? Someone once asked me what kind of friends are worth dating. My answer is the same as the answer I asked Sister Jiao: I really hope you are well. A person who is truly happy for your good!

I cherish having such friends, and it is equally sad that I have friends who are the opposite. Especially for women, especially those who started at the same time, you may have made progress at work, but she is still struggling to get what she wants. Even if you go shopping together and you buy a coat or shoes that you like without hesitation, but the other person hesitates for a month and is not willing to buy it, the other person will gradually become alienated, and one day you will find that the other person has liked the person next to you. Everyone will not give you any "likes". Sometimes there will be a little venting "cold violence" in the circle of friends.

Sometimes I don’t reply to some messages in time, and sometimes I really don’t want to reply. Sometimes posting something free and unrestrained can also cause some people to feel unhappy. The messages and comments always have a weird flavor, and the smarter ones are puns. Later, you will receive some "sour" words that are very hurtful and will suddenly make you feel troubled! You really don't know what you did wrong. Later, I would only report sorrow but not joy to such "friends", so I would receive a lot of comfort and sympathy, haha.

4. Two characteristics of my treatment of friends: filtering, sincerity, and adaptability

? Everyone has pressure nowadays. It is difficult to have anxiety, uneasiness, and inner peace without inner peace. Normal emotions. I have also encountered very bad situations and experienced a lot of pressure. At that time, I would hide in an abstract "cave" to cultivate myself like a primitive man. I would not pay attention to any external information for the time being, and I would not expose myself. Without leaking any updates about myself, I just hid quietly to recuperate, looking forward to the day when everything will get better!

? Now there are two points in the attitude towards friends: sincerity and casualness. I also joined the 007 writing group. It was like having a new class and meeting new classmates and comrades. I felt that my life was much richer and I was not lonely at all. I was more willing to make friends with strangers, like a glass of 37-degree warm water. Warm enough. Now, I have all kinds of friends with warm water at 37 degrees Celsius. I rarely contact them but they all have warm temperatures. For example: Xiaoyu is a beauty-loving little girl who works at a gas station; Xiaoshan is a sunny and beautiful full-time mother; and my ideological mentor, Mr. Feng, is a real scholar, cultured and connotative; and there are several free rides. We, young car owners born in the 1990s, have a great time chatting about cars...

There are also some friends that I have to filter out: For example, when we talk about work, the other person is very eloquent, and Balabala can’t even explain himself clearly when he talks about it. I was very confused as to what he was trying to express. Another way was to discuss some things in a very conceptual way. The plan was very serious at the beginning, but then nothing happened. It gave people the impression that it was not pragmatic or practical, and it was just talk. ; Another category is, please give him some resources or connections. It’s not that I don’t want to help, but I think from my perspective, if there are no good products or services to give you no matter how good the resources are, you won’t be able to take advantage of them. If your products and services are good enough, I will take the initiative to link to you without you having to come to me, because I also want you to be better. To develop and maintain any relationship, you must first make yourself better and attract like-minded people.

Say the important things three times:

Cherish those friends who sincerely want you to be good to you!

Cherish those friends who sincerely wish you the best!

Cherish those friends who sincerely wish you the best!

I have collected a quote from Schopenhauer before: The advantage we have when interacting with others lies in the fact that we have no requirements for the other person.

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Now, tell me about you, what interesting encounters have you had?