You will know how to love your mother when you are old

We all have a lot to say about mothers! We cannot describe the greatness of mothers in words, but how many people in this world will love our mothers in time? Here is what I have compiled for you The family article about mother, I hope it can help everyone!

The family article about mother: Only when you are old do you know how to love your mother

During the Spring Festival of 1992, I was nearly thirty years old Taking my girlfriend home to visit relatives for the first time. It was time to leave the next day. On the night of farewell, my mother cooked a table of food and the brothers and sisters gathered together.

The meal was lively, but my mother remained silent and kept adding vegetables to my bowl. I said, "Mom, I'm not a guest. What kind of food will you bring me?" ?My mother didn’t speak, put down her chopsticks, and just looked at me silently. I said casually: "Mom, why do you always look at me like this?" Mom said: "I just missed looking at you once." As she said that, she picked up another dish with chopsticks. My sister intervened and said, "Mom wishes we could pack up the whole table of dishes and take them away, so that we can eat the dishes she cooked and think about her." ? Tears burst out of my eyes, my lips moved, and my whole body kept twitching.

This frightened my mother. I had an old problem when I was a child. When I cried, my hands and feet would cramp, and I would foam at the mouth and become epileptic. She thought I was sick again, so she held me in her arms like she did when she was a child, and comforted me not to cry. But this didn't work like it did when I was a child. I couldn't stop the tears, and my voice became louder and louder. No one at the table expected me to cry like this.

Many men admit that for a long period of time, there is no mother figure in our hearts. We pretend to be a ridiculous "world" in our hearts, full of pretense, silly, and everything. Put it in, love, hate, glory, shame, noble, cheap, around you, far away, visible, invisible, many, many, too many, even my dear mother. To be pitifully squeezed out. When we realized that all this was ridiculous and that we were stupid, and were ready to correct our mistakes and put our mother back into our hearts, we found that our mother was old and gone.

One day many years later, my wife went on a business trip for a few days, and I took care of the child alone. At night, the child suddenly developed a fever. After giving the medicine, the fever went away immediately, and the child slept soundly in the blink of an eye. . But I didn't dare to fall asleep despite my lingering fear, so I watched the child sleep for a long time, and tears came out again as I watched: because I saw my mother again.

The world is too big, mother, I can’t go back to see you or accompany you every day, not even once a month. I can only go back to see you once or twice a year and stay with you for more than ten days. For this, I often feel very guilty and sad. Fortunately, I can express myself through tears when I am sad.

Family articles about mothers: Mom, I love you!

Author: Wu Ziyou

Loving mother

Wu Ziyou

I am never tired of washing and cooking, and I am never slow in taking care of my children.

Young looks change every day, and old people’s hair turns gray every day.

Your children say you have no conscience, and your husband says you are incompetent.

The tears flowed to the quilt, and the laughter was left to the whole family.

There will be hardships for you to bear, and there will be joys and blessings for you to leave.

Outsiders say there is a lot of land, but I all say there is very little land.

A filial son and an obedient daughter must be repaid, and she plays the role of a loving mother and loving father.

I still vaguely remember that when I started to remember things when I was a child, my mother always said that I picked them from the river. Later, when I got older, my mother said that I hadn’t started talking even when I was four years old. She also said that I was held in her arms until I was four years old. Every time I listen to my mother recount the past, my eyes can't hold back tears. Naughty, naughty, and naughty children make their mothers heartbroken, break their hands, and have white hair on their heads. The children want to say: "Mom, I love you!"

No matter whether it is spring, summer, autumn, or winter, no matter how cold it is, Frost, mother's hands are always busy outside, never stopping. It wasn't until the children grew up that they started to talk about marriage, and then they started to neglect it a little bit. Despite this, they still couldn't let go.

Mom, do you still remember your many warnings? We were still young at that time. You said that we should study hard, go to college, and be responsible for ourselves and society in the future. We all answered in unison: "Yes". Promises are really good, but with the changes of time, today, more than ten years later, we can still say it as easily as before? Really??

When I was a child, one or two small things could do it He made us happy (even though it was not what he wanted), but now, he is no longer the unscrupulous child he was at the beginning. All of them have become lonely slaves and lonely subordinates. Maybe you are used to it! What you say is good at home is always bad when you are outside. No one is satisfied with the current situation. As people grow up and experience more and more, they always feel that they lack a lot, but are those things really so precious? First, parents care less; second, the credibility of friends is reduced; third, lovelorn What? Lacking all kinds of things, but full of indignation!

In life, there are really not many things and people you can meet. Sometimes you should cherish it or cherish it. Of course, some of them are not necessary, because even if they are pearls , there are also visitors! You should repay those who deserve it during your lifetime, and don’t let yourself leave too many regrets, especially your mother. I really don’t understand, is a person’s happiness really so important? How many people know that their birthday is a difficult day for their mother, but they use this day to have fun. What is the purpose of this?

In school, how many people come to study with responsibility? Your parents make money on one side, but you enjoy it on the other side. Do you know how many hurdles they passed to get their money? Many newcomers in the 21st century , all say that they are very bitter. How much bitterness have you experienced, and how deep is it?

Some people choose to live for their families (a lot), and some people choose to live for their parents (rarely) ), some people choose to live for the future (at most). Finally, some people choose to live for a truth (at least). Mom, you choose to live for responsibility, love, and family affection. How can I lose your face? From beginning to end, you are the one who teaches me how to be a human being and makes me understand many truths that are not in books. Mom, I love you!

Family articles about mother: Mother’s white hair

Author: Zhang Yunpeng

The white hair on mother’s head is like a silver streak Lightning flashed across my pupils, and at that moment I suddenly felt that my mother was getting old. This inadvertent suddenness made me feel a little panicked and unprepared. Time passed so fast that I was caught off guard! I once thought that maybe one day, with my frost-stained temples, I could support my trembling body. My old mother was walking in a park with beautiful scenery on a sunny afternoon. However, that electric blow seemed to remind me that my mother was getting older faster than I thought. Time seemed to fly by. My mother had no time to wait. She couldn't afford to wait.

Time is fair. I grow up slowly, and my mother slowly gets older. This parallel law of the universe makes it difficult for me to notice that my mother is slowly getting older. The wrinkles on my mother's forehead gradually deepened, her fingers gradually became chapped, and her face seemed to have begun to have spots. However, I didn't notice any of this. This was probably due to my carelessness and the fact that I didn't see my mother often. Let’s do it!

I am studying abroad and will start working in two months. In the past few years, I have been running around for my studies, and I have been away from my mother a lot. I have been busy for a few years, but I have not achieved anything famous. I have ignored my mother. Maybe it is because maternal love comes too easily, so it seems cheap. ; Maybe maternal love is selfless and does not ask for anything in return, which is why I don’t take it seriously; of course, the vastness of maternal love also makes me feel that maternal love is inexhaustible even if I don’t cherish it.

In the past few days, I worriedly asked netizens if there is any medicine that can turn white hair into black hair. They said, dye it, it will turn black once you dye it. This answer doesn't make me feel relieved. Is my mother really using this self-deception method to cover up the years that no longer exist? But who can give me a good prescription to replace my mother's hair dyeing again and again.

I don’t know when my mother had her first gray hair. Was it because she was worried about my first love that ended in vain? I’m afraid it was even earlier! It was probably because of the high tuition fees of college. She must be running around! It's not easy for a child from the countryside to go to college. Plus, she has an unmarried younger brother, a family, and a lot of things to do. How can it not make her age faster? However, Not necessarily. She didn't worry if I couldn't improve my grades in high school. Didn't she get discouraged when I failed the college entrance examination in my first year? I owe my mother a lot. Mother's love is like a river. Every time I am short of water, I can take a scoop with satisfaction, but the river bed gradually becomes less solid.

When my mother was young, her hair was very good. It was dark and thick, shining in the sun, as if she had applied oil on it. My mother’s hair was also very thick. The little daughters-in-law in the village were envious of their mother’s black hair. Now, when they came back from the city and dyed their hair, they were still very inferior compared to their mother. I inherited my mother’s personality and appearance, but I inherited my father’s hair, which is yellow and thin. If it were messier, it would look like weeds on the roadside with herbicide!

When I was a child, in the village There was a barber, and my mother led me to have my hair shaved every time. One time, the barber said while shaving her head, your mother has really good hair. I was secretly proud of my mother's dark and thick short sideburn hair, and the barber said, "Your mother doesn't have to worry about her hair in this life. How can she use hair dye like this!"

At that time, I was still studying in the primary school in the village. Every hot summer afternoon, my mother would fetch a basin of water, put the enviable black hair into the fresh water from the well, and use her young fingers to soften it. Rub it gently, wash your hair and then add a basin of water. When the foam on the hair is clean, the mother will pick up a mahogany comb, look in the mirror, and gently brush the hair while admiring it. Comb.

My mother loved her hair. Later, she loved her hair and gradually learned how to cut it. The young wives in the village thought it was too troublesome to go to the city to get their hair cut, so they simply sat in my yard and let their mother cut their hair. My mother's skills became better and better, and she could actually cut her own hair in front of the mirror. This craft also attracted my second aunt, who lives dozens of miles away from my home. She always asks my mother to cut her hair when she passes by my house every ten days and a half!

My mother also had long hair. That long hair was spotted and bought by a hair collector. The long hair was sold for more than 80 yuan. That's not a small sum. At that time, when I was in elementary school, the tuition fee for a year was only 60 yuan, and a pound of meat only cost 3 yuan. Nowadays, elementary schools no longer charge tuition, but the price of meat has increased to 10 yuan a pound. Let's do it!

However, the barber was wrong after all. My mother's enviable hair could not withstand the erosion of time. At the beginning, my mother was full of resistance and would always let me pull it out. Later, gradually three, five, and more white hairs began to grow on my mother's head faster and faster. My father finally couldn't pull it out, and my mother gradually learned to compromise and chose to admit defeat. Silently, white hair covered the temples, forehead, and head.

I once thought, if there had been no me, my mother would not have aged so early; if there had been no me, those gray hairs would have climbed onto my mother's head a few years later. My mother loves her hair, but she loves me even more. Every strand of her white hair is a testimony of her overwork for me. It was me who turned my mother's blue hair into white hair prematurely.

Several times, I told my friends that I was not a filial child! I have never done anything for my mother at this age. My friend said, this is not right. Mother wants you to repay her. Mothers all over the world have the same thought, which is to hope that their children can live better than her generation. It is already rare for you to have this kind of thought and think about your mother all the time.

What can I do!? I can only deeply regret that I couldn’t stay with my mother all the time and listen to her do her homework, and regret that I couldn’t become independent too early to make my mother feel at ease.

Of course, in the face of the new life that is coming, what I represent is no longer myself, but also my mother and my family. They have their hopes in me, and this hope is heavy!

My mother’s white hair tells me that she is old. As a man, I should improve myself. Every time I see my mother’s white hair, I secretly tell myself, come on! Come on!

Articles about mother's affection: Accompanying mother to see a doctor

Author: Jing Q

? Loving someone and letting the other person feel your love is sometimes more important than satisfying her psychological needs. Treating the physical illness is more important; and giving her even a little of what she wants is far more meaningful than giving her a lot of what she doesn't want. ?

?You are the son, you should take me to see a doctor. She is the daughter-in-law, she shouldn't. Besides, her face was just injured?, the mother's tone became more serious.

Mom, can you stop treating her like an outsider? She is a doctor. Her injuries are not a problem. Although she has not been at work these two days, she has also taken others to see a doctor. What’s more? Is it his own family?, the son argued.

? She takes others to see a doctor out of love. You and your father don’t care about people. I don’t want to trouble her, and I don’t want to find an acquaintance. I should register and pay. "Qian, you will take me there tomorrow?" Mother's tone became even harsher.

Mom, I am a son, I should take you there, and she is the daughter-in-law, how can you say that I am troubling her, she should do it too?, the son continued, ?You don’t know now How unscrupulous is a doctor? He would prescribe medicines and perform random examinations without looking for acquaintances?

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Just like that, the son and the mother began to argue over the matter of medical treatment. Both of them looked very angry and sad.

My mother’s health has never been good. Especially during this period, she always feels uncomfortable in her stomach. She is very thirsty at night and has a bitter taste in her mouth, which is very uncomfortable. The medicine my daughter-in-law took for my mother a few days ago and the medicine my sister gave my mother were not very effective after taking it. Two days ago, when my son and daughter-in-law accompanied their mother to the dental department of my daughter-in-law's hospital to see an acquaintance, the doctor's attitude and examination The method was not satisfactory to my mother, and the medicine she got back had no effect after taking it. My mother was very worried.

My daughter-in-law is a doctor. My son asked her that my mother is not seriously ill, but maybe she is a little angry. Although my son is no longer engaged in clinical practice, he has studied medicine and worked as a doctor. He knows the root cause of his mother's symptoms. He always advises his mother not to think too much and to be open-minded about everything, especially not to change his father. , don’t keep fussing over little things with your father. If you relax and feel better, your symptoms will naturally get better.

The mother knew that what her son said was reasonable, but it was difficult to change his personality. On the other hand, my mother is emotionally delicate and overly sensitive to her own physical discomfort. She always suspects that she is seriously ill and does not trust her daughter-in-law and the technology of her hospital. There are also mothers who don’t want to trouble their daughter-in-law, and don’t want to find acquaintances, for fear of owing favors to their daughter-in-law and others, so they feel disgusted and angry that their sons want their daughter-in-law to take them to the hospital where their daughter-in-law lives to see an acquaintance for treatment. What makes the mother sad is that she feels that her son no longer cares about her, does not feel sorry for her, is not filial, is disobedient, and is afraid of spending money.

And what about the son? The son is very entangled, aggrieved and distressed. Mother loves her son most, and her son knows in his heart that he also loves his mother deeply and cares about his mother's health. But what troubles his son is that his mother has always treated her daughter-in-law as a guest for so many years, and treats her harshly. She is afraid that her daughter-in-law will say anything bad about her, that she will trouble her, and that she will be unhappy. She never treats her as a family member and treats her son. I was also polite, which made my son feel awkward. What makes the son feel aggrieved is that the mother is too suspicious. She even feels that she is looking for medical treatment by an acquaintance because she is afraid of spending money, does not want to find a good doctor for her, does not care about her, and is dealing with her. She always complains that her son cannot speak nice words to others. He is good but not good for his family. Just like his father, he always makes her angry every time he goes to the doctor.

Yes, the son's mouth is indeed too stupid. He never says anything nice or comforting, and he never expresses his kindness to his mother and family, which is why his mother feels so many doubts. But the mother didn't know or feel how anxious and distressed her son felt whenever he saw or heard any bit of discomfort or bad things about his mother and wife. The son would just do it silently. He felt that he should do everything bit by bit, but maybe the way was not what his mother and wife wanted; the mother didn't know the worry that her son felt when he learned that his wife was injured on duty, and she didn't know that his son went to the hospital to see his wife after 12 o'clock in the middle of the night. Get medicine.

The son looked at his mother’s angry face and eyes that were so sad that he was about to cry, and forced himself not to argue with his mother anymore, because his son was a little more stubborn and mature than before. I also gradually understood what love is. Moreover, the son is most afraid of his mother's tears, because once the mother's tears flow out, the son's stupid mouth will not be able to say any nice words of comfort, and will only stay by his mother's side. At a loss what to do, extremely distressed. The son quickly said to his mother, "Mom, I'm going to ask for leave tomorrow to take you to see a doctor. We won't register with an acquaintance. We'll spend money to see a doctor, and we won't go to her hospital. You tell me where you want to see a doctor, and I'll take you there." As long as you don't get angry, okay? The mother's tone seemed to have softened a bit, and she said: "Well, I will go wherever you take me tomorrow." The son then told his mother some precautions for her medical check-up tomorrow, watched TV with her for a while and then went home.

Early the next morning, the son came to his mother’s house and took her to a county hospital closer to home to see a doctor. I thought I came quite early, but when I came to the outpatient hall, I saw that there were already many people queuing up to register.

When the son was queuing up to register in order, the mother began to speak: "With so many people, when will we be able to get in line? Didn't you say that she has already agreed with others? We should go to her hospital." See?.

My son received: "It's agreed, but you don't want to see an acquaintance. Let's wait in line here today. We won't go to an acquaintance. We'll call a specialist. You can see the doctor." How will it be shown to you? We will check whatever the doctor asks us to check?

When my mother heard this, she became unhappy again and said: "You are angry with me. When will this be good?"

My son is very embarrassed and feels that nothing can be done, but he is very clear about what is going on in the hospital. He does not want his mother to be deceived and randomly examined and prescribed medicine. He really wants to find a more skilled doctor for his mother. see a doctor. Now that my mother relented, she quickly called my wife to arrange for a gastroscopy. (My mother's main reason for seeing a doctor this time was to have a gastroscopy, because she always suspected that she had gastric cancer or something). Fortunately, my wife made an appointment with an acquaintance for a check-up, and said that the gastroscopy at the county hospital had been broken in the past few days. Even if she wanted to have a gastroscopy at the county hospital, she had to go to her hospital. When the mother heard what her son said, she was no longer unhappy and went to his wife's hospital with her son smoothly.

When we arrived at the gastroscopy room, there were already three people queuing up for gastroscopy. One of them was my wife’s hospital driver who took his sister to do gastroscopy. My wife once said that it is best to be the first one to do a gastroscopy, because the disinfectant is changed every Sunday. The first one every day has a longer disinfection time, and the disinfection on Monday is more thorough. It seemed impossible to do the first thing today, but the son was worried that his mother would not think twice and dare not tell her to go back to her. He would wait until tomorrow to do it, so he asked his mother to drink anesthetic and wait.

While waiting, the nurse called the son and mother out of the door and whispered: Sorry, another acquaintance came early today and couldn't let you do it first. Today is Wednesday, so we have to do it first. No, don't do it today. I promise to let you do it first next Monday. The son asked his mother for her opinion, and her mother agreed with the nurse's suggestion.

At just six o'clock on Monday morning, my son reminded his wife to make an appointment with an acquaintance to see if he could be the first to do it and get it done early. When the wife made the phone call and learned that the person she wanted to find had something to do at home and asked for leave today, the son complained that his wife asked you to contact him yesterday but failed to contact him. What should he do today? If he pushed it again, his mother would think more and become angry. My wife said that there is another one with better skills, but we have to wait until he finishes his rounds at around 9:30 before we can go to the gastroscopy room.

The son asked his wife to contact the doctor again to see if he could take care of him today and arrive at the gastroscopy room early. Fortunately, this time his wife happily agreed, and the doctor also agreed.

My son took time off to accompany his mother for a gastroscopy. This time, his mother was accompanied by his younger sister. On the one hand, the mother is worried that she has a serious illness. On the other hand, she still wants to be hospitalized for a good examination and treatment even if the gastroscopy shows nothing. The son knows his mother's inner thoughts and wants to fulfill his mother's wishes. He will listen to his mother in everything.

In order to prevent his mother from overthinking this time, his son took the initiative to register her and paid the examination fee. He also bought some snacks for an acquaintance and told his mother that he just wanted to find someone with good skills to do it for you and be the first one. We don't owe anyone else or the hospital. My mother is very satisfied this time.

When the mother was curled up on the examination bed in accordance with the doctor's request, when she saw her face slightly pale due to worry and fear, when she saw the long and thick examination tube inserted into the mother's throat and esophagus When the stomachache caused the mother to feel sick and uncomfortable, the son felt so sad and distressed. What makes my son most worried, anxious, nervous and uneasy is the clear picture on the computer, lest the results he least wants to see appear. The younger sister hid behind her older brother and didn't dare to see her mother's painful expression when the doctor inserted a gastric tube. In fact, the son didn't dare either. But the son still stood upright and supported his mother's body while staring at every picture on the computer tightly and anxiously, praying in his heart that nothing would go wrong. The two-minute examination almost made the son feel suffocated. It felt like it lasted so long. When the doctor said everything was fine at the end of the last scene, the son let out a long sigh of relief, and the mother's face also became better.

My mother has been suffering from high blood pressure, coronary heart disease, lumbar disc herniation, and bone hyperplasia in her knee joints for many years. She has been suffering from the pain. My son and his wife are medical students and know that these diseases can only be sustained. It is difficult to completely treat and eradicate the disease. Although I feel sorry for my mother, I still have no good solution. The mother still had a glimmer of hope. She was always worried about her health and the development of the disease. She always liked to overthink and think about the worst. Especially when she felt uncomfortable, she always wanted to go to the hospital. As a result, there was a dispute between the mother and her son. .

There is nothing wrong with the mother’s stomach. According to the wife’s opinion, the mother does not need to be hospitalized. Intravenous drips can be given in the outpatient clinic. Besides, there are too many patients in the hospital and the environment is poor, which can easily cause cross-infection. Although the son knew that what his wife said made sense, the hardships of life gradually made him understand a truth: "Love someone and let the other person feel your love. Sometimes satisfying her psychological needs is better than treating her physical illness." It's more important; and giving her even a little bit of what she wants is far more meaningful than giving her a lot of things she doesn't want. ?The son knows better what his mother is thinking and wants, so he persuades his wife to find a better ward in her department to stay for a few days.

Later, the son took his mother to his wife's ward, arranged a bed for her mother, completed the hospitalization procedures, and told his wife and sister to take good care of their mother. Then he went to work with peace of mind.

While my mother was in the hospital, she learned from her conversations with patients that their symptoms were similar to hers, and that the medicines they used were "good medicines" and "expensive medicines" but she didn't use them. Maybe my mother started to feel sad again. Concerned, the mother did not express her thoughts directly to her wife and son, but the son already learned about his mother's thoughts from his sister. When the son asked his wife if it was necessary to take that kind of medicine for his mother's illness, the wife told him the truth. It turned out that the medicine was commissioned. The son asked his wife to tell the doctor at his mother's bedside that if the medicine was not harmful, he would also give it to his mother, so that her mother would feel at ease with the treatment.

The son thought to himself, since the mother has gone through the hospitalization procedures, let’s give her a comprehensive check-up, and also take a look at the mother’s waist and knees. Maybe all the checks and treatments have not alleviated the mother’s symptoms. What effect does it have, as long as the mother feels relieved and happy. In this way, the mother was undergoing infusion in the internal medicine department and receiving physical therapy in the rehabilitation department.

My mother was hospitalized only for infusion and physical therapy before going home.

The younger sister is accompanying the mother. The son is busy with work and cannot stay with the mother, but he does not dare to forget to go to the mother's house to see the mother in the morning and evening, or call the mother to ask about the treatment situation. I want to know if the mother has any other ideas. This time, I did everything according to my mother's ideas, so as to show my filial piety as a son.

A week of infusion has ended, and my mother has been discharged from the hospital. However, the physical therapy has not ended yet, and my sister has to go to work. My son is worried that my mother will think too much if no one is around to take care of her. My son wants his wife to go to the rehabilitation department when she is at work. Go and see your mother so that she can feel comforted. The son knew that his wife was also very busy at work, and he also knew his wife’s personality. He felt in a dilemma, but he still racked his brains and thought of a way to behave better at home these days, and said to his wife: "Think about my mother." How do I usually treat you? These two days give you a chance to thank my mother. Also, it only takes a few minutes to go back and forth from your department to the rehabilitation department. If you can take the initiative to see my mother, my mother will definitely be very happy. It will be better for you in the future, and more importantly, your colleagues in the department will also praise you as a good daughter-in-law? After hearing this, my wife may have found it helpful and said: "We'll see what happens then. If you have time, go down and have a look."

The mother is still undergoing treatment. Although the mother’s symptoms have not been significantly improved after more than a week of treatment, the son has felt from the mother’s expression, words and behavior that the mother is quite happy. Compared with before, although the son loves his mother from the bottom of his heart, wants to make her healthy, wants to treat her well, and does everything that is beneficial to her, the result always makes her feel dissatisfied or even disappointed and sad.

The son is grateful to his mother for her dedication and love for him over the years; he is also grateful to life for allowing him to gradually understand what "family affection", "love" and "friendship" are. What is "true love"? I understand how to repay the people who love me, and I also understand how to love the people I love. Although my son also knows that he is not mature enough and what he has done is not good enough.