The opening remarks of blind date chat will make you not embarrassed _ _

1 new things open

You can browse the blind date's circle of friends and his social account. When browsing, don't forget to write down topics that you can extend and actively capture new things related to them in your life. Then throw it at the right time when chatting. Remember, always be prepared and try to give each other a soul impact experience. If you don't know what to start with, just go and see what's happening in his circle of friends recently.

For example, if you see him traveling, you can say, "I saw you traveling the other day." The picture is very beautiful. Did you have a good time? " ? "or Ta shows the work dynamics, you can say," congratulations, today's project passed smoothly. "

The circle of friends is originally for others to see, and you can send a message to each other: you care about him very much.

2. Memory on

"Remembering" refers to using the information in your previous chat. For example, "I just had dinner with friends and found a Sichuan restaurant delicious." I thought you said you liked spicy food. If there is a chance to meet, let's eat together. " "This kind of prologue not only gives you something to say, but also proves that you keep each other's hobbies in mind and can make them feel your intentions.

In addition to the "things happening around you" and "things happening in work and life" just mentioned, you can also actively share your growth experience with each other, all kinds of interesting, special and even embarrassing events. This is also a kind of "memory", and the other person will open his heart and share his story with you when he puts down his psychological guard.

3. Hot topic opening

"Hot topic" is what everyone is paying attention to, which is easy to cut in and not easy to appear abrupt. Recent hot news, popular movies and TV series are all topics you can start with. For example, everyone has stayed at home recently, and it is inevitable to chase the drama to kill time. You can ask: Are there any good plays to recommend? Have you heard of (an entertainment star) recently? What do you think of this matter?

Popular things are the easiest topics to communicate with, and hot topics are the easiest topics to communicate with people. From these topics, we can understand each other's views, even three views.