Don't take other people's goodness as capital.

Inscription: Suhomlinski, an educator in the former Soviet Union, said: The so-called wicked people, no matter how kind they were in the past, have slipped to the road of degeneration and lost their kindness; The so-called good man, even if he had a morally ulterior past, is still a person who is going to be good.

Autumn in Chengdu is a changeable season. It is sunny in the morning, and you can see short skirts floating all over the street. In the afternoon, the howling cold wind hung, the rain continued, and the temperature dropped by almost ten degrees Celsius.

Walking on the way to work, the oblique rain line passed by the umbrella, dripping along the edge and occasionally bouncing on my face. I felt cold and cold, and went through the crowd to the bus stop.

I stood under the information column of the bus stop and looked at the arrival information of the bus. A woman tugged at my bag as if to say something to me.

She stood in front of me with a shoulder bag and an umbrella, holding a little girl about three years old, and said to me in standard Mandarin, "Hello, I'm sorry to bother you. I took my children from Hangzhou to Chengdu to find friends to play with. Somehow, I lost contact and came to Chengdu for seven days, and all my money was spent. Look at our mother and daughter, it's raining, cold and hungry. "

As I was in a hurry to catch the bus, I interrupted her and asked softly, "What can I do for you?"

Immediately, I looked at this woman. She has a good face, is of medium build and her hair is as hot as black waves. She is very fashionable, wearing a clean light blue sweater and a pair of high heels. The little girl in my arms is as big as my little daughter, beautiful and lovely. She smiles at you from time to time, and reaches out her right hand to pick up the raindrops beside the umbrella from time to time, which makes people like it and suddenly reminds me of a child like a little daughter and a father.

The woman lowered her head and said in a very unconfident tone, "We have been here for a week. At first, we said that we couldn't find a friend to receive us. Yesterday, the child caught a cold because of the weather change, so he didn't bring much money when he went out. The mobile phone WeChat and Alipay also ran out of money, but he forgot to bring his card when he went out. The child's father has flown from Hangzhou to Chengdu and can receive us at night. Can you lend some money or buy milk bread for your child so that she can eat first?

After listening to her words, it has something to do with money, and a series of nouns such as liar, begging, and WeChat deception flashed through my mind.

But in front of this person, there are such lovely girls, and I really don't want to associate these nouns with them.

Just what happened once, just like now, there are too many questions in my heart.

Russian writer lev tolstoy once said, "If goodness has a reason, it is no longer good. If "goodness" has its result, it cannot be called "goodness", and "goodness" is something that transcends causality. "

After coming here for a week, they are not as haggard and tired as vagrants, but they are also rich, and perhaps they have really encountered such problems.

At the intersection in the distance, I saw the bus coming and was ready to leave. When she saw that I didn't speak, she stressed again, "I'm telling the truth. I won't lie to you. Do you want to leave a phone number? I'll pay you back when her father comes, okay? "

I looked at the little girl, looked at me with big eyes, pursed my mouth, smiled slightly, and tossed my little hands over and over.

The bus slowly pulled into the bus stop, and I really didn't want to tangle with them. Although I don't believe what she said, the little girl is still coughing on rainy days. I was in a hurry to get on the bus, so I opened my bag and took out a piece of 50 yuan's money and handed it to her, pointing to the street corner in front of the night market. "You take the children forward, there is a snack street, there is a porridge shop. The price is very affordable. 15 yuan.

She nodded gratefully and kept asking me for my phone number, saying that the child's father would come over later and ask WeChat to pay me back. I refused.

In life, kindness is everywhere. If you feel it with your heart, you will experience a different kind. With good intentions, you will certainly gain the meaning of living; Abandoning goodwill, our life will be bleak and doomed to be a hasty trip, leaving no trace of beauty. Therefore, life needs kindness, and being a man needs kindness more.

When I got on the bus, I found that she didn't go in the direction I pointed to, but in the opposite direction. I gave a wry smile for a while. What's wrong with the society now? When a person's dignity and personality are trampled to pieces by himself, I am not angry, and I don't think 50 yuan is a pity. It's just that I know very well that being angry with others is being offended by myself. Why should I punish myself with other people's mistakes? Not worth it!

Besides, this society has become so cruel and realistic that some people sell their personality and dignity cheaply, and someone has to pay the bill, right? Whatever the psychological reasons, please don't treat my kindness as capital and ignorance.

02

Three days ago, my friend called me and asked me1is 800 yuan expensive?

At that time, I was at a loss as to whether 1800 yuan was expensive, cosmetics, clothes, mobile phones, bags and so on. Women can only buy so much.

I was taken aback and asked, "What is 1800 yuan?"

At this moment, my friend came slowly towards me.

In a yoga class, my friend missed the time to get up because of his lazy bed, and rushed in, and the eyebrow eye line did not improve, which was discovered by the careful yoga teacher; In the process of mutual communication, the yoga teacher introduced her friend to do semi-permanent eyebrows, which only cost a few hundred yuan.

Yoga teachers and my friends are like sisters. They are mentors, friends and confidants. Believe her.

Just during the National Day holiday, when I was free, my friend made an appointment with this semi-permanent eyebrow dresser to meet at the appointed time. Out of trust, friends didn't ask for details and prices too much.

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Well, my friend turned around excitedly and went straight to the mirror, taking a left photo and a right photo. It feels strange.

Without much thought, I picked up my mobile phone, took a selfie and immediately sent it to my circle of friends: Do you still know this beautiful girl?

Soon, the circle of friends received a full screen of praise.

Full of joy, she took out 600 yuan money from her bag and went to the counter to settle the bill. The cashier handed her a list and told her that the consumption was 1800 yuan. She was shocked and felt wrong. She asked again and looked at the list. Is it 1800 yuan?

My friend is full of memories. Didn't the yoga teacher tell her about 600 yuan? This, this, 1800 yuan? The same semi-permanent, three times more expensive for different people?

There are too many questions, and I figured it out without asking myself in advance. The mute eats coptis and pays for it herself.

Then I realized that my friend said 1800 yuan is expensive. It turned out to be such a play.

This reminds me of a good man in ancient times. He is blessed with children and grandchildren. On his deathbed, his children and grandchildren knelt before his bed and said, "You are leaving us. Finally, leave some words for us to follow for life. " The good man said, "You just need to remember four words-learn to suffer."

The greatest concern of this good man for his children and grandchildren is to let them know that it is a blessing to suffer.

Dostoevsky said: generally good people always like to think well of people, always think better of people than they are, and always exaggerate their benefits. For such people, the disillusionment of the future is very sad, especially when they feel responsible.

I want to say, in fact, good people will not suffer at all.

Life is a big chess game. Take a detour here, where you may accumulate strength. In the words of Buddhists, accumulating goodness is accumulating virtue. What you are suffering now is created by your heart. Everything you have in the future is what you do now.

Greed, anger, delusion and hatred are all causes and effects. A moment of greed and a moment of satisfaction can't make a lifetime.

My friend asked me if I should tell her yoga teacher about it.

I rejected it.

I smiled and said to my friend, just do good deeds and be ready to help others at any time.

Others just took advantage of your kindness and made profitable capital.

You are a lucky man. You have your own nature. Your kindness will not be affected.

These causes and effects warn us that in real life, it is not that we really can't tell the truth from the false, but that our hearts are unwilling to admit the ugliness of human nature. Maybe there are endless cheating tricks in society. It has also received the support of many good people. Without their kind efforts, there would be no more and more tricks and greed. A lot of honesty often kills the beauty in our hearts.

Since ancient times, there has been a saying that it is more blessed to give away than to receive. Give a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand. However, when kindness and trust are desecrated again and again, can we still insist on doing good? We will always ask ourselves, maybe one day, we will be numb to all this, no longer pay, no longer trust. But if this day does come, we will feel sorry for ourselves.

We can't stand being indifferent. There is no love, no emotion and no kindness in our hearts. What is the meaning of life?

God will bless people if they have good ideas. This day is the environment and people around you.

When you find that every flower and grass is smiling at you, when you find that everything is full of luck, when you find that people around you like you more and more, this is the echo of kindness.

We just need to understand, "The world is a mirror. There are good people and bad people, and there are good people and evil people, so fate just goes back and forth on both sides of the mirror. "

French writer romain rolland said: "Good and evil are mixed in the stream. However, everyone will change their blood in their lifetime. "

Life has its own causal cycle and is not satisfied with anyone's selfish greed. Always be kind, just ask yourself, don't ask for gains and losses, fragrance all the way, always follow you.

In a lucky life, please don't take kindness as the capital to show off.