Should I accept my mother-in-law's red envelope?

Mother-in-law wants to receive red envelopes. If she doesn't accept them, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may split. If you feel that your mother-in-law is red and burdened, on the one hand, you can express your gratitude to her mother-in-law on WeChat, invite her to visit local attractions and have a big meal to give back to her mother-in-law. In short, if the mother-in-law sends a red envelope, she should still accept it, which will make the daughter-in-law look cheerful and open-minded. First, how to say thank you for your mother-in-law's red envelope? 1. Fade. If your mother-in-law insists on giving you a red envelope, you can ask your husband's opinion. If your husband asks you to receive a red envelope, accept it and remember to say thank you. 2. When you are ready to get married, go to your boyfriend's house. Your boyfriend's mother may give you a red envelope. You can usually accept a red envelope at this time, but don't forget to say thank you. Dessert, make a good impression. After marriage, mother-in-law is just like her own mother. If your mother-in-law gives you a red envelope, you are welcome. Accept it. Mother-in-law is kind to you, so you should be kind to her. Pay more attention to them at ordinary times and buy some gifts on holidays. Be really good to each other, so that the family will be very harmonious. In general, the mother-in-law's red envelope is acceptable. After receiving the red envelope, you can buy some small gifts for your mother-in-law, which is also very suitable. If you choose a gift, you can ask your husband and mother-in-law what they like and choose the right gift according to their preferences. Second, should my mother-in-law transfer money to you on WeChat? 1. If it's a holiday, birthday or something, it's actually acceptable for your mother-in-law to give you a red envelope. My mother-in-law is willing to give you a red envelope to show her love and blessing. Remember to say thank you when she accepts it. You can give your mother-in-law a red envelope or buy gifts at an appropriate time, such as her birthday and Mother's Day. If you are asked to buy something for me, if the amount is not large, you'd better not accept it. It's all from your own family. Collecting money is a stranger. If the amount is relatively large, you can discuss it with your husband and see what he says. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, do you want to accept the mother-in-law's red envelope? 1. Get a marriage certificate. Does your mother-in-law give red envelopes? 1. Some mothers-in-law will prepare red envelopes when their sons marry their daughters-in-law, which means good luck and smoothness. This red envelope also represents the respect and recognition of the man's parents for his daughter-in-law, which is conducive to enhancing the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so give a red envelope. 2. Gifts Some mother-in-law don't like to send cash directly, and will prepare wedding gifts for the couple. There are many kinds of gifts, which can be bedclothes, small household appliances, jewelry and so on. Always a gift that can express her mother-in-law's heart. It doesn't really matter whether it's expensive or not. 2. How much does it cost to get a marriage certificate? You can get 1, 100 1 or 1000 1, because these two kinds of red envelopes represent the meaning of one in a thousand, which is beneficial to the good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and I believe the woman will be happy. 2. You can also choose to wrap a small red envelope, which means that the amount can be selected from lucky numbers such as 200 and 600, because China people always pay attention to yes-men. There is no hard and fast rule about getting a marriage certificate. It should be based on the ideological concept and economic level of the man's family. 3. When do parents usually give their daughter-in-law red envelopes? 1, the first time I go home with my boyfriend to meet my parents, I usually receive a red envelope from my future mother-in-law. This represents the attention and recognition of the other parents, and also shows that both men and women have entered the stage of talking about marriage. 2. For the first time after the wedding, the bride usually receives red envelopes from her parents-in-law and relatives! In many places, before getting married and having children, the mother-in-law will give her daughter-in-law a New Year red envelope. The reason is that at this time, the other parents have regarded you as their own child, and wrapping a red envelope is to express their love for you. At the wedding, both parents will give red envelopes, commonly known as change. After accepting the red envelope, I no longer call my uncle and aunt, but my parents. My mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a bad relationship. Do you want to accept your mother-in-law's red envelope? Even so, I still can't calm my mind. My mother told me one thing before I went to visit, that is, never accept red envelopes from future in-laws, and told me many things that need attention, which made me feel a little more confident. In the future parents-in-law's home, all the self-confidence built up disappears instantly, leaving only tension. If my boyfriend hadn't been holding my hand, I wouldn't have dared to come in. People are always too afraid of the unknown, imagining countless terrible results makes them flinch, and finally it turns out that's all. But my mother-in-law is so persistent that I can't refuse at all and have to accept it. During the dinner, my parents-in-law didn't ask me any uncomfortable questions. We were chatting like friends. It's just that I always have a feeling that my mother-in-law occasionally reveals a trace of contempt when she looks at me. The idea has no basis, only my sixth sense, but I didn't take it seriously. After dinner and chatting with my in-laws, I want to get up and leave. At this time, my mother-in-law stopped me and insisted on giving me a red envelope. I remembered my mother's teaching and found various reasons to refuse. But my mother-in-law is so persistent that I can't refuse at all and have to accept it. My mother is firmly opposed to my past passion for marriage. Once I overdo it, I can't achieve the expected effect. If something goes wrong, there will be demons. This statement must be reasonable. It's normal for my mother-in-law to give me a red envelope, but it doesn't look like this to me. I just feel very heavy with a heavy red envelope. When I got home, I told my mother about it. My mother took the red envelope directly. After opening it, she said to me angrily, "Don't get married. You must never marry into their house. " I can't figure out why my mother became so determined. I didn't understand what was going on until I saw the amount in the red envelope. The red envelope looks heavy, but it has no weight at all. There are piles of money in it, and the visual inspection will not exceed 100 yuan. I'm not an idiot. I can't fail to see my mother-in-law's intentions. Now I suddenly understand why I feel contempt in her eyes. I still remember feeling a little guilty and self-doubt at that time. Now that I think about it, I'm really a little silly. That's not my imagination. Everything happened as expected. I was born in the countryside, and my family conditions are not particularly good. Later, my parents made some small money, bought a house in the city, and their registered permanent residence was still in the countryside. I always thought my parents-in-law wouldn't mind, but now I really think too much. How could I not mind? Finally, I chose to break up with my boyfriend. Analysis: Is the concept of family really that important? In today's society, the concept of family status has been widely concerned. Is this sentence really correct? The answer to this question is difficult to answer. Different people have different experiences. Congenital deficiency can be made up the day after tomorrow, and emotional things are not that simple. Growing up in different environments means that they look at things differently and pursue different goals. Lovers only care about the feeling of being together and don't care about each other's family conditions. This kind of people are idealistic, and they are eager to have a spiritual partner who fits their hearts. Industrialists, who have long-term goals, are not particularly emotional in doing things, and are more rational in handling emotional things, and will not let themselves be burdened by feelings. They want someone who can walk side by side with them. Such people are stingy with their feelings, live too sober and look a little cold. The mother-in-law in the story is a hypocritical person, seemingly amiable, but that is the case, which increases the difficulties of the heroine. This kind of behavior is extremely disrespectful, which directly leads to the end of this marriage before it begins. Before a girl gets married, she must visit her mother-in-law more often. Her mother-in-law's attitude, and the way your future husband handles you and her future mother-in-law are all factors you consider. Marriage is never particularly simple. It is even more difficult for two people to be together all their lives. They will inevitably encounter a lot of friction. Some contradictions can be solved, but some contradictions can't be solved anyway. If the other family looks down on you, you must remain confident and not be led by the nose. Conclusion: All men are born equal. No one is born superior. If you don't respect others, you will only be despised by others You don't need to please those who don't deserve it, just be a hero in your own world.