Take the children to catch crabs and talk about their feelings.

Fishing is a "parent-child" activity. Adults all over the world like to take their children out fishing on weekends! Of course, except in desert countries, as long as there is water for them, there is no need for bicycles!

We are a country with a large fishing population. Tens of millions of fishermen will have thousands of little lovers and cotton-padded jackets from Qian Qian. Whether the air is warm or not, we have to take care of the children at the weekend according to our mother's instructions. What should we do?

Simple, take the children fishing together! Look, it seems that we are forced to bring our children here to fish. How can you not see the taste of "parent-child"? Ha ha!

Take myself for example, I have a pair of daughters, and I am still the kind of person who is willing to take my children out fishing. Even so, once off the pole, my mind is full of fish, and my daughter is basically thrown away, even if she is not thrown away. What little lover, fish!

How can we keep our ancestors safe and not disturb their fishing? There is only one answer, which is almost the method used by all fishermen, and that is: give her (his) mobile phone and play games casually!

Games are always boring, and mobile phones always make you feel like you have to take care of them. At this time, the little ancestors will clamor to go home. At this time, it may be that the nest has just appeared, or it may be that you just caught two decent fish. How can I go home? How can I go home willingly!

As a last resort, you start to deal with it, "Be good, stop fooling around, and we'll go back when Dad catches two more fish, okay?" Well, in a short time, I caught two ears of wheat, and there was a Tang priest-like whisper in my ear, "Dad, two fish are enough, let's go home." I collapsed. "Come, I'll give you my mobile phone to play for a while, and I'll leave when Dad catches it for a while!"

This is a good thing. If his little ancestor is a super naughty boy, I can guarantee that he will go home if he can't catch 1 hour. Such a small ancestor is simply a "riverside bully." It's not just his father who is "evil", but the fishermen in the neighborhood will "curse" it again, throwing a stone into the water for a while and launching themselves for a while, which makes everyone uneasy.

Then, will foreigners face these situations when they take their children out fishing, and will they be the same as our children?

In the United States and some high-welfare countries in Europe, people are very concerned about their leisure time, and even think that it is above everything else. In order to gain more private time and space for themselves and their families, some areas in many countries have put forward the proposal of working four days a week, which may come true one day.

And I go to work at 9: 00 a.m. and get off work at 5: 00 p.m. every day, and I rarely work overtime. Friends and relatives don't ask each other about their income, and no one really cares. There are fewer white-collar workers and blue-collar workers because their incomes are similar.

Together, these factors allow them to devote themselves to the process of accompanying their children when they have children at home. I have to say that they are better than us in this respect as a whole. The concept of "companionship" is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and children don't have that much homework. Basically, they play after school, which is very different from us!

Taking children out fishing on weekends is definitely a family unit. Both parents will accompany their children, even grandparents will accompany them. This is also very different from us. We usually take it with our father, but our mother seldom does. Usually, my mother may take it with me, but my father is gone. In children's life scenes, it is rare for them to have both parents.

Foreigners take their children fishing. Children are by no means spectators. They should take part in fishing activities in person. In the United States, children aged seven or eight can master many fishing skills skillfully. A three-year-old boy can catch a big fish weighing several kilograms independently, and a five-year-old girl can catch a big fish about her own weight independently. These are actually inseparable from the companionship and encouragement of adults.

Many of our fishermen are obsessed, which may be different from others' leisure psychology! And the life pressure we face may be different from others. We are more than one billion people competing for quantitative living and survival resources, while others are hundreds of millions or even tens of millions, so it is normal for us to be under greater pressure.

So much so that we don't have the patience to take our children out fishing and don't even consider getting them involved. We just take them for "taking" and "seeing". We don't regard them as completely independent individuals at all, and we don't consciously cultivate their quality of life through fishing!

I have tried several times to let my daughter try to finish the fishing process by herself, and it is very difficult to finish the pole throwing. Then I basically put the bait away. After throwing the pole, my daughter is only responsible for lifting the pole, including instructions on the timing of lifting the pole, but she still lacks patience and meticulous teaching. Even so, the two children are very excited and happy. Once, they made a video and uploaded it to the platform, and saw that there was more than 10000.

This is the power of participation!

At this point, the article should be over, fisherman. Since we all love fishing, let's take our children on a real fishing trip! At the same time, tell her that fishing is to find beautiful big fish in the world, not those messy and disturbing small fish. If you have hobbies, you should also pay attention to moderation.

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