Zhang: I don't want to lose face. When do people care most about their face?

Everyone loves face, but really putting down face is the greatest dignity of people. The more people fail, the more they regard face as their life.

The so-called face is the recognition of personal morality and ability by society, but it is insignificant. It's nothing more than comforting yourself. For truly successful people, face is dispensable, because these are illusory things, and you can completely stay out of it. As a truly powerful man, he is not too keen on bluffing. They will only work hard, study hard and lose face. Naturally, you can win the respect of others, because face is not necessary, it is the heartfelt impression and admiration of others. From ancient times to the present, countless deeds are the best proof. For example, Gou Jian, the king of Yue, was humiliated by the king of Wu and eventually died.

For young people who are poor and eager to succeed after repeated failures, too much emphasis on self-esteem and face is often a stumbling block on the road to success. Especially for some fragile and sensitive people, self-esteem has become a sharp weapon to ask others. Self-esteem is more important than anything else. Too strong and sensitive self-esteem actually comes from inferiority and fragility. The more useless a person is, the more he sticks to those irrelevant opinions, and he should show strong self-esteem everywhere. Like them, there is nothing but inferiority. As early as the French writer Sanal said: The dirtiest thing in the world is self-esteem. ? Because of self-esteem, a person's vulnerability, inferiority, sensitivity and uselessness have the best excuse and cover. Therefore, in life and work, if you want to be decent in life, in the world and in daily life, you must find values that match your identity.

Therefore, face is not important, what is important is to be down-to-earth, recognize the reality, work hard, live seriously and win face for yourself with your own actions.