The meaning of school bullying, what will be the consequences of school bullying?

School bullying refers to bullying and extortion among classmates, while school bullying mostly occurs in primary and secondary schools. Because many countries implement the nine-year compulsory education system, victims will be bullied for a long time. The process of bullying involves a complex interactive state. Bullying classmates will cause psychological problems to classmates, affect health and even affect personality development.

Its main performance is that strong students bully weak students and make them suffer physically and mentally. School bullying is usually a recurring event, not a single event. Sometimes one person bullies another; Sometimes you bully a person collectively.

Usually the bully doesn't feel that he is wrong, and the victim is afraid to bear it silently and dare not resist reporting the bully. Therefore, the vicious circle leads to the physical and mental pain of the victims.

The consequences of school bullying are two-sided, affecting both the victim and the bully.

First, for the victims, every step on the way to school is like going to the grave.

1. Insomnia children who have been bullied on campus may have more sleep problems, and the severity of the problems will increase with the increase of contact bullying.

2. The depression level of school bullying victims with mental disorder is significantly higher than that of children who have never been bullied. Suffering from severe bullying may even lead to the victim suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

3. Feeling lack of self-confidence and inferiority. The more bullying experiences and the longer the time, the lower the level of individual self-esteem.

4. Bullying that affects normal learning will lead to cognitive impairment, such as memory loss and inattention. Children who are bullied often show a decline in academic performance, skipping classes or even dropping out of school. In China, it is generally the case that only one thing affects the performance of children, and parents will pay attention to whether their children have encountered any problems. How sensitive our parents are to the decline of their children's grades, how dull they are to their children's mental health.

Children who are bullied by serious behavior problems are likely to have behavior disorders and anti-social personality in adulthood. In every 15 school shootings in the United States, 12 gunmen have been bullied.

These negative physiological, psychological and behavioral effects may cause more and more serious bullying, which will lead to a vicious circle of bullying. China implements nine-year compulsory education, which is a nine-year crime for those bullied children. Long-term adversity will lead to the long-term activation of people's emotional response system, which is very harmful to mental health. Especially for developing children, the brain has strong plasticity, and this chronic stress will even cause permanent damage to brain neurons.

Second, for bullies, first of all, behavioral experiments show that when you become a bully, you will not benefit. On the contrary, bullies may experience strong anger, shame and guilt when bullying others.

Secondly, bullying may be acquired. Many perpetrators of bullying may also be the targets of bullying, which may be a behavior pattern learned from parents. Such children are at high risk of depression, anxiety and suicide. Bullies don't win, they don't become strong, and life will not be easy. According to the survey, children who used to be in school bullying as children are at higher risk of participating in violent incidents, drinking, taking drugs and committing crimes when they grow up.