The 30-year-old man said nothing in a decadent way.

As the old saying goes, stand at thirty. Building a family is building a family. However, according to the background of the times, the current 30-year-old can no longer be compared with the ancient 30-year-old, especially in today's world environment, many 30-year-old people are still in the process of establishment.

Therefore, this topic seems really unnecessary to discuss.

Some people will definitely raise objections. Many famous people have achieved success before the age of 30, but I say that the success of most successful people is set at around the age of 30, which should be the closest answer.

But here, I still have to answer the first question: what are your values in life? What are you living for? What is your definition of success?

The world today is diversified, allowing different voices, different ways and different rules. Therefore, first of all, we must emphasize that we should respect everyone's life choices, value and standard of living he wants. As long as he can recognize and accept it, the outside world has no right to judge, except for crimes.

Then let's see, the general meaning of this theme will still be defined as success, as achievements in career, material and personal influence, which is the so-called success recognized in the traditional sense. As for other forms of marginalization, I will not discuss them for the time being. In fact, I personally prefer the lifestyle of individual marginalization.

So at the age of 30, nothing has been achieved. Is it too late?

To tell the truth, it's not too late. The time target I gave was 35 years old. Why? Because I am 30 years old, I have basically struggled in the society for nearly 10 years. Of course, some postgraduate entrance examinations are not considered. But considering from the majority principle, because after all, only a few people have achieved great success in their twenties, this is a low probability event, so we will only say the majority.

According to the law of career development, most people graduate around the age of 22, and generally have a wandering and confused period of about three years after work, and then enter a stable period of career development, which is exactly five years until they are 30 years old. Five years means that a person can grow from a clerk to a department manager. Let me ask, is becoming a department manager a success? You must answer no, but at least you should have certain connections and popularity in this circle, as well as good career growth planning and hard indicators of professional quality, as well as the maturity of social and professional environment. With these, we have the strength and opportunity to reach the standard of success before the age of 35.

35 years old is the first 10 year when he really started his career. Generally speaking, in 10, he has reached the standard of becoming an expert in the industry, and can basically realize the growth path from staff to directors and executives. At the age of 35, he has matured in personality, dealing with people, dealing with the relationship between superiors and subordinates, social relations, personal resources and understanding of life. At this age, it should be the most proud time for a man. He has a mature personality, a stable family, good health, sufficient energy and no heavy financial and family burden. At this stage, although he is in high spirits, his career is thriving. Therefore, at this age, we should be arrogant but not dry, and modest but not impetuous.

Therefore, judging from the above career growth, it is not too late to be unsuccessful at the age of 30, and you still have five years to grow and struggle. However, at the age of 30, if you haven't finished the definition of occupation and don't have a proper career plan, although we can't dominate your life, it's not appropriate to have no plan. Only by planning and preparing well can you have the strength to go your own way or have the opportunity to open up a new voyage. For example, if you have been engaged in sales, you can start a business in the future. For example, those who have been engaged in personnel can consult in the future. For example, if you have been engaged in business, you can have multiple identities like Yuan Yue, writing books, hosting, doing public welfare, being a traveler and being a gourmet.

The world is changing so fast that many truths or words that were right before may be subverted now or later. Therefore, in fact, I don't think age can be used to define the standard of successful years. With the development of science and technology, a few-year-old children have published many books, and it is normal for child stars, scientists and teenagers to start businesses. So our thinking is constantly being challenged and subverted. We must adapt and catch up. We have to say that this is a society where the fittest survive. However, I believe that the chances of success are greater than before, because the world is becoming more and more flat and developing rapidly, which shows that opportunities are increasing and there is enough room for imagination. The world is more and more like the ocean. You can swim freely, but it depends on how you swim, whether you can find the fulcrum and realize the qualitative change of diving into Longmen!