What is the experience of failure in postgraduate entrance examination?

First of all, I would like to express my heartfelt congratulations to the students who have achieved ideal results! Congratulations, everyone has worked hard for nearly a year and finally got the reward they deserve.

But today, I want to talk to another part of my classmates who are not so good at it.

Yes, all those who have fought, struggled, given, tried and bravely challenged their limits are worthy of admiration and have not failed.

The success of postgraduate entrance examination is the result of many factors, including but not limited to talent, learning foundation, hard work and even luck.

And failure may be just one of the factors that is imperfect.

The probability of failure is much higher than the probability of success.

However, an exam can't decide everything in life.

Everything is the past and the preface.

Take a rest, regain confidence, face all the results bravely, and be fully prepared for the next thing.

Keep going and keep moving.

The vast world is a great achievement.

1.

As soon as English crossed the national line, it was 6 points lower than last year's national line. During World War I, my mind collapsed a week before I volunteered, and I finally chose our school. There are two books in our school. I wanted to guarantee the bottom, but I didn't expect to cross the national line. Politics 79, two specialized courses, 1 10+, English has been dragging on. I've been worried about English, but English is still stumbling. I hope that friends who see this answer can pay attention to English and don't repeat the same mistakes. Ordinary people, compared with the children of parents and friends, compared with the children of relatives, I am really ordinary, too ordinary. I just passed CET-4, CET-6 and CET-2 five times in my senior year. In the final analysis, I didn't work hard. But to be honest, the postgraduate entrance examination is really a change for me. During the ten months of preparing for the exam, I didn't sleep in once. When I returned to school, I didn't even leave the school once. I know our school has an average style of study, but I really want to go to school. I worked really hard, and I persisted until the last moment of the exam. Although I can only touch myself by saying these things now, I will go to the internship on Monday, so I really should adjust myself. It's not mourning, and I don't want too many negative emotions under this answer. We still have a chance. Who says failure is impossible? Ordinary people will persist and run when they meet something they love. All we need is confidence in ourselves and the courage to persist. I will go to World War II. I will make up the difference this time. I will leave this pit. When I succeeded in World War II, even in World War III, I hope everyone knows that ordinary people can still succeed if they fail, and no one's efforts will be disappointed. Let's go Although I shouted for refueling, I was still very sad. I'll be sad for a while. )

2. Day 27

I don't know why I was so optimistic, knowing that I only had three months to prepare, and I didn't learn the professional courses well when I was an undergraduate. It was so difficult for the school that applied for the exam to come up with real questions over the years ... On the day I took the exchange, my mother and I were cooking a small hot pot at home. Suddenly, someone on WeChat sent a message telling me that Jida could check the scores. I tried to click in. I thought it would be stuck for a long time. I didn't expect the ID number to be filled in, and I didn't react. 365,438+00 appeared in front of me. I remember calmly telling my mother that it was not good to review, but then there was Chili or beef. When I was eating, I asked my good friend who was admitted to a school with me. She tried to suppress her happiness and told me that her grades were quite good, 4 15. At that time, my mind was full of human joys and sorrows, only that they were noisy. Later, I cried for two days until my nose was so dizzy that I couldn't open my eyes. I didn't go to school, rather than feeling sorry and ashamed. Boyfriend is a military school student. He doesn't need to take the postgraduate entrance examination. He is directly assigned after graduation, with a monthly salary of 9000+. Before our achievements, we fantasized a lot about the future and felt that the happy life of graduate students and young officers seemed within reach. I study hard and he works hard to make money. When I graduate and he gets promoted, I can naturally get married. However, his road is still moving forward, but my side has stagnated. I don't know what I can do with my undergraduate degree. I can't find a job in the postgraduate entrance examination, I can't find it, and I don't know how to introduce myself to my boyfriend's family. I don't know how to catch up with my good friends who are graduate students and doctors in the future ... I really feel that I will be abandoned by this world. Later, I experienced civil servants, public examinations, and so on. But this time, I am different. I am no longer the silly elder sister who was ambitious and couldn't find the right way during World War I. I spent a lot of time collecting college information, sorting out and analyzing data, comparing and analyzing real questions, and studying the style of questions. ......

Finally, I finalized my own World War II target institution: Xiamen University!

Then, on the basis of World War I, we adjusted the plan while implementing it.

I have been feeling very uncomfortable since I failed in the postgraduate entrance examination last year. During the Second World War, I had no confidence. Even a few days before checking the scores, I explicitly prohibited my mother from making hot pot again. I was really afraid that the scene on February 20 last year would be staged again ... but I not only did it, but also did it well. After Zhou Sicheng shared my good news in Weibo, I was actually in a trance when I saw many comments praising me. Therefore, those who read this article, I want to tell you: In fact, failure in the postgraduate entrance examination does not mean anything, life is still long and there are many opportunities. You can choose to start this road again, or you can take this road now. None of us know where the end of the road leads, but you must believe that as long as you go down seriously and firmly, it will be a brand-new spring to meet you.

3. Anonymous users:

You are all I can have, but I have wishful thinking. The moment I saw the result, I was actually very calm. Calm down for a while and then began to cry, a little collapsed, no expected collapse. I am really bad. A little worse than ordinary people. I don't even think I can reach the threshold of being an ordinary person. However, this network is full of successful cases of overtaking in corners and landing on beaches, which makes me feel that "I am one of them", which is my biggest illusion. Many people say that if you can't get 985,211,just get a good one. Many people say that I just have a low vision, so I can go ashore early by choosing an ordinary school. Many people say that I got a good score the first time, but I was unlucky the second time. But as an ordinary person worse than ordinary people, I don't even have the above feelings. I am facing a more direct and realistic failure. You all are. I could have. It's just my wishful thinking.

In the past year, it can be said that I didn't work hard. I seem to work hard, too. I read the book carefully and wrote the title carefully. To be honest, I haven't missed reading novels, resting and playing mobile phones.

Almost everything, almost reaching the threshold of ordinary people, I am really bad.

Perhaps this is the real graduate identity of ordinary people, without counterattack or overtaking.

Only failure, self-doubt.

And wishful thinking.

4.

Tell me about the experiences of friends around you.

1, roommate a, two undergraduate students, ranked first in World War I, but ended in failure. After my friend failed in the postgraduate entrance examination, he felt that he was a failure. The whole person has no direction to struggle, and he didn't eat much for several days after the results came out. Later, I thought it was very important to choose a suitable school. Some schools can't go if they want to, and there is still a gap between ideal and reality. Later, I watched my classmates and friends go ashore and said that it was false not to envy, so I couldn't find a suitable job directly. After a series of struggles, I decided to go to World War II.

2, friend B, World War II failed again. I entered the second interview in World War I, but English delayed the second interview. Although I was depressed after losing the first world war, I felt that I was not so bad, thinking that I could come again after one year. So I decided to take part in the postgraduate entrance examination while working, and then changed schools in area B for another year. However, due to the trouble of work chores, my initial test results are much worse. According to my friend B, I feel that the day of achievement will collapse, life will be meaningless, and I will be more confused and anxious about the future. Can't sleep at night. If I can't sleep, I think I'm sorry for my parents. I am still eating my old age. I'm worried that my girlfriend will leave me and I will accomplish nothing in the future.

5. Wigglytuff:

I have never been able to imagine what I would do if I failed in World War II, because it was too difficult. At that time, I was the last stop, and I never imagined planB, because it was frustrating to think about it anyway. Maybe I am really arrogant. Are those who have experienced hardships and succeeded really valuable when they look back? At the bottom of the valley, do you really believe that you will see the rainbow after these storms? What should people who failed in World War II do? Therefore, there is no real empathy in the world. We can only have a similar situation at a certain stage, producing some tiny songs and then going our separate ways. I don't know how to comfort the students who failed in the postgraduate entrance examination, because what they need most is not comfort, but a job opportunity or an admission quota. But I think the children who take the postgraduate entrance examination are stronger, because the risk of failure is too great. The most important thing now is to clear your mind and analyze what you really want, what path to take, what goals to set and how to achieve them. The most important thing for graduates is graduation and destination. Supporting the elderly has to bear great psychological pressure. During this period, if you can get the support and understanding of your family, you must work harder, learn from these mistakes, analyze whether it is a problem of direction, luck or strength, and prepare for the next charge. Then the most important thing is that no matter what the result is, we should live well, and we will have a chance if we live.

6. Li Huju: Resignation failed in postgraduate entrance examination and experienced a painful metamorphosis. Tell me about the experience of failing in the cross-examination of engineering history. I majored in engineering and studied historical philology at Columbia University. After I decided to apply, I embarked on this road of no return alone. Eight months is almost isolated from the world. No job, no girlfriend, no money, only a suitcase and a roll of bedding. The moment the exam results came out, I was really thrilling and didn't dare to look. Finally, I got up the courage, with a total score of 362, 92 points higher than the national line. However, English is cruel, 35 points, only crossing the C line. For an instant, I felt that it was hopeless. Sure enough, I crossed myself out, two points short. So I failed. Looking at the historical score of 254, I'm really sorry. Yes, it's been a hard few months, getting up early and getting greedy. In the empty room, only the sound of my reading echoed, and sometimes I could clearly hear the rustling of my writing. In the corner is a hand-pulled box that has been used for eight years, and next to it is a "hot box" for cooking instant noodles. A desk, full of books, a Taishan village machine, this is all my furnishings. April has come, I have no money, I can't afford to pay rent and I can't afford to eat. At the worst time, I had 20 yuan in my pocket. How should I spend it? At that time, I bought three steamed buns for one yuan, and I ate one steamed bun at a time, which made me drool. Finally, there was an exchange phone, and I was investigated on the phone. I thought my answer was good, but there was no news in the end. I even applied for a transfer from Jishou University, but in the end, it all sank into the sea. As the adjustment failed one by one, the sky collapsed. Wandering in the village in the city, like a walking corpse, listening to noisy music, the world is so strange. In the night sky, the crescent moon is hanging in the sky, which is extremely cold. I always step on its bleak moonlight and walk alone on the dark road. At this time, I don't even have any fear, only endless grievances and unwillingness. I think, what's the point of living in this life? What should I pursue? Back to the cabin, it was very cold. I curled up in a corner of the wooden bed, half covered, and the night passed. Lying awake with eyes wide open, there seems to be a face on the ceiling, which is disgusting. When I think of my elderly parents at home, I can't help thinking of Huang Jingren's sentence "Nothing goes to the Three Treasures Hall". I am afraid to see my parents' expectant and sad eyes, their rough palms, and their gullied faces, and it hurts to think of them. However, reality does not believe in tears, and life goes on. In order to survive, I applied for the position of library security guard, studied while working, and embarked on the journey of World War II again. The experience of failure is also very precious. Looking back a few years later, I believe that there will be a slight smile at the corner of my mouth while I am disappointed and sighing. That is the memory of youth, it will be engraved in your memory until you are old.

7. Postgraduate entrance examination: It has been two years since the first postgraduate entrance examination failed. Whenever this time, some people are happy and others are worried! When the results of the first year's preliminary examination came out, the first feeling was not shame, but regret and hopelessness. Although my parents didn't blame me, my teacher comforted me, and everything around me didn't seem to change because of my failure in the postgraduate entrance examination. On the contrary, I feel that the world is full of malice, and I can't eat or sleep. Even the greetings from seniors, teachers and classmates make me feel ironic. I copied and tore up the re-examination materials I had bought on my desk. Although I have a hunch that I will fail, it is still hard for me to accept that I have prepared for the exam for so long and didn't even have a retest in the end. That kind of fear and confusion about the future fills my heart. I picked up my head and stuffed it in the quilt and cried because I didn't dare to let my parents outside hear me. I tried to suppress my voice. My nose is blocked and I have to open my mouth to breathe. I still remember the pain that stuck in my throat and chest. I'm glad that the New Year is over. I don't have to visit my relatives and friends. Otherwise, I really can't guarantee that I will do anything indecent with my strong self-esteem and fragile mentality. School is about to start next, and I strongly refuse it in my heart, just feeling humiliated. It took me a long time to realize that this is an extremely self-centered narcissism that is extremely difficult to resolve. Although some people disagree with me, it's true. I still don't know what to do next World War II, the fear of World War I is still there; Going to work is really unwilling. As you know, I chose World War II partly because I still have regrets. I don't think I didn't work hard enough or used the wrong method. On the other hand, a senior who went ashore told me that graduate students would really be different. Everything I did before I was 30 was to improve myself. A year goes by quickly. If you really want to do it, don't leave any regrets! I carefully analyzed the reasons for the failure of World War I, slightly adjusted the direction of preparing for the exam, rented a house outside with my roommate, and started a day of preparing for World War II.

8. Consultant Yu Yue:

The first time I failed in the postgraduate entrance examination, I felt a little uncomfortable ... The second time I failed in the postgraduate entrance examination, I felt particularly uncomfortable, because I was tired and stressed while working ... The third time, I suddenly got scared, because I was fully prepared, and I felt that if I failed, all roads lead to Rome, I could still live ... Then, I succeeded for the third time! ! ! If the postgraduate entrance examination fails, first, learn to sum up experiences and lessons. Second, leave yourself a way out. If you fail, you should live a good life. Anyway, the purpose of admission is to live a good life.