If you are 25 years old now, would you like to sit in the office and have tea every day?

A woman's youth is only once, and every woman wants to marry the person she likes at the youngest age.

However, we are often hit in the face by reality.

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I have a good friend who is going to get married and buy a house, but the purchase is limited and the full amount is paid. Let them flinch, maybe in a few years, it will be difficult for them to buy a house in their own city.

At first, because of a chance encounter, we slowly came together and lived together for seven years, almost time to get married.

For those who are almost 30 years old, they want to have a suite and a home of their own when they are 30 years old, so that they can live and work in this city without a house. They always feel that marriage is not guaranteed. This is the status quo of many young people.

Many netizens will say, how many young people can afford it now that the house price is so high? It is also said that the hard time has not yet arrived, and marry a man who has no house or car.

A city, a city called paradise, is hard to find even 2 million houses, which is really not easy for an ordinary office worker.

Buying a house has become a luxury, and getting married is even more unimaginable. Some people will say that marrying love will be more secure than marrying a house, but who can guarantee that love will always be fresh?

Yes, if you were only in your twenties and could get married in a rented house, what would you choose?

Marrying the right person is always more important than marrying a house?

Home or house, who would you choose?

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There are always people who can't afford a house, but they can buy a home.

I met a boy, Xiao Qin, when I was drifting in the North. Xiao Qin, who graduated from two colleges, fell in love with an older girl. This relationship, almost everyone is not optimistic, except the girlfriend's parents.

Many people don't understand, the girl's parents said a detail.

In 2009, they came to see Xiao Qin for the first time. They took the rhetoric of persuading them to break up, but changed their mind when they entered the rented house.

Although it is only a small house, it is managed by Xiao Qin. Pure white tablecloth and photo wall. The bedside is a thick professional book. Open the refrigerator in the living room, which is full of all kinds of snacks that my daughter likes to eat.

The girl's parents said that there may be many people who can afford a house in Beijing, but not many people can make the rented house feel at home. Such a person is trustworthy.

Three years later, Xiao Qin got married and lived in a rented house. Three years later, they returned to their hometown and bought a spacious house. The days are so sweet that they are about to explode.

Different people always have different choices. Beishangguang is not the only one, and there is a beautiful hometown waiting for you to build.

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You think the love in the rented house won't last long. You think the love in the rented house is embarrassing, but there will always be people living colorful lives.

A young couple moved into a room rented by a friend. One day, they brought wedding candy.

The weight is small, but the package is beautiful, just like a customized Valentine's Day gift.

I have been to their house occasionally, and I can see it at the door. The room is clean. Although they are tenants, they bought a lot of furniture and appliances at their own expense, and even a sweeper with a price of 1000 yuan.

Life is not about renting a house, just casually; Life is where we are going. It is better to rent a house than to go on a diet.

Young wives are often seen waiting for their husbands to come back downstairs. Then they go shopping hand in hand. Then, the smell of food came upstairs.

What is a sense of belonging? A sense of belonging doesn't mean what kind of house you live in. A sense of belonging means one room, three meals for two people and four seasons.

What is a sense of security? A sense of security means that there is always a house for two people and there is always a person waiting for you to go back.

We spent 2 million to buy a house, or we can spend 2 million to rent a house, and we can still live a warm and happy life.

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There is a topic in the first issue of Qipa Shuo, whether to buy a house in a big city.

A debater asked, if you return to 20 years old, would you like to get married in a rented house?

At the moment of high housing prices, this is a problem that puzzles countless people.

Can I marry someone whose financial conditions are temporarily bad? In fact, there is no such thing as "temporary bad economic conditions". Whether a person is worth getting married depends only on two points.

First, is he willing to be nice to you? Second, is he an ambitious man?

Being willing to be nice to you shows that your happiness index is higher than ordinary people. He has an enterprising heart, which means that the potential index of your life is infinite.

If so, even if you are temporarily displaced, even if you have only 3,000 yuan a month for the time being, even if you live in a rented house for the time being, these are just "transition periods".

A good relationship won't stop you from getting married because you can't afford a house. A better life will not come because of short-term difficulties, just a little later.

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I'm not saying that you should not buy a house. If you have the strength, please buy a house as soon as possible.

I'm not saying that any rented house can be used as a wedding room. At least it should be like home, with love and temperature.

What I want to emphasize is, in fact, don't refuse a temporarily poor and enterprising young man who loves you.

Writer Liu Liu once said that if she were to be 20 years old again, she would still choose the man she liked and enjoy a beautiful love with him from the beginning. The reason is that she is 40 years old now and already knows the result. Those houses and cars, good or bad, will always be there as long as they live and work hard. But 20-year-old two of a kind, with her youthful body and bitter smiles and tears, can never come back after those life experiences.

The most terrible thing in this world is not that a person has no house, but that he has nothing and no house yet.

On the contrary, the most beautiful thing in this world is that you feed horses, chop wood and work together with the people you like, and then you have a house facing the CBD, and spring blossoms.

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