Colleagues often rub my car. How can I refuse? Or is there any good way?

Some netizens submitted that my colleagues often rub my car. I don't leave after work, and neither does she. Waiting for me there all the time, I'm almost autistic. In fact, there are many such things. Even the author has had such an experience. Let me tell my story first.

At this time last year, I bought a car with all my hard-earned money for two years, because it was too much trouble to catch the bus every morning. Sometimes I miss the bus, so I have to wait for the next bus for ten minutes. After buying a car, I will drive myself to work every day. Driving home one day, I suddenly met a female colleague and her boyfriend at the gate. I hurried over to say hello, only to find that they also rented in the same community as me, but on different floors. I live in building 3, and they live in building 2, right next door. At first, I didn't think much. I thought it was on the way anyway, and it didn't matter if I took it once or twice. But unexpectedly, after driving her for a week, she actually asked me again, saying that her boyfriend also works in an office building near our company and asked me if I could drive her boyfriend, too.

A girl asked me such a request, and to be honest, I was embarrassed to refuse. It is very ungentlemanly to refuse. So, I can only agree at once and say, "Why didn't you say you should pick up your boyfriend earlier?" We all live in the same community, so it is convenient to go home from work in the future, and we don't have to catch the bus every day. " I don't think I refused. They are becoming more and more casual. A few times I didn't want to drive them, so I told her I had to work overtime for a while and I had nothing to do when I came back. Unexpectedly, my colleague listened to me and told me that she was fine anyway and was waiting for me at the company. Then she called her boyfriend on the spot and told him to pick him up in an hour. Suddenly, I was speechless. It's no use working overtime. I don't know what to do. I can only drive them first and comfort myself every time, saying that we are all colleagues and don't care too much. Maybe there will be other cooperation in the future.

So, at the suggestion of my friend, I used a method, that is, one day on my way home, I cried with my colleagues that something had happened at home, and now I need money badly, and asked them if they could lend me 20 thousand or 30 thousand yuan and pay it back next year. After listening to my words, my colleague and her boyfriend suddenly fell silent, and all the entertainment programs in the mobile phone were turned off. Finally, my colleague said hesitantly, "well, we have to buy a car ourselves, so we are short of money and we really can't lend it to you." You can borrow it from others in the company. They all look quite rich. " I smiled and told them, "Nothing, nothing, I'm just saying."

The next day, I did the same thing again and told them about borrowing money. They looked at me, probably scared. If they don't lend me money, they can't face me. If they lend me money, they won't want to. Finally, after that cry, every time after work, my colleagues have already left first. In the morning, she and her boyfriend didn't show up at my car either. In this way, I used a trick to directly stop this colleague from rubbing my car, and did not destroy our relationship. It was the best of both worlds.