Many people are extremely disgusted with their loved ones. What is the reason why you don't like relatives?

We all want to visit relatives during the Spring Festival, just to get closer. After all, no matter what feelings you have, you like to visit relatives when you are young, because there will be a lot of delicious food with red envelopes. Maybe we didn't understand it then. When we grow up, we seem to know something about the relationship between people, and gradually we are reluctant to visit relatives, even disgusted, which is also the reason for many people. I used to feel like my relatives were good, but now they are really weak.

One: Always ask questions. Every New Year, I am really upset, because some relatives I don't know are always asking questions, ranging from life events to a month's salary. You are not as good as your own children, but you are really impatient to educate you in the name of hello, but as elders, there is nothing we can do, just mind our own business.

Two: on the surface, it sounds good, but I can't see you behind. You have to believe that in this world, except the closest people, they really don't care about you. Although we are relatives, sometimes relatives are not as good as strangers. Relatives are good on the surface, good for you, but really bad behind your back. Buying a house and a car makes children more capable, but not jealous. They look forward to your ruin all day, and they are happy if you are not well. May be often not together, so the feelings between each other are really weak, and some are just a little blood relationship.

Three: Very snobbish. Some relatives are fine, while others are snobbish. How snobbish can they be? That is, when you are capable, Eighth Generation won't come to your house. In the new year, when you are carrying something, you will come with a smile, thinking that it will be bad, and you will be asked to help introduce the work. If the introduction is not good, people will say that they are not people inside and outside. If you are down and out, they will only look at your jokes and never help you.

Most of my relatives are like this. After all, they are not very close people. They are all looking forward to their own good, and they will never say that they are looking forward to your good. So don't think about relying on others, just try to live your own life.