A sophomore, how to deal with the relationship with seniors?

First of all, it depends on whether you are gay or heterosexual. Generally speaking, if you are of the same sex, your deskmate will be more tolerant of you. Same sex, it's more complicated. But whether you and your deskmate are of the same sex or the opposite sex, the following items apply.

Rule 1: Don't disturb his/her study.

The headmaster hates being disturbed by others, especially by his deskmate. He can also ignore other external interference, but the deskmate, as his closest person, often makes it difficult for him to ignore it. No matter how good your deskmate's self-control ability and anti-interference ability are, your interference with him is definitely the biggest. If you don't know anything in class, just pester him to tell you, and he won't talk to you. Obviously, if you stop, he can't keep up. So, don't put on a show while others are listening. I want to study, but I can't. Help me.

Rule 2: If you don't attend class, try not to ask him/her.

People who don't listen in class and let others talk after class are the most annoying. It's a waste of your own time, and it's also a waste of other people's time, and the questions you ask are the most basic, which are all in the book. Every time someone asks me some questions that are all in the book, I go crazy.

Article 3:? Don't take others' help for granted

It's true that people study well and you sit at the same table, but it doesn't mean that people have the obligation and responsibility to help you. To put it bluntly, it is your deskmate who helps you, and it is your obligation not to help you. There is nothing to complain about. Don't take others' questions for granted, and certainly don't be too servile. Those who take others' help for granted are really disgusting. When I was a freshman, a girl in your roommate said she didn't know geography. Let me tell her something. I asked her what she didn't know and she said she didn't know anything. Because we are fellow villagers in the same dormitory, I told her the whole chapter with a helpful attitude. Guess what happened in the end? I don't know much about it. Let's listen to the teacher tomorrow. At that time, I decided never to talk to her again.

Article 4: don't give it to others every day, classify it yourself.

Some of those academic tyrants may really look at themselves separately from ordinary students, but they think so in their hearts, and some are not. No matter what the reality is, I hate what some scum say with a strange emphasis. What are you doing, teachers?

Article 5:? Don't talk about others, you are sure to be admitted to a famous university.

You think he will be happy to hear that, but he is not. It will only make him more stressed. If you give him an excellent one, he will definitely be admitted in the future, and he will have such expectations in his heart. These words are just a simple sentence in your mouth, you don't need to pay any responsibility, but after the failure, the people who laughed at him once praised him like this, and he knows this better than anyone else.