Smart men never help women "these things", but stupid men will intervene again and again. Why?

Feelings and friendship are never maintained by one person, but cherished by two people together. If you are no longer loved, learn to turn around. If you are not cherished, you must learn to give up.

We often hear a saying: "Love should be said out loud", but I think men are not so emotional in their feelings. We China people are relatively restrained and reserved, especially when men and women express their love. However, with the development of the times, a new generation of young people have become very good at expressing their feelings in recent years.

Some people like to listen to romantic love stories, some people find this expression glib, but most people are visual and auditory "animals". Appropriate love stories, such as: I love you and miss you, can raise a warm sun in the hearts of lovers in love.

But you should get along step by step, or girls will think you are "love rat". Show Lo and Zhou Yangqing are very popular news recently. They usually take good care of you, but this does not prevent Show Lo from cheating. In love, you need to observe the other half for a long time, and don't rush to entrust it for life.

It is not rhetoric for girls to observe boys, nor is it pretending to take care of him. It depends on whether he is self-motivated, whether he is concerned about people around his friends, whether he is concerned about his parents, and how he behaves when interacting with other girls. These are all good ways to test a person.

Girls can get into their feelings slowly, and don't be impatient. Usually you need to enrich yourself and grow yourself. Listen to the opinions of people around you, because the onlookers see clearly.

A man who always talks about it may not really love you.

When you are young, you can be desperate. Maybe you can commit yourself for life because of a boy's "I love you". At that time, you thought that two people loved each other to the extreme. Later, when I met some things, I gradually realized a lot of things. Men who often say sweet words may not really love each other.

Proper love between lovers can enhance each other's feelings, but it is too "cheap" to say love every day. Love comes from feeling rather than blurting it out without thinking.

In my grandparents' time, they probably never said I love you, and even if they did, they would be shy after thinking for a long time. Now I love you is a common thing, every couple must have this sentence, but think about it carefully. Do they really love you? I just blurted it out.

2. true love, you don't say it in your heart.

Sometimes couples say I love you 100 times, but they can't catch up with the happiness of standing behind you in times of trouble, just like we need umbrellas when it rains and chopsticks when we eat. Good feelings are always accompanied silently, not with their mouths.

I believe many people are old enough to listen to love, so we should know that oral love is not true, and only confession in action is the love that is really needed.

3. Love needs to be experienced and felt together.

Love and not love are the clearest between two people. Time is a very good medicine that can help us "explore". Love needs management, and unprecedented things need to be solved together.

Many boys say that women are too difficult to chase nowadays, but they are not, but that love is too casual now. Simple love words and I love you. Don't you want a woman to gamble with you all her life? So don't believe what you say about love, or you will hurt others and yourself.

Love must be experienced and felt by two people together, so that we can know whether this person wants it or not, otherwise we will regret it later.

4. Love words have the lowest cost

Silly women believe in love words. In love, men like to make promises to a woman, and women like to listen to their promises, but what they don't know is that promises and sweet words don't need to be acted upon, and they can be fooled by moving their mouths. So the cost of love words is the lowest. If you like someone, you must look at his dedication to you, so that your feelings will be stronger.

"When you are high above, I will shrink back and let you shine alone; But if you are at a low tide, I will rush in, gently surround you, hug you and give you warmth. " This is a sentence written by Liu Xiaoqing in "Life is not afraid to start again". From this point of view, true love is never spoken by mouth, but embodied by practical actions. Only in this way can love last longer and the feelings of two people be stronger.

I hope everyone's love can stand the test of time. Only in this way can there be more sweetness around us in life.