Quit smoking and drinking without losing color (a random talk)

I seldom smoke. Strictly speaking, I don't smoke at all. I will smoke a few cigarettes when I am extremely depressed, which is a way to sell my troubles, but the effect is not obvious at all. Sometimes, I feel particularly excited, and the atmosphere at that time was really good. There are several people nearby who can't resist the temptation of cigarettes handed over by others. Pick up and smoke, of course, one or two at most. It's been a long time since I smoked next time.

It is no exaggeration to say that smoking is a habit. I didn't learn to smoke when I was a child, and now I have no addiction to smoking so much. The key is not to be late in smoking. This is the main thing.

When many little boys started smoking, how could they have the concept of smoking? Take a sip and filter it in your mouth, or filter it in your lungs and spit it out. Watching one smoke turn after another slowly rise, I feel as if I have found a great encouragement. I can do it. I can smoke. Smoking started.

Say you're a smoker. Actually, there is, but it's not very big Compared with other materials, smoking addiction is very small. But quitting smoking is not easy. Some people have given up smoking all their lives, but they haven't given up. On the contrary, the next time you start smoking, your behavior will be more violent or even worse. It is best not to quit.

Men like smoking, but actually they like the feeling of smoking. Take a sip, go in, and then spit it out, and the smoke will become your own. That feeling is beautiful in itself. Smoking to a certain extent, can be regarded as half a fairy, can deal with clouds. Smoking seems to be a form, but it is also a way to prove one's existence. Smoking has the dual nature of openness and privacy. Externally, it is a way of communication. When you meet and say hello later, you will inevitably have to smoke one. Internally, when you are in a good mood or in a bad mood, you can kill time and talk about leisure. It's not much different from drinking.

It is true that I like drinking. I don't like drinking for the taste. Beer tastes like horse urine. Who would like it? If liquor is not a brand, it will hurt your health too much. I like the atmosphere of drinking, as long as the atmosphere is there, even if I throw up for the last time after drinking too much, I am willing. The best thing is to have a few friends around you who I haven't seen for a long time. Let's sit down, chat and have a drink. The scene of chatting and drinking makes my heart warm. That kind of feeling, especially warm, especially warm.

The drunken state is actually a state of intoxication. I have used twenty words to describe the drunken state: my stomach is rolling, my eyes are blurred, my steps are messy, and my mood is colorful. Of course, if you want to drink it, you have to drink it properly. You can't get up when you are drunk, let alone drunk.

To tell the truth, as long as people are drunk, their courage will increase. Most shy students talk nonsense. That's what drinking courage is all about. This is also the beauty of wine. However, wine won't make people drunk. I don't believe in telling the truth after drinking. How drunk are you? It's hard for listeners to grasp which words are true and which are false. People who are not drunk will not know why.

In fact, as long as you have perseverance and bite your teeth, you can quit smoking and drinking. Generally, you can't quit. Once you have a physical problem, it is appropriate to quit for a period of time for your health. I have met many such people in my life.

However, the color is different. In essence, alcohol and tobacco are increasingly becoming a social product. On the other hand, the birth of human beings was not accompanied by cigarettes and alcohol. Since it is a post-production thing, there is a great possibility of quitting. Color, but it is innate. In other words, it may be understood as sex. Sex is human's own in the bones and is deeply rooted. In fact, there are only two ways to get rid of it: one is Dong Fangbubai's indirect means, which is because our Dong Fangbubai later had Yang Lianting (of course, Dong Fangbubai didn't do it to quit color); The other is simple and direct, taking his life. But people don't even have their own lives, so we can't exist. People can't be human without this color or gender.

Therefore, I hate monks and appreciate them. Monks should be between the above two kinds of people. I don't appreciate eunuchs, but I sympathize with them. After the eunuch was removed, abnormal conditions followed. Monks are different. Monks quit their hearts, bit by bit. Knock on wooden fish and recite Buddhist language. But can monks really give up color? I'm rather skeptical. The sixth ancestor Huineng said it really well. There was nothing. Where did the dust come from? Why do you insist that some things don't exist? So, the color already exists. Why do you have to use a word "quit" to turn it into nothing? The word "quit" is too absolute, too thorough, too thorough, and should be described with an implicit, gentle and moderate word.

Imagine the monk knocking on the wooden fish there, aiming at the color, saying, the color is empty, and the empty is the color. Space is a kind of "thing" without, and "color" already exists. I've been thinking about it, and I've left a hint in my heart. DOG, don't think about it. You know, when you deny the popularity of "abstinence" in the form of negation, you have actually been thinking about it. Subconsciously I admit this kind of thing. I've had an idea in my heart for a long time, nagging every day, always thinking about it, why talk about precepts?

However, I have great admiration for monks. The ancient Buddha with blue lanterns is also a realm in plain English. In my lifetime, I can't reach that level of practice, only admire it.

In fact, both skin color and gender are the most normal.

People come from animals. Let's start with animals. When a male dog sees a female dog (or a female dog sees a male dog), he farts and turns his nose at others. The smell of the opposite sex stimulates the sex of male dogs. Male dogs have wild thoughts and then behave abnormally in public. This is normal. But can you call this male dog "sexy"? Of course, if you must say so, I can't help it. When human beings were wild, they didn't know manners and didn't even have clothes. When we first met, it was not much different from today's male dog and female dog.

As soon as my bitch strolls outside the street, she always meets several rogue male dogs. Flirting is naturally indispensable in love scenes. But I don't think those male dogs are "sexy", it's a natural state. Of course, my bitch is happy to fight with those hooligans. This touches on a more essential problem.

Let's talk about ourselves. A man was walking on the road and saw a beautiful woman. If you are a beautiful woman, you must have something attractive. This person may have found one of the attractions and felt it. I looked at the beautiful woman a few more times, and my neck turned a corner with the rhythm of others' footsteps. Nothing at first, but we called this man "sexy". By careful comparison, this man's behavior is not as ambiguous and obscene as the male dog mentioned above, but he just insists on hanging a "color". This is indeed human nature, and everyone has a love for beauty. Beauty has the heart of beauty that beauty loves to dress up, and men have the heart of beauty that men love to appreciate. So it should be the color of human nature, not the color that has been derogated countless times. On this basis, maybe someone will add a word "good" to the word "color", that is, "lewd". What is the difference between "color" and "desire"? No one can say for sure.

A woman saw a handsome guy in the street, for reference only.

In the future, when you meet a beautiful woman on the street, don't look. Although you look at it, you can't be sure how much "color" or "lust" you have in others' understanding. The world is crazy, and beautiful women are all dressed up and "can't tolerate" what others see. At first glance, if it is not "color", it will be upgraded to "lewd". How can normal things be so distorted?

The word "culture" is broad and hospitable, and I like all rivers run into the sea. When something touches it, it has another taste. For example, our tobacco culture, wine culture and sex culture.

Speaking of this, the topic may need to be changed to "Quit smoking, stop drinking, and never lose color". Not "difficult", but impossible. Although "giving up smoking and drinking and not giving up sex" is wrapped in a little subjective and determined kitsch and rogue.