Tell me about my son’s senior—Brother Chao

Brother Chao graduated from Xiamen University as a graduate student three years ago. At that time, he and Brother Gui, who was in the same situation, came to Fuzhou to visit the home of his undergraduate student Weng Chen. In the blink of an eye, Brother Chao and Brother Gui, who had been living in Beijing for three years, made an appointment to come to Fuzhou for vacation and send junior Weng Chen off to study in the United States. But Brother Gui had something to do and broke the appointment. Brother Chao knew that he was the only one, but still went ahead with the plan.

Although Brother Chao is 29 years old, he looks so young that he can only feel that he is under 24 years old. She has a small waist, a slim and tall figure, and is polite and generous in dealing with others. Know how to work harder and be better, and know how to relax in life. The following details can be explained:

? Passive and active

On the first night that Brother Chao came to my house, I was not at home. It was my son Weng Chen who was responsible for picking up the new subordinates at the train station. The chef's dinner reception may be some "dark cuisine".

Take a night off. I'm busy elsewhere.

The next day, I opened Chaoge’s WeChat account and proactively expressed “welcome” and “apology—I’m not at home.” Brother Chao responded to my message. Brother Chao didn't greet me in advance, saying "Auntie, I'm coming to your house" and so on. Because I am the master, this is the "power" displayed by Brother Chao passively!

The next day, Brother Chao and the others came to stay at Qianmo Farm. Two days later in the evening, Weng Chen called: "Mom, Brother Chao and I went to the beach to play in the evening. Brother Chao said, please come too." Although Brother Chao is here, we seem to be busy in our own circles. So, I immediately agreed to meet up somewhere. Rather than going to the beach to play, I would rather use this scene to "party" with the two children. This was Brother Chao's "initiative" - ??he went out to play anyway...

Clean and quiet

Weng Chen was leaving for the United States early the next morning. Brother Chao bought air tickets for the same time period, so we can go to the airport together.

I will go home first in the morning. There are two bedrooms, I can’t tell which one Brother Chao stayed in on the first night? Similarly, the room where Brother Chao stayed on his last night was left in a "spotless" environment when he left, with pillows and sheets neatly arranged. When they returned home in the evening, the whole family began to unpack their belongings again. Brother Chao is quietly doing himself in his room. He knows he can't help, and he doesn't hang around in front of us, like air.

? Traveling in Beijing

Brother Chao is from Shandong. From what he described about what he did when he was a child, he must have been born in a rural area. But he looks smart and clean, and has a good Mandarin appearance. After graduating from graduate school, he chose to work in Beijing, which is more than an hour away from his hometown and has a professional platform. In the first year, the salary was 8,000, and he lived in a "dwelling" with only a small bed, and the rent was 2,000. So he stayed at the company at night and only went home to sleep. Listening to what he said, I intuitively understood the picture of "dwelling in a small house". Now, he has switched jobs to a state-owned enterprise as a special employee, with a salary of 30,000 yuan. He said that a salary of 8,000 yuan is too low in Beijing and is not enough for living expenses. After earning work qualifications, he easily found his current job and is about to start saving money. Salary is not only money, but also a reflection of a person's value and ability. However, the house price in Beijing is about 80,000 per square meter. "Even if you get a loan, you are still far away from the down payment!"

It seems that it is really "Beijing, Beijing"!

Brother Chao’s work in Beijing is still related to his major “biostatistics”. I think Brother Chao has established himself well in Beijing, relying on his professional knowledge and intelligence!

? The movement is appropriate

This trip lasted five days before Brother Chao came to Fuzhou. Although Weng Chen's family was busy, Brother Chao was very clear and we didn't seem to have received him specially, but it was so comfortable! Although they come as guests, the current generation of children do not have so much politeness between host and guest. They each do their own thing in their own space, and only come together when necessary to eat, play, and play together. Brother Chao and Weng Chen seemed to do this tacitly. Sincere but not too polite. At the banquet table, Brother Chao, like the four classmates from the Wengchen Affiliated High School, did all the toasting to their elders, and those who should enjoy the seafood delicacies also ate generously. I feel like Brother Chao really likes seafood as he said. The daughter of my classmate used to only eat seafood like red sturgeon in Fuzhou. After coming back from school in Beijing, she ate all kinds of seafood - she must be really greedy. Brother Chao packed up the remaining seafood from the table and brought it to Weng Chen's house.

It seems that Brother Chao is quite good at getting along! ? Brother Chao can sing and dub and was also a host at Xiamen University. We also had a lot of fun on the beach on Langqi Island!

Hidden wisdom

Since graduating and working, Brother Chao has been basically invisible in the circle of friends for three years except for posting in a few or two circles of friends at the beginning. Two years ago, his son studied in Beijing for 20 days. Brother Chao knew that brother Weng and Chen were in Beijing, but he did not ask to meet and remained invisible. I thought how calm this kid was - I secretly praised him! Now, the value of personal work has reached a higher level, and Beijing has taken root more firmly. Three years later, in the same summer, Brother Chao "appeared". Speaking of showing up, he also took the opportunity of a business trip to Sichuan to stop by Fuzhou.

I said, this kid can work and live, he can advance, attack, retreat and defend. Not bad, really good!

Why do you feel like I’m a bit of a marriage prospector for Brother Chao? That's definitely not my point anymore. However, if you think so, it doesn’t matter. Beijing is not Brother Chao’s hometown anyway, and it’s the same when you come to Fuzhou. Going to Beijing together with girls who have the same eye is also an option. Haha, that’s a long way to go. What I want to express is to give my son’s senior a thumbs up and draw a portrait. I hope that the younger generation of children who have the chance to read this article will benefit from it and be enlightened.

Brother Chao, welcome back to Fuzhou in three years.