How does the boyfriend seem to have depression?

First of all, we should make a clear diagnosis, and then drug treatment, psychological counseling and environmental support should be carried out simultaneously.

My boyfriend seems to have depression. If he suffers from depression and you love him, you can help him out of trouble. At this time, he needs the care and care of his relatives most. Since you are his lover, he needs your care and comfort more. Depression is not terrible. The terrible thing is that people with depression can't get the understanding and frustration of their relatives. Friends believe that you won't be angry with your relatives. The best treatment is to take him out for fun. Get rid of his inner pressure and self-confidence, help him get rid of all his troubles and inspire him to love life. Friend, you are a panacea to cure your lover's illness. I believe you can help your beloved out of trouble.

This cannot be judged as depression. Accurately speaking, have you entered a confused period, not knowing what to do, feeling bored in life, playing games late, feeling groggy all day, unable to play, and a little decadent? If so, it is not depression.

First of all, I don't know if your boyfriend lives alone, but I judge that he is probably a quiet and introverted person with little social interaction. He likes to be alone for a long time. Don't judge such a situation by illness first. You say that you are in a long-distance relationship abroad, which is worse than at home. I hardly see you when I return to China without a holiday. Boys of this age don't tell their parents what they think or feel, and sometimes they think it's strange to talk to their buddies too seriously, but he's so far away from you, I'm afraid he won't understand, regardless of WeChat SMS and phone video. Maybe he is just confused and can't release it, so he just plays games to kill time, because he won't think again in the process.

There is no denying that I once had this period, even for a short time after graduation. Of course, if you know your boyfriend's character and conduct well enough and trust him fully, don't explain his current situation to him too directly. Whenever you return to China for a long time, spend more time together, don't let your feelings fade, and don't let him feel lonely. People with this personality tend to be lonely for a long time.

On the other hand, if you study abroad and he goes to school at home, he may even think that when he enters the society, he will unconsciously think that your situation is much better than his, whether he is worthy of marrying you or not, and will doubt his ability and parents' views in the future. Don't think it's strange. Maybe he's worried about it, but it's not convenient to tell you. Every time he has this idea, he will say it later. In this way, he is not confident. When he thinks he will not be confident in front of you, he will naturally feel confused. So I think when you are together face to face, have a good talk with him, but don't let him feel that you are blaming him. Let him know that you trust him completely, because you are the driving force for everything, and you won't even understand how important you are to him.

People will see a lot, contact a lot and change a lot in the process of going from school to society, so don't let the changes of you two produce too many different directions. It is impossible not to change. You are all at school, and you all know the seniors. Listening to what they say, or seeing what happened to them, may all be related to you. The most important thing is not to have barriers and misunderstandings. For example, I used to have a good relationship with my first love, and then she left home for more than two years because of work. Many times, there is a misunderstanding, and you can't tell why. Maybe both of them are upset and cranky because of misunderstanding, but neither of them has a chance to sit down and talk about how much they miss each other. Send WeChat and make a phone call occasionally when you are busy every day, until both of them feel strange. Finally, we broke up without quarreling. I met her once in the past. She didn't hug as badly as before, but stood where she was. When I felt that she seemed different, I knew it was not just anger. Maybe it was because we were too young and impulsive to make things clear, so we separated when both sides knew it was a misunderstanding. I'm still single, maybe because I can't forget it, maybe because I regret not talking about it at that time, and I don't even know why, but I'm used to living alone. I don't know the details of your boyfriend. The example I gave was only myself. I just want to remind you that he may think so now, and you may have this symptom now, so don't let misunderstanding happen and don't let each other feel alienated. The emotional foundation is no better.

Finally, I hope that when you return to China during the holiday, you will be very happy together and can solve this situation. By the way, if you know your boyfriend completely and he is virtuous, his situation will not be depression or self-indulgence, but temporary confusion, because he knows that he still has you and he still has a lot to do for you. He may have put a lot of pressure on this idea, and he may be wondering if he can make your life better in the future. Hug him when he is confused. Girls are precocious than boys. Help your boyfriend tide over the difficulties, and he will give you a happy life.

First, you should accompany him to see a doctor to determine whether he suffers from depression. Then you need to accompany him as much as possible, understand him, listen to him, express your approval, give him warmth and confidence, and make him feel that there is still love supporting him in this world. If you love him, help him out of depression.

Go to the hospital!

If someone you care about openly expresses suicidal thoughts or often commits suicidal behaviors, you will be worried and anxious. You care about him, so you don't want to leave him for fear of an accident. When you are with him, you worry about him. When you are not with him, you still worry about him and worry about him.

What you didn't expect is that if you are worried all the time, the pressure on you will accumulate unconsciously, and at a certain time, it will break out.

Of course, I made this a little serious, but my purpose is only one, to make you realize that depression is not easy to deal with.

Now you just feel that your boyfriend seems to have depression, so you should persuade him to go to the hospital for diagnosis as soon as possible. In the process of persuasion, we must be extremely patient and not afraid to delay time and work until the depression is clarified.

But now, if you want to decide whether to do it or not, you must think it over carefully. If you decide to help your boyfriend, you should always be able to accompany your boyfriend, help him out of depression and overcome depression with him.

If your work and life are seriously affected when you do these jobs, the overall quality of your personal life begins to decline; You are beginning to bother your boyfriend; You really find it unbearable. But at that time, you can never choose to leave him. If you had left him, it would have hurt your boyfriend.

So now you have to choose whether you can still be friends with other places, which requires your own judgment and choice.

The word "depression" is not just for people. This is a disease. If you want to know if there is, go to the hospital for a check-up.

My boyfriend seems to have depression. Did he get it or not? How to judge that he has depression?

What are his symptoms? How long has it been? What caused him to be unhappy recently? What is his personality? For the question you want to answer, you can write down his personal situation in detail so that you can judge. Even if you go to the hospital, the doctor should ask questions, or check it first. No one can order medicine directly because of your words. This is irresponsible to the patient, and the doctor will not do it.

You are his girlfriend. If you want to help him, you can search online for questions about depression, and there are some depression tests, which I have also tested. Knowing this can better help him recuperate. There is a high probability that patients with depression will recover by family and love. Friendship can't be ignored, because some young friends are depressed because of problems with people.

Now, I'd better go to the hospital for a check-up. I'd better find a Chinese medicine doctor to feel my pulse and help me adjust. Depression generally has symptoms such as stagnation of liver qi, hyperactivity of liver fire and poor sleep. If it is mild depression, it is helpful to recuperate your body first and solve these problems.

Some personality problems are actually due to physical problems.

Then there are psychological problems. What's his problem? People with depression should give themselves an outlet to say unhappy things, and it will become more and more uncomfortable to hold them in their hearts. It will also aggravate the condition.

If he doesn't talk, you really can't do anything about him. If you have the conditions, you can travel, climb mountains, and conquer the mountains itself is refreshing. Climb high and look far, broaden your horizons, and people's thinking will recover from the debris. Shout a voice again and shout out your inner grievances, and you will feel much more comfortable in an instant.

Or go to see the sea. Feel the rough and magnificent sea, and the broad mind of the sea will invisibly pass on the gas field to us, so that our experience can be relaxed.

Personally, I think Huangshan is a good choice. You can climb the mountain and see those ancient Huizhou buildings in the Ming and Qing Dynasties. Hongcun is a beautiful place, full of paintings. I can't stop taking pictures, and I accidentally fall behind. I really don't know where to look in the criss-crossing streets.