It's disgusting for boys to coquetry.

What do boys mean by coquetry to girls? 1. Finding a sense of existence through coquetry may be that he has no confidence in himself and doesn't know whether you like him or not, so he wants to remind you of his existence through some actions and observe your reaction. 2. Spooling is a sign of trusting you. Because of men's consistent thinking, it is not as easy for men to spoil as women, and it is invisible outside the family. In the family, a man can only show his love in front of a woman who really loves him. The other side of coquetry. When a man approaches you unguarded, he will show his childish side. In daily social forms, he shows masculinity. 3, coquetry is the performance of loving you. A man's coquetry is completely the most primitive emotional launch of his inner subconscious. In the face of unfamiliar women, men can't be spoiled, which is disgusting; In the face of women you don't love, men won't be spoiled, which makes people feel uncomfortable; As long as men face the woman they really love, men will really unlock their hearts, and their original emotional psychology will be manifested under the stimulation of love. 4, coquetry may be Oedipus complex. Men's coquetry stems from Oedipus complex. When a boy was weak, he went to his mother. Mother is a man's harbor. A man's coquetry originated from his mother's mind. Men subconsciously form an attachment to their mothers, and mothers naturally become the object of men's coquetry. But mother can't accompany us all our lives. Once a man meets a woman he loves deeply, this kind of psychology will start again, and the woman he loves deeply will naturally become the psychological "mother" of a man. 5. Spooling is psychological decompression. Men are more resistant to stress than women, but when they are strong, they will be weak. Men actually live under strong psychological pressure. Society and family always regard men as the backbone of society and the pillar of family. In fact, they are essentially the same as women. Everyone has a fragile side, and when there is pain, men also need to vent their inner emotions. A man's favorite woman is the best harbor for a man to comfort his soul, and it is only natural for a man to spoil her. How do boys behave towards girls? 1. Complaining to you? He may complain to you about how he went to work today and how he had a bad day at work recently. You shouldn't think he is weak. When a face-saving man is willing to pull down his face to expose his incompetence, it is actually that he is willing to open his heart to you, and you are the person he trusts and he needs your encouragement. 2, pretending to be innocent Every time you quarrel, your mouth is flying, but he sits aside and looks at you silently with innocent eyes, or a look that is none of his business, making you look even more angry! But in fact, this time represents that he pays more attention to the relationship between two people, rather than the details that women care about, and will pretend to be innocent. On the one hand, he also wants to show that he is actually harmless. 3. Excitement If a man dances with excitement in front of his wife, he must be particularly eager for praise and praise. This is a manifestation of their coquetry. At least he is exaggerating his pride to his wife and wants her to share his joy. At this time, if you say a few words of heartfelt praise, he will be as excited as a pupil praised by a teacher. 4. Men who want to be caressed also want to be caressed. They also like to accept the active caress of their wives. This is a kind of spoiled feeling in their subconscious, just like the feeling in their mother's arms. When a man is an adult, he can only feel the feeling of being cared for in the active caress of a woman. Therefore, when his wife takes the initiative to caress him, she will see his warmth different from other times. It's disgusting for boys to coquetry. 2 What should I do when facing a man? First, with him, I feel that in love, especially among young people, men will be spoiled more or less, because everyone is young and should not just be spoiled by women. When a boy encounters some problems, he may also act like a spoiled brat with his girlfriend involuntarily. I feel this is a sign that he loves you. He just let his guard down in front of you. So you can cooperate, he can play the coquetry with him, or tolerate his playing the coquetry. Second, tell him that people's personalities are different. When you say that he spoiled you, you feel sick and can't stand your personality. You just don't accept boyfriends. You are a coquettish person. Then you can just tell him that you don't like him like this. Maybe she will know that this way is not suitable for you, and gradually she may understand, and then she may find a way to communicate with you that suits you. Step 3 hint at him. If you say that you feel bad and uncomfortable about your boyfriend's coquetry, but you don't want to tell him directly, you are afraid of hurting his self-esteem and making him uncomfortable. You can hint at him, remind him and let him know that you don't like him. I feel that he should understand your intention, and then it will gradually stop. Adapt to him Dandong said that if you like someone, you will like everything about her. Of course, if you like your boyfriend, you may also like his coquetry. If you can't accept a man's coquetry at first, but you love her and don't want to hurt her, and your heart is tolerant of her, then you will gradually adapt to him. After a long time, you will get used to his coquetry and even cooperate with him. I feel it. It's disgusting for boys to coquetry. Why do you say she is charming and I am disgusting? Teacher, didn't you say that men like women to spoil? Why doesn't my husband buy it? I looked at the screenshot of the chat she gave me: She: Husband, other people's small circle has disappeared. What should I do? Man: Why is it gone? Look for it. She: But I can't find him. M: Look again. I have work to do. I think this person is quite indifferent. He is straight. Just ask her: what is a small circle? Is it your pet? She: No, it's a hair band. Isn't it cute? Me:? I was wrong. This man is not only indifferent, but also good-natured. If someone did that to me, I would immediately lift the table and leave. It can only be said that how cute is the death of many women. They think they are very powerful, but they have been making a world and treating disgusting sand sculptures as cute. Let's talk about it in detail today, and what to do is the real coquetry. Let's make it clear what coquetry is. Enthusiasm is to achieve the expected goal for someone or something by showing weakness, which is a relatively feminine performance and a lovely performance of treating people. In other words, coquetry is a sign of intimacy. You are willing to be spoiled in front of him because you trust him and rely on him. Willing to become a child in front of him. There is a famous line in The Best Life of a Spoiled Woman: In fact, a man will love a woman all his life. What matters is not her breasts, her face, but whether a woman can be spoiled and considerate. A coquetry and considerate woman is a gentle man. Her ribs are destined to be happy all her life. Xiao Qu-Kong in Ode to Joy is a particularly enchanting leprechaun. Andy and Bao Xiao are always quarrelling. Andy was so sad that he didn't know what to do, and then Qu Yaoqin found out. Qu Xiaoyu called Bao Xiao and told him to think about how to apologize to Andy. Bao Xiao always said: Why should I apologize to her? Xiaoqu said: Just because you are a man. Bao Xiao always understood in an instant and agreed to apologize to Andy. Andy doesn't understand how Xiao Qu Kong handles such a complicated headache that even Lao Tan can't cure it. Xiaoqu said: I won't teach this kind of thing to ordinary people, but it is especially useful for boyfriends and husbands. Next, I saw a little song saying three words loudly: but she is a woman, she is a woman, she is a woman! Xiaoqu said: Remember, coquetry is a woman's killer, and it works for any man. Look, real coquetry is actually an advanced means to show women's wisdom. Let's talk about how to do it in detail. 1, grasp the discretion, remember the classic lines in The Best Life of a Spoiled Woman? "Rabbits are so cute, how can you eat rabbits!" This line caused laughter in the cinema. It's funny in the cinema, but in reality, excessive coquetry may make people very disgusted. Even men who are extremely eager for male competitiveness will be tired of listening to coquetry. Therefore, coquetry must be measured properly. × Wrong demonstration: "Dear, I like to eat as long as you cook. Come and cook tonight! " Well, say you want to be lazy and don't want to cook. √ Correct demonstration: "Husband, come and help me wash a green vegetable ~" Just the right modal particle, with its own coquetry effect. If my husband still doesn't want to come at this time, say he is busy. You can say, "I can't spare my hands now, so come and help me first." Wouldn't it be better to concentrate on your work after dinner? " Spoil is sugar. Eating a little is sweet, and eating too much will make you tired. 2. After occasionally showing weakness and quarreling, don't send a circle of friends to wait for him to apologize every time. Taking the initiative once in a while will make him feel that you care about him, and your goodwill will increase. For example, I also want men to spend more time with themselves, using "Don't you love me? /Break up if you don't accompany me. "What you get is basically a quarrel and a real breakup. Threatened by "If you don't come back early, I'll run away with the puppy/I'll eat all your snacks", the boys will definitely laugh and cry for a while, and then come back to make it up to you after coaxing you. Therefore, the so-called weakness, not to make you "humble", but "coquetry and cute", focuses on expressing your love for him. 3, straightforward requirements+positive feedback Women's minds are naturally more delicate than men's, so they are always hiding, afraid that they are too straightforward and hurt each other's hearts. But men are really not good at reading women's minds. More often, be straightforward, be happy when you are happy, be angry when you are angry, say if you like it, refuse if you don't want it, and flatter if you get it. For example, if you are angry, don't wait for him to guess, just tell him: I am angry, very angry! He asks, tell him why, and then tell him directly what you want: a hug/a few sweet words can coax you. After he did it, he gave a feedback: that's very kind of you. Don't complain cruelly that he didn't do well. For example, if you are going on a business trip, ask your husband to help with the children at home. As a result, when I got home, my husband actually changed the baby's diaper by mistake. X error demonstration: what's wrong with you? You can't even change diapers. How stupid are you? A man will explode when he hears it, which will not only lead to a quarrel, but also never help you with your children again. √ Correct demonstration: snow a smile and say: Honey, you changed the wrong diaper. (State the facts) But it's still good, much better than when I first changed it. Honey, you are amazing. (Awesome) You will become more and more handy if you practice more in the future. Come on ~ I like you. When you speak, speak softly and briskly, so that what you say will be more beautiful and convincing. Every man has a child in his heart. Although they are strong in appearance, they need praise more than anyone else in their hearts. A good lover talks a lot. He will do anything for you as long as he has your encouragement and praise. Many people resist coquetry and feel that they are too weak, as if they are trying to please men. This idea is unnecessary. Independence and coquetry never conflict, coquetry is just a tool, just like perfume, which is used to make the atmosphere more pleasant from time to time. It is a condiment of life and a small means to increase the interest of couples. After all, we don't live by coquetry. So I really feel that I can't do it, and I don't have to force it, especially a woman with a strong personality, which is easy to roll over and become a large-scale disaster scene. In short, it is most important to suit yourself.